It is not easy to find right date as only good looks and huge bank balance is not what is important.

There are no hard and fast rules to follow if you want a boyfriend to date but surely one can follow some criteria while choosing their date if you want peace and sanity in relationship.

Today we have list down about people whom ladies should stay away :

1.  You Should Never Date A Coward

We are not being traditional as this is a fact, women like when their partner stand up for her and ready present to the world as girl friend. If he is a coward then he will be incapable of exhibiting love for you and will not support you or be ready to help you in any situation no matter what. If he is fearful as soon as he confronts any uncomfortable situation then definitely he is not a keeper.

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Girlfriends are a weird lot.

They will love you, care for you and even may down their lives for you, but when it comes to intimacy, they are surprisingly shy…blame it on our upbringing or the Indian society or even on our own mindsets, getting intimate, especially, going all the way…is something we would avoid before marriage.

Ouch. And here are he ten random excuses that your girlfriend has in store for such sexy moments…

I am on my period;
One of the best tools women have at their disposal is this. Tell him you’re chumming and he is not going to bother going down or up or anywhere near you. He knows the mood swings and other issues that period brings along, so he will be extra careful with you. If you’re PMSing, god save him from your wrath and moody behaviour!

It’s a Tuesday:
We have all met women who think sex is dirty. But have you met girls who think sex on Tuesday is yuck? Apparently, gods disapprove of sexual happiness on certain days. Because…nobody knows why!

I will put on weight:
Having fears of pregnancy is understandable, but being worried about piling on weight is plain stupid! Yes, women do slightly blossom after sex…but it only adds on to their beauty and grace.

What will they say?
This is the original killjoy of the world. Women, in order to not get intimate, put the blame on ‘them’ by asking an innocent question, ‘what will they say?’ No, madam. They won’t say anything, because they don’t care.

I am fasting today:
Oh dear. If she says she is fasting, she probably has no energy to get down and dirty. But if she is my fasting and just pretending to be, she doesn’t have the hots for you. Get it?

My head is aching:
You can substitute it with head, legs, tummy it anything else. Women will most definitely give such excuses to avoid getting intimate with you.

Not feeling romantic enough:
Ouch, ouch and ouch. It’s not only a plain no to you, but also a slap on the face for being unromantic. This could very well be a valid reason, but mostly it’s a fake one that women use to get out of icky situations. Nobody can force her to kiss and tell when she is not even feeling romantic.

It’s too hot/ cold/windy/rainy:
If nothing else, blame it on the season. It’s too hot, so how am I going to get any action between the sheets. It’s too cold to even move. It’s too windy and scary to do anything romantic.

Today is no kissing day:
Yes! Women can come up with any excuse to put you off. From ‘no kiss’ days to ‘no touching’ days, they have many aces up their sleeves. Beware!

You’re stinking:
If she wants you to lose the moment and forget about ever getting intimate, she will throw this one at you. You’ll hate yourself for even broaching the topic of love and sex. Who wants to make out with a stinky poo?!

Remember that she is giving all these excuses because she is not comfortable doing the deed before marriage or because she is from a conservative family. Don’t force her…let her take her time. Because it has to be special.

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Sex Life – Sex is the key factor for any relationship to prosper and when there is lack of sex, the relationship is knocked down by its face most of the times.

Having a doctor boyfriend is a dream come true for many women, obviously for their successful career in the long haul but it can gradually be really daunting when you start taking up less space in his daily schedule because his career demands him to be overtly busy. Doctors are cocky but make great boyfriends nonetheless because they show perseverance in a relationship but a myth looms along the horizon that sex life with a gynaecologist boyfriend becomes boring.

Well, when you are dating a doctor with the said specialization, you need to be prepared for every eventuality and here are the reasons why you can’t have an amazing sex life with your gynaecologist boyfriend:

He would judge you on the merits of other women he sees at work:

Since he is a gynaecologist, there will be no dearth of other women in his life because he is a ladies’ doctor. So, of course he will be spoilt for choices and he will judge you a lot on that merit. Be prepared for that, we say!

Your best friend might visit him for consultation too:

Well, that’s ghastly. We are not giving you cold sweat over thinking about their potential affair, we are just saying he will get a glimpse of her privates and imagine you three sitting together chilling and giving blank stares at each other out of awkwardness.

He might deliver your child when he becomes your husband:

Because, charity begins at home. It gives us creeps already to imagine our husbands as our doctors but then on the other side, you will trust him in blindfolds that he will only do the best for you.

Your sex life will be irregular:

Not due to his busy schedule but due to his lack of interest in your body because a woman’s body is his professional subject and he won’t like to bring his work home.

He will bring his knowledge in the bedroom:

He will rather elucidate you on the biological theories and stimulation things more than doing practical stuff with you which will be really boring eventually for you.

There will be no surprises in your sex life:

Because a woman’s body is his subject and he will not be surprised even if you spend a fortune on your babydoll nighties. He will yawn away while you play the sultry diva before him which we can’t begin to imagine how annoying would be.

We have the testimony to prove that you will surely not have a great sex life with your gynaecologist boyfriend. But wait, don’t keep the poor fellas bachelors for life, because exceptions are always there.

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Save your relationship – There are many things that plague a rather healthy relationship between a boy and a girl.

One of predominant one of them is that we take each other for granted halfway through the relationship. The willy-nilly hangouts, the late night romantic calls, sex everything turns boring and you ask each other to cut a slack.

But then taking someone for granted also symbolizes that you have found your soulmate and you are cocksure they will find peace nowhere else apart from you. But then, sometimes the relationship needs a boost too, that is to say a breath of fresh air, to be revamped.

It is an imperative to make your relationship prosper because taking one granted more than the bearable limit can lead the relationship into sparse.

Here are the fun ways you can save your relationship with her if you know she is the one for you:

Remind her of the earlier days of wooing:

You too may have suffered from the stalker syndrome to win her love. You may have been the one to initiate the conversation, praise her beauty, sweep her off her feet by your flirting skills and took her on board. However, it’s a tendency in men to take her for granted once she falls in love too. But then when you see she too is turning a tad cold, you need to give her anecdotes from those days so that she falls in love with you all over again.

Learn to forgive her for keeping the back-up boyfriend:

Let us spill the beans, girls do keep back-up boyfriends. At least your pretty girlfriend will always have a fanbase and a couple of secret admirers. Of course this can make you a little insecure because they will readily lend their shoulders to her for crying when you may have had misbehaved but learning to forgive her for looking elsewhere is a key trick to save your relationship with her nonetheless.

Keep your slate clean:

Of course your girl can exploit her back-up boyfriends but they will never stand if you flirt around. They will put on their detective hat and track down all the whatsapp chats, so to be on a safe side and not to invite her wrath, keep your slate clean, you know what we mean right? *winks*

Give her space:

May be a spacecraft too, well, jokes apart, your girl needs some girl-time with her fellow ‘woo girls’ too. So, if you have a clingy ass, soothe it and don’t tag along pretending to know all their secrets and sneering when she is having a gala time with her girlfriends. This will help you earn respect too in her eyes. Try it!

Do ‘specials’:

That is to say, the ‘firsts’ together. Like peeing together for the first time or changing trying out a new sex position. This is a surefire way to give your relationship a new spin and you can thereby save it too.

These are the ways you can Save your relationship – These days people are ‘exchangable’. We mean, youngsters.

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Unrequited love – There is a person whose beauty, elegance and intelligence has charmed you and she tug at your heartstrings effortlessly.

You feel so drawn towards her and her presence leaves you groggy and lovesick.

All your thoughts wallow around her and you can’t wait to profess your love to her. She is the person who has a spring-fed heart and her vibes nibble at your darkness step by step like the maple painting the otherwise gloomy town red. If you meet such a person, you don’t think twice to devote all your life to her, watch what graceful changes age brings to her no matter if she doesn’t belong to you.

But no matter how much you calm down the tides of affection towards her, your spirit is always wrecked to see her smiling coquettishly in another man’s arms. But little did you know, unrequited love changes you into a better person, makes you understand the nuanced life better.

Here are the ways how we validate our statement:

Unrequited love teaches us :-

1 – You learn to deal with rejections:

She chose someone else over you and decided to remain faithful towards him. You respect her sincerity and devotion but at the same time the rejection shatters your heart to thousand pieces. But no matter how much you fume in anger in beginning, the anger settles down eventually and you learn that rejection too is a part of life and you learn to put yourself together again.

2 – You stop expecting too much from people:

No one was put on this earth to fulfil your expectation, you have to make your own bridge over the troubled waters to reach your goal. You loved her with all your heart but could not expect her to love you back, because she was never meant to be yours.

3 – You learn to make amends with that permanent aching:

The aching heart is an ugly thing to bear with but time is a healing drive. When things become normal and the pain settles down, you come up as a stronger person so to speak.

4 – You stop walking at someone else’s shoes:

And stop trying to become someone else, the like she apparently chose for herself. You start being happy in your own skin and stop pressing her for her attention.

5 – You don’t feign happiness any longer:

Initially, you were solicitous towards her boyfriend and pretended you are happy whilst pain eaten your heart like worms inside. Keeping mum and watching their relationship prosper and taking next to next leaps always incited jealously in you but you have finally learned to stop feigning what you don’t pathologically feel. You always are now honest of your feelings about her when she is around and she too starts respecting it.

6 – You don’t hate yourself now for missing the chances:

Luck may have ushered you into chances that you could make her yours forever but you had your eyes shut then. You always hated yourself for doing so but now you don’t because you know there is no use hating yourself because life never stops.

Yes, things were rocky at the start when you fell for her and saw her going away with someone else, but you are no longer reproachful towards yourself because you have changed as a person, that to say revolved in her love.

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Madly in Love – Being in love is the most blissful experience ever.

Love transports you to another universe and when you understand that reality is better than your dreams, you can’t sleep. Some people keep their emotions under wraps fearing heartbreak but love weaves the golden thread of thoughts and you can’t help falling head over heels for the person who makes your world lit up. He brings you reasons to smile and cuts shorts your agony of singlehood.

He is the mirage in your lonesome desert and you can’t help falling for him thousand times over.

But the fear of not being loved in return always looms over the horizon and you need to look for these signs in his behaviour to understand whether or not he loves you wholeheartedly, madly in love.

Madly in Love –

1 – He doesn’t manipulate you:

If he truly loves you, there is no room for manipulation and dirty mind games. If you ever feel you are being manipulated, he may not be the perfect partner for you. Either you should confront them or move on right away.

2 – He admires your independence:

If you are an independent girl, they understand you and never try to pull your strings to stop you. They believe that you can do things on your own and only offer help when you are in dire need.

3 – He cheers you up:

A gentleman always builds up his woman and lends an ear when she is down. He hears you out and comes up with the wisest solution of all your problems because he knows you by putting hefty effort into it.

4 – He respects your parents and friends:

Sign that he truly loves you is he becomes genuinely interested in your loved ones. He wins their hearts to make sure they give their nod into your marriage. He respects your parents because he knows that they are indispensable part of your life.

5 – He tries to learn things for you:

You may have interest in something that he is not very much aware of but he puts effort to get his head around the matter to help expand your knowledge. He always encourages you to pursue your interest and that way his love becomes prevalent.

6 – He treats you like a queen:

He never badmouths or argues with you. He treats you with respect and is always willing to make you feel comfortable in every situation. The foremost sign of a man’s love is the respect he shows for his lady love.

7 – He is ready to take up challenges for you:

When the going gets tough, the tough gets going. He knows you are the czarina of his heart and he can’t trade you for anything, hence he gears up to face any challenges that may come in the way.

8 – He never keeps angry for long:

Humans are built with vices but he always become solicitous to you and never holds grudges. He doesn’t sting you with his jibes and makes you feel secured in his arms.

9 – They pamper you with gifts:

And thoughtful ones at that! They always know what would make your cheeks blush or eyes glisten and always fare in that bargain. Men love to pamper their women with gifts if they are truly in love.

10 – They opt for conversation and rule out silence:

They are interested in spending time with you and exploring you even more. Silence always spells ruin for a relationship and a couple should talk about, especially make future plans together. He does all that and you know you are seeing the right person.

If you have been too fastidious about getting the perfect man in your life and finally met someone who possesses all these qualities, you know you have signed up for a lifetime of togetherness.

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Great kisser – You can stop the world revolve on its axis by kissing, in a deep kiss your lovers knows all that you have not spoken in words.

Sometimes kisses are really paralysing too and you can’t snap back at reality to stay apart. Such is the coaxing power of a kiss and it is overwhelming always. Kissing is the first leg of making out and by simply kissing you can give the guy boner down there.

This is an exquisite way for connecting to the lover and establish intimacy. We gather, you have been kissing for quite some time now but you have perhaps never known that you are a great kisser.

You always have a rhythm while kissing:

You can never have enough of each other’s lips and no one among them tries to pull out from the other. You passionately stick to each other and there is a rhythmic drive in your kissing. Your kissing seems like dance.

Your partner never seems to get enough from you:

Your partner feels it hard to let go of you always. Your partner can’t keep their hand off you, plays with the ringlets of your hair, brushes his fingers against your cheek and looks for opportune moment to kiss you.

Your heart beats faster when you kiss:

You feel the heartbeat of the other person against yours. If you delay the satisfaction by kissing during intercourse, it really optimizes your urge. Sign that you are a great kisser is that you make a lot of eye contact during kissing.

The world shuts off around you:

You will be able to tell that you are the great kisser when the kiss comes to an end. If you focus too much on details you will end up looking you try too hard. You and your partner needs to have fun while kissing and lock yourselves in the moment. You should cut the talking part while kissing, if you talk too much while kissing or making love, it means that you are lacking the excitement.

You both smile when you kiss:

You should be a happy couple to share the kiss happily. Being in a happy relationship is downright sexy and you need to feel your partner’s teeth and they are smiling a lot while kissing you means you are going in the right track.

You try to merge with his style:

You are always open to different Technics and you are non-arrogant when it comes to kissing, you respect the other person’s preferences when you switch partners. You are both fast and slow when kissing.

You deal with the awkwardness by laughter:

It’s not criminal to feel awkward sometimes but how you deal with it is the question. When both you and your partner are a sport to take the awkwardness in light-hearted spirit, know that you are a kickass kisser.

Great Kisser – Also, you do a lot of self-analysis and never take the compliments for granted. You are a downright kissing grandmaster.

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Break-up – Gone are the sweet messages, the inside jokes, the butterflies in the stomach, the waiting, the fighting and fear of losing and patching up eventually.

Now you are ripped off your mental peace and feel like a confused cat who forgot how to cat after staying with hoomans. Every day you wake up thinking it’s a bad dream and things will go back to normal again.

You pray to the lord that he comes back but those prayers fall in deaf ears.

Things will not be the same for a while, in fact pretty difficult at that.

The most important person in your life two years back suddenly turned their back on you. You are more shattered because you know you haven’t only lost your boyfriend but the best friend and reached at your wits’ end. But life goes on and we urge you not to keep a tunnel view. You need to train yourself, condition your mind, that is to say is to deal with the heartbreak. Your heart will heal with time, the heartache will go so will the depression. We are laying down some pointers that will help you to heal after Break-up:

1 – Don’t fight back your tears:

It feels like someone is stabbing you right at the heart over and over again and you can’t defend yourself neither you can turn back time. There is nothing unbearable than the sting of happy memories. You will cry, obviously you will after break-up, feeling paralyzed is normal too. So cry your heart out, surround yourself with people who give you positivity.

2 – Don’t blame yourself:

The only way you can deal with a heartbreak perfectly is to stop blaming yourself for whatever happened because no relationship is perfect and you both had your fair share of mistakes. Don’t wallow in self –pity and don’t pretend that you don’t love him anymore. But since you have no option other than forgetting, let it be.

3 – Feeling angry is okay:

Anger will be taken over by hatred later in some point of time so relax. His deceitful face will no longer bother you someday and you will feel apathy. Feeling nothing for him will be the worst revenge executed.

4 – Be the better version of yourself:

Plotting worst revenge on the person will be solely your waste of time and energy. With time, the answers will unfold as to why did he cheat on you. You will get your answers but not by spewing venom on him but keeping your utmost cool.

5 – Enter the next relationship with an open mind:

So what if your boyfriend has betrayed you, things did not turn out the way you expected but don’t keep comparing every potential partner with your ex. Also, if you talk a lot about your ex to the current partner, you might just scare them off. Stop dwelling on the past and meet new people with open mind.

These are the ways you can deal with your worst break-up and start things afresh. All the best!

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Breezing – A generation that is so dislodged from patience, will enjoy the emotional highs and lows, take risks, sign up for heartbreaks, and end up frustrated.

The byzantine traits of modern day dating leading an entire generation astray and we sit here as mute spectators. Like you, I too am done with it.

Wait, this doesn’t stop here, after meeting a guy you apparently ‘like’ or bumped into in an online dating app only to be ‘ghosted’ or ‘catfished’ later is none too tranquil.

We can parade you with names of some more dating trends such as ‘love bombing’ and ‘stealthing’ that infuse life into the obnoxious predicaments in the aftermath.

Even not being done with one, we get sucked into another chaos and it takes myriad heartbreaks to learn to use that chaos as ladder. So we are short of logic as to what to do next? To put a complete pause on dating or keep tossing the heart for takers?

It involves risk, all sorts of dating for that matter. You don’t understand the internet dating lingo, the terminologies, you are outcast but when you start to indulge, run after hedonistic pleasure, you are wrung dry of your sanity.

Well, we have some good news waiting round the corner for you still. All hail the lord! So, if you have impeccably high standards and unapologetic about it, here are some easy-peasy tips for smooth sailing into the world of mind games and playing hard to get, ‘Breezing’ stands distinguished with its own merits.

What is Breezing?

While ghosting is abruptly ceasing to communicate with the person you were apparently dating online, catfishing is using fake pictures to hide their true identity, Breezing is stopping to care. No, it’s not how you think, it is not caring about the stereotypes, like a man would message first or make the first move. Or, that is to say, sticking to a rulebook as to how to talk to people. It’s about letting yourself float along the flow and being yourself.

Things that you need to do:

You need to relax and yet fidget. You can do a lot of things without doing anything which is the main draw here. Just that, the rules have to be ruled out first.

If you like a guy and want to text him first, you can go ahead and do that. Don’t come across as too strong or too passionate, just behave in a cool way.

There is nothing more fun than playing mind games because it leaves you anxious and hence wanting to hone your skills. Your weaponry should be living in the moment. Yes, you heard it right.

This is called Breezing dating – Let the unimportant things go and focus on the important ones. If you two are likely to match, you will.

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Zodiac signs that are difficult to date with – Your heart might lose a beat, on seeing your crush or the person that you love the most.

This usually happens when that person is utter sweet. And what happens next?! You’ll end up wanting to date the person. Sounds lovely!!

Now you got to think of this. Ever faced difficulty in handling your date person?! If yes, what will be the reasons for you finding it difficult?! Well, they will be attitude, faking around etc hitting the list. But did you know that persons under certain zodiac signs are hard to handle. Don’t believe?! Read this further, you’ll to know.

Here are some zodiac signs that are difficult to date with.

Zodiac signs that are difficult to date with

1. Capricorn [December 22- January 19]

The Capricorn are the most practical set of people out here. They approach every relationship that comes in their way – commercially. I mean like a business deal. This is called the way of their approach towards life. And when you land up dating a Capricorn – you end up feel like facing a business interview. They keep weighing the pros and cons of every situation and person that they encounter with.

2. Aquarius [January 20 – February 18]

The most individual and reserved set of people. It is extremely difficult reading their minds. They are protective about their own selves and carefully distance themselves from others so that they are never misunderstood. They constantly keep looking for people with whom they can live like themselves and free without worrying. So, it really is hard to date a Aquarius.

3. Virgo [August 23 – September 22]

Here, are the most self-contended set of people. They never get close to any person, until they are very sure about trusting that person. In case, you are dating a Virgo, you would feel it more formal. This is because it is hard to make the person speaking his heart out and also that they hating the idea of losing control over themselves. So, the dating with them would be more like a trail period.

4. Scorpio [October 23 –November 21]

The scorpions in most of the case turned out to be just ‘unpredictable’. This seems to be like mood swings, but this is deeper away. They start being happy and blessed being with you and happy. And then they get moody and sad for something that they aren’t very sure about. That is the magnitude of their fluctuations. You might find it extremely handling them. This gets better when they are emotionally matured and stable.

5. Sagittarius [November 22 –December 21]

They being the most energetic head, also got the other side. They are said to constantly chasing things that would happen normally in anyways. It is just hard for them to pause and enjoy the essence of the life, as they are so busy chasing around various aspect and people in their life.

These are the zodiac signs that are difficult to date with – These are also a part of the main reason, behind you finding hard handling your date. True they are hard to date with.

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Romantic proposal ideas – Do you feel like a bundle of nerves before approaching somebody you have a crush on?

Proposing somebody could prove to be a daunting task for anyone. Apart from being nervous about the thought of confessing your feelings, you are not sure how the other person is going to respond to your feelings.  So, instead of treading the conventional path, youcould think of some out-of-the-box ideas to woo somebody.

Here are some romantic proposal ideas to win somebody over:

Romantic proposal ideas –

        1.Do it in public

Usually, people like to propose somebody privately, when nobody is around. Some people also do this because they fear that if their proposal is rejected, they would feel humiliated. While there is a possibility of that happening, you must be brave and actually muster the courage to propose them in front of their friends, colleagues etc. This will let them know that your feelings are genuine and you are serious about them. Even if you get rejected, people will acknowledge you for your guts and dignity.

2. Confess your feelings to their parents

Instead of confessing your feelings to your crush, talk to their parents and tell them how do you feel about their son or daughter. Of course, you should do it only when you have acquitted a fair degree of acquaintance with the person you love. Mostly, people stay away from talking to parents as they are notcomfortable with them. If you manage to talk to their parents it will reflect the act that you are looking for a long-term relationship.

3. Holiday proposal

If you are good friends with or are in a relationship and want to propose marriage, you could, perhaps, take them out on a holiday. This would be a very good idea especially if they are going through a lotof stress and not in the best of the mood. Once the holiday calms them and lends them a sense of serenity, pop up yourproposal in front of them.

4. Let the food do the talking

You might have seen, in several films, how the hero proposes to his lady love by dropping the ring in a glass of champagne. How about confessing your feelings through food? Dress up the food as alphabets and put them all together to form a sentence. It should convey what you seek to tell your crush. Of course, the food needs to be delicious too.

5. A grand celebration

Make it a grand affair by getting alongmusicians, firecrackers and an elaborate setup that would help you in putting across the message. Scale is the keyword here and if you have the means to pull it off, then you must plan it meticulously, so that nothing goes wrong. You must make sure that they do not feel that you are trying to show off by putting up such alavish manner. It should be gran but sincere at the sametime.

These are the Romantic proposal ideas – Trying out something new or thinking of a fresh idea to put across a proposal would also help you ease out the stress that you are goingthrough as you will be engrossed in preparing for the same. The result might not be you hand but you can make sure that you crush remembers the proposal by doing something unconventional and unique.

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Cheesy pickup lines – Boys from ages have been using the funniest, coolest and the weirdest pickup lines too to flirt their crush.

The Cheesy pickup lines showcase what you feel for your crush and making them skip a heart beat for you. Trust me, the best way.

It is always a lovely sightseeing your crush blushing. What if you be their reason for blushing?! Well, you can do it with some pickup lines.

Hilarious and cheesy pickup lines –

1. I dint know how angels looked until I saw you.

 Hehe! Sound’s great this will make your crush go all PINK! 

2. It’s not ‘see you tomorrow’. It is ‘see you soon’ because I’ll meet you in my dreams. 

Your crush will fall for you we bet! 

3. Seems like I need to see a doctor as my heart stops beating as soon as I see you! 

Romantic isn’t it? 

4. Spoil me with your sweetness and love. 

Great way to ask for pampering 

5. I never wanted to be a superman, But I wanna be ‘YOURMAN.’ 

Indirect proposal! 

6. Call the police someone! This person is stealing my heart. 

Haha will make her/him go gaga! 

7. Does your legs hurt for always running in my mind. 

Great way to say you are falling for him/her! 

8. Um is it the sun that is smiling!? 

This will leave her smiling!

9. Cupid on his ways with more arrows. This time he’d stuck you too. 

Indirectly you can ask her to be your valentine 

10. I am not a good kisser. Would you teach me 😉

If you love her this will work wonders 

11. Ah, you are a human magnet that keeps attracting me. 

To tell you are attracted like crazy 

12. Can we take a selfie, so that I prove all my friends that angels exist! 

No girl  can say no 

13. It was quite a bad start for my day all this while, you are here it just got brighter. 

To tell you made my day

14. My favourite place would be right next to you for this life. Will it be mine, forever?! 

Ohh girl ur mine! 

15. I am sure you have some glorious fire inside you.

To say you are hot 

16. Apart from making me fall for you, what do you do?! 

Wink! 

17. You are a dictionary that is adding meaning to my life. 

To convey she added colour to your colourless life

18. I know you have a boyfriend. But I am here to be your husband for life. 

Proposal! 

19. Can I follow you?! Because I remember my teacher saying ‘follow your heart.’ 

Too cheesy 

20. You are the reason for my life. 

To say how special the person is!

These are cheesy pickup lines – Flirty, hilarious and cheesy pickup lines that will surely make your crush blush. We bet. After all, it is just the pickup lines that do wonders in the initial stages of your flirting sessions.

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A person who is newly fallen in love, sees the world through rose-tinted glasses, it is exhilarating and ecstatic to pass through the primordial stage of love. We all have, in some point in our lives, vied for someone’s attention, looked forwards to talk to them and worshipped them for sweeping us off our feet. It is an involuntary reflex and we fall in love without even knowing it. The new love life consumes a huge part of your energy, occupies your mind as you try to chalk out new ways to impress the significant someone. You can’t stop thinking over them, gushing over them to your BFF, your heart skips a beat when their pictures pop-up in your newsfeed and you are all dreamy-eyed trying to picture your future with them.

Here are some quotes that all the new lovers can relate to:

Because heart is a small entity:

When we fall in love, we want to make the world know about how we feel for each other, love drives us that much crazy only.

We can’t stay without each other:

We constantly check our phones for their messages; do our best to impress them and the thought of losing them in the labyrinth of time sends the chill down the spine.

They settle and unsettle us:

Their sight calms the thumping heart. There is a sweet pain in waiting for them.

Then there are challenges:

Love brings along a lot of challenges but one has to believe in the bond to make it prosper and to set example.

They rule our dreams:

They leave their footprints in our dreams too. The first thing we think about when waking up is them!

Power of love:
There is no greater power than love. When you are loved, you are able to conquer the world because deep down you know you have found your comfort zone in her however cruel the outer world is.

Cause’ we are diamonds in the sky:

When two stars collide, only two of them feel the warmth it generates. When two lovers meet, things between them heat up in the same manner.

Because he is the ONE:

His love is as soothing as running barefoot in the grass, he appreciates your madness and leaves you wild.

Because there is more to US than what meets the eye:

We become each other’s strength by sharing our weaknesses with each other. It’s like Moon soothing the Sun for few minutes after its daily toil, we soothe each other.

You will completely relate to these lines if you feel he is the answer to all your prayers and you see a future with him.

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Shy guys find it very hard to profess their love or liking like those Casanova smooth-talkers who have a way with women. The shy type always rues their incapability and lack of confidence is the salt rub on the burn. No matter if he is hot for the girl since forever; he will pretend not to notice her in fear of getting rejected. The fear of rejection has dug deeper in his heart which hinders his hidden potentials to surface.

A shy guy is a shy guy because he loves to stay in his comfort zone and pushing boundaries doesn’t come easily for him. Apart from the fear of being rejected, he thinks that he will end up as a laughing stock between the girls. So, here are some simple pointers to score with girls:

Be confident:

The confident wins the cake. You have to put on the air of confidence but not over-confidence around girls. Appearing confident hides the otherwise notable flaws and leaves a good impression on the opposite sex. Gulp down some alcohol; straighten your spine and act interested by passing on flirty glances.

Approach the women with a simple ‘hi’:

Because cracking kittenish one-liners is not your cup of tea, don’t strive to create a wrong impression at all. Just approach the girl you like with a simple ‘hi’, if she is interested she will reciprocate and you two can have a hearty conversation.

Entertain her:

Because sense of humour is sense of proportion, you need to prepare yourself before hitting the ground. Some people are born witty, some acquire it with practice. A smart man who can make a woman laugh is a package so show your funny side. You can, for that matter make fun of yourself to make her laugh too.

Be a conversationalist:

Besides being a good talker, being a listener is the key too. You have to be all ears to what she says and ask questions to prove that you are genuinely interested. However, don’t fake it as it could ruin the complete conversation. You can add anecdotes from your experiences too if it matches with hers.

Play Hard to get:

This one trick works with pretty much all the women. Women want attention so if they easily get that, they get bored. If you have someone in mind and all your efforts to get her to notice you have gone in vain, this is your last straw. She has noticed that you were interested but if you suddenly start cold shouldering her, she will be curious and hence will approach you on her own. When you are in a group, talk to everyone but not to the significant person, don’t flirt with other girls in the group and give her compliments when you start a chat but don’t look like a love-struck puppy.

Be nice:

Be Nice:

Be your best self. Be chivalrous and definitely not a sleazeball that thinks mouthing nasty jokes are funny!

Dress well:
There is a saying, dress like you are going to meet your worst enemy and the thumb rule of impressing girls is to dress well. You need to wear a good perfume so that the fragrance lives with her when you are apart.

Ask her for a second date with confidence:

Do it! If she likes you she will give her nod.

So, try these simple methods to make the girl your date this Christmas. Make no mistake, you have to be genteel to win her trust.

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Dating a younger boy?

Admit it proudly. As there are enough reasons to fall in love with a young soul. Love is the most desirable thing in the world. But, sensing this amazing feeling for a wrong person can turn your life upside down. Therefore you must gaze few things before falling for a man.

We often hear people say, “Man will be a man.” But, that’s not the case for every one of them. As the young age boys are taking women by storm and surprisingly they have reasons for doing this.

The woman isa most beautiful creation of god. But, some men fail to understand this and disrespect them. Thus, women get attracted towards the younger boys as they have a different mindset and thinkway different from the same-aged and older age men.

So, if you have experienced a bitter relationship, then here are the:-

Dating a younger boy –

Reasons to Date a Younger Boy:

1 – Respect Women – 

The young aged boys are more close to the ladies in their family as they spend more time with these women. Thus, the boys know what women like and what makes them feel bad. Hence, they behave in a decent manner and always respect their lady-love. Along with this, the younger partner also respects your friends and other ladies you know.

2 – Won’t Behave Like Boss –

The young men have a different mindset altogether. Thus, they never do anything that makes their lady-love feel offended. Also, most of these young aged partners believe in being equal to each other. Thus, they never act bossy or order you to get things done. This is one of the main reasons to date a younger boy.

3 – Have Understanding –

The life of a relationship depends upon the level of understanding the partners have. Here, also the young boys take the lead. As they act after taking a practical look at every situation. The young age partner always takes every piece of comment as a thing to learn and this improves the understanding level between the couples.

4 – Fight’s Less –

The younger partner have a greater amount of patience. Thus, they listen to everything a woman says and that too without making it an issue. This is also one of the reasons to date a younger boy. As they never take any conversation as a disrespect to their male ego.

5 – Caring – 

The younger age partner cares more about the love of their life. But, they never get into your space while doing so. The women love to have a caring partner and also want their space. So, get stuck in a relationship with a younger boy to feel more loved and pampered. As they do everything to please their lady.

6 – Fill Life with Adventures – 

Excitement is the slice of life. But, the older aged men usually forget this reason to be happy. As their work commitments and other things divert the mind. But a relationship with a younger boy will make you travel to various adventurous and activity-filled places. These vacations help you come close and understand each other. Thus, you must try dating a younger boy.

7 – Opposite Attracts –

Yes, you heard it right. The poles apart type equation maintains balance in the relationship. Also, the young boys are more creative and thus it results in a perfect sexual indulgence. These qualities make the relationship happy for long. Thus, this is one of the reasons to date a younger boy.

8 – Doesn’t Expect Much – 

The best thing is not having the baggage of expectations. The younger boys never expect you to bear kids for them or to look after every small requirement of theirs. In fact, they want to stay happy and enjoy life. Thus, women need not think much about being in a relationship with a younger boy as they asks nothing extra from you.

9 – Won’t Get Involved in Your Profession –

Another reason to date a younger boy is that you get the space everyone wants in a relationship. The younger partner doesn’t think much about where you work or what is going on in your office. They just want to be with their lady love as it keeps both of you happy.

10 – Gives Surprises – 

Surprises add a spark to your love life. But, the same-aged or older age men won’t do this often. On the other hand, dating a younger boy can make your life full of surprises. Get involved with a young boy and enjoy surprise gifts, parties and vacation trips.

All these reasons spice up your love life and allow you dating a younger boy irrespective of what other people think about it.

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Worst Date Stories : You’re lucky IF you haven’t experienced a worst date. I’m convinced that once you’re done reading these below mentioned “worst dates”, you’re going to say “Thank God. Something like this never happened with me on a date.” For those who’ve experienced it, I can only say “Hope you’re doing well now” and oh, you’re not the only in the mess, so relax.

On Reddit, a wise person asked “what is the worst date you’ve ever been on?” and oh God, many shared their story and it hurts tbh. Here are some of the worst date stories that’ll make you go, “Damn, this person really had it worst.”

Here we go –

Worst Date Stories: 

1. We were eating at a fast food joint when a random kid comes up and pours a cup of water all over me. Takes off running and laughing with his friends in what I assume must have been a bet. I was too startled to even run after them and was just incredibly embarrassed, not to mention soaking wet in the city in the middle of winter.
2. We spent most of the date going shopping for clothes for another date she had later that week.
3. Went on a date with a guy I’d met through a mutual friend. Things seemed pretty normal until we were sitting and waiting for the movie to start. He got his phone out and started showing me pictures of two of his ex-girlfriends. Both women were completely naked.
4. I went out with a guy that I had met on Tinder. The entire time, we argued. Either he didn’t agree with me, or I didn’t agree with him, on ANYTHING. Normally, I don’t argue with someone just because I don’t agree with them, but this guy was so arrogant. After leaving the bar, he somehow thought it would be a good idea to ask me to come up to his place. Saying “no”,was the last time I spoke to him. RIP Tinder app
5. My worst first date was also my first date ever. I was about 14 or 15. The girl I liked asked me if I wanted to go on a date, I was over the moon. She told me to meet her at the park. When I got there she was there with her friends and they all laughed at me for thinking she would ever want to date a loser like me.
6. I was making out with a girl on a cold evening on her unlit front porch. I just thought my runny nose was from the cold. But when we turned on the lights I realized I had a bloody nose. Her face was COVERED IN BLOOD.
7. When I was 24 (29 now), a guy took me home to meet his mother on our first date. I thought we were going for coffee. We did… At his mother’s. When I walked in, his dog greeted us very enthusiastically and proceeded to pee on my shoes.
8. Went to dinner. Only got one word answers the entire time “yeah” “cool” “fun”. What made it the most confusing is that she asked me to dinner.

Do you have any worst date stories to add? Let us know in the comment section below.

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Tips On How To Be A Good BF – Guys, do you want to know “how to be a good BF so that your GF feels that she’s a lucky person to have YOU as her soulmate? Guess what? You’re reading the right article. Look, recently, I stumbled upon a Reddit question asked by a male Redditor, he asked “As a guy, what are some tips and tricks we should know to put us over the top as a BF”?! Now, several male Redditors helped their male friends and the answers (I guess) will help you too.

You might be doing many of the things mentioned in their answers, and that is certainly good for you. But, just in case, you’re NOT, then start doing it (if you want to)

Here we go – (Tips On How To Be A Good BF)

1. The little things that you did to make us like you keep doing them throughout our relationship. If you kiss her/his forehead right before you guys depart, keep that shit up. It’s not only cute, but it shows that you still have the same feelings for your SO as you did when y’all first met.
2. Being emotionally available even when your life is stressful.
3. Buy her flowers for no reason and write her sticky notes about why you like her or wishing her a good day and put them in places for her to find.
4. Be there for her, but not always as an advice giver. Make it clear that she is free to tell you anything; complain about her friends, coworkers, family, work, anything at all, and that if she wants advice you will always do your best to give one.
5. Make her laugh the hardest. (Best thing to do)
6. Get really good at sex. Learn what kinks she’s into and do it. Or at least try. If it’s not within your capabilities or you feel gross about it, move on. No one should have to hide their sexual interests when there is always someone out there who’s into the same things. From personal experience, a sexually satisfied girl won’t want to cheat.
7. Honesty.
8. Tell her about her good qualities and how she makes you feel every day.

Guys, click here to read some more answers.

These were the tips on how to be a good BF.  – Also, guys, do you have anything to add? Girls, would you like to tell guys what makes you feel special and happy? Leave a comment below.

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If you’re not living in a dreamy world, then I’ll guess that you’re aware with the term “ghosting”, and what exactly does it mean.

Just in case you’ve no idea, let me tell you, that ghosting is an act where a person you’re in contact with suddenly disappears from your life (no calls, no texts) without letting you know that “yes, I’m disappearing”.

I’m pretty sure that many of you must’ve experienced this situation, agree?

Ghosting keeps on happening, and no one’s going to stop doing that (for obvious reasons) Well, we thought only “ghosting” is dangerous. But I guess, we were completely wrong.

Ghosting Ka Baap is here. Can you guess it? Oh well, yes, I’m talking about “Benching“. Trust me, this new dating trend is way more dangerous than ghosting. To be honest, benching is seriously very dangerous. I mean, you might be a victim of it. Once you get to know what “benching” is, I’m sure that you’ll be like “oh, people do that to me all the time“, and some will be like “Yeah, I do that too.”

Let’s begin –

What is “Benching”? Unlike Ghosting, in Benching, your date or the person you’re talking to will not disappear in the thin air. According to the New York Magazine, Benching is when someone you’re interested or head over heels (one-sided) in love with stops hanging out with you, whenever you say “So, when are we meeting?” or “Should we meet here?” They are people who’ll always be in contact through texting, snapchatting etc. They’ll even like and tweet the things that you share on instagram, twitter etc, but they’ll always give a big “NO” when it comes down to hanging out together.

Is there something like going on in your life?

I feel extremely sorry for you. Anyways, are you benching someone? There’s always a possibility.. So.. Just be careful. Honestly, if you’re experiencing benching in your life, then let me tell you, in a sweet and short way “it is a slow trick of dumping a person later.”

The common example that is used everywhere to define this “Benching” term is, “In a game, when you’re benched, you’re not playing that game, but indirectly you’re a part of it, right?” That’s how it goes in relationships as well. The worst thing about “benching” and why it’s so dangerous is because, you’re always confused about whether to move on or keep going. You know, you think that they’re texting and talking, so there are chances to take things further. And then, you also keep thinking that “maybe one day” the opposite person will come and meet. In reality, things are pretty bad. You know, benching is actually a way to keep people interested in you, and talk to them whenever you’re bored AF.

Like I already told you, Benching is dangerous than Ghosting. Have you ever benched someone? Or do you think someone is playing this trick on you? Let us know in the comment section below.

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One-Sided Relationship –

This thing happens in a relationship.

Sometimes when you’re dating someone, it is possible that you are the one who is investing more time and more effort in your relationship, as compared to your partner.

Now your partner might be someone who is a workaholic, but giving time is a must. You know, that’s how a relationship is balanced and everything seems perfect.

There should be commitment from both the sides.

If you’re someone who is failing to put efforts, then you must try hard to work on it. You know, that’s how a relationship is saved.

Here are 5 signs that clearly indicate that you are in a One-Sided Relationship – 

1. You are the one who always make plans

Look I’m not saying that it’s wrong, but yeah, your partner must contribute too. It should not happen like you are the one who is planning trips etc, tell your partner to spend some time too. Sit together, discuss where you want to spend your day and stuff like that.

2. All efforts to solve issues are put by you

Suppose you had a fight with each other, and after ½ an hour you’re trying to solve it, then make sure you put your points accordingly. Let you partner speak first, and then you do it. If you are the only one who is always trying to solve the issue and your partner is just there listening, then that’s not how it works.

It’s like you’re in a one-sided relationship.

3. Every conversation starts when you text first

Is it like you are the only one who starts a conversation always? If yes, then definitely you’re living in a one-sided relationship. But wait, don’t get things wrong too. I mean, figure out if your partner loves texting or not.

Some people don’t like texting & stuff, so talk it out.

4. There’s no respect from the other side

It’s good that you respect your partner in a relationship, but are you getting it back too? If not, make sure you talk about it. Respect is a big thing, so make sure that your partner is respecting your opinion and views, just like you are doing it.

5. You always put efforts to make them a part of your life

You are the one who always take them to meet your family & friends, whereas in terms of your partner, they give more importance to friends and not you. It really hurts a lot. It mainly feels like even though both are committed, you’re all alone. It shouldn’t go that way.

All I would say is talk to your partner and if things don’t seem great, then you know that it’s time to move on.

One-Sided Relationship – If your partner is failing to put efforts, don’t break up & stuff, instead have a sweet conversation and clear all your doubts. And if you are the one who is putting less effort, then start putting more efforts, okay?

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We’ve all been on dates and some of them are just too good, say best dates, while some end up being a nightmare.

Be that as it may, we always want to remember the good ones and cherish them for the rest of our lives.

So, what if I ask you the best date that you’ve been on? I know it would be tricky if you’ve had many but there’s always one special date that is hard to forget.

Similarly, we asked a few men about their best dates and their answers will leave you awestruck. Or maybe envious.

Best dates –

1 – That adventurous date must have been a good one.

“My best date was a backpacking trip to the Gamma Hot Springs in Washington State.  It was a wonderful fall weekend and overnight it snowed about four inches.  Fortunately we were the only ones and let me just say that the view was magnificent!”

2 – It is just way too cute to describe for anyone.

“She was hosting me for a workshop. We fell in love while pretending to be little kids while making the bed, and then fell on it. The next day we worked hard to pretend nothing has happened, and this made both of us burn inside. This was the beginning of the most intense love story I ever had. Keep it secret, keep it personal.”

3 – That’s romantic and goals for sure.

“We walked along Lake Michigan and talked.  What made it the best date?  I found her.  We spent a couple hours walking around and getting to know each other.  It wasn’t wild, crazy or extremely fun.  It was slightly uncomfortable as first dates usually are.  Ultimately, it was the “best” because I found what I was looking for.”

4 – This was sensitive and sweet.

“After dinner with my date, I invited her to go to a nearby park. We talked for hours, and when we finally sat down, I told her how I felt for her, and started crying. Yes, CRYING on our first date. It had been a pretty amazing night, and also my first date, so I was very emotionally vulnerable. She was very understanding though, and helped me get through it. Eventually, we went back to her place to watch music videos of some bands we had been discussing in the park.”

5 – This is actually something many of us will relate to

“The best date I’ve ever had feels as if it never ended. We met at a party, where we started talking about things we’re both interested in. Both of us were trying to work up the courage to ask the other for a date over coffee to continue the conversation. That date lasted four hours, leading to the second date, and we’ve been together ever since. I sometimes describe our relationship as a conversation, that first one, still going on.”

These are the best dates -These men truly had an amazing date and I am sure they are living happily too. What about you? Did you love any of your dates too?

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