So you have had a break up.

So you’re nursing a heartbreak so bad that you want to wrangle him/her. You want to give it back to him/her because well, that’s how you roll. It might sound juvenile or even petty, but it’s fun and will make you feel happy!

Here are six things to do to your ex. Read on:

Change The Passwords:
If you have dated anybody for longer than a couple of months, there are chances that you know at least one of his passwords (social media, ATM, banking, online games and so on). Bring your wicked self some credit and change his/her passwords and watch them cringe and cry for a couple of days.

Post ‘couple-y’ Pictures:
The oldest trick in the books is also the most effective. Post a picture of yourself with an attractive friend and give out an impression of the two of you being a ‘couple’! Even if he/she is over you, he/she will be pissed that you’re too.

Makeover Moment:
Nothing will make your former lover cry buckets than losing out on someone hot, smart and stunning. Get a fancy makeover, photoshop the picture and post it on your wall.

Drunk Letter to Work:
Get it out of your system, so you have closure. Don’t drunk-call or text, that’s so passé. Send a long, vicious letter to his/her work place. Whether you’re drunk or not is secondary.

Demand Money:
Just for the heck of it, tell your ex that he/she owes you money. Whether it’s a restaurant bill or those incurred during shopping expeditions, it’s enough to make your ex mad. He/she won’t want any scene and might just hand over some money!

Location-Hopping:
If you want to be really mean, visit all the places your ex is likely to visit. From pubs to coffee shops to cinema halls, make sure you haunt that person till he/she confronts you and /or splits hair in frustration.

These are just fun ways to making you feel better about you, however momentary that might be.

We all know how tough breakup can be, so a little bit of ‘meanness’ is fine. No?

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Hi there,

I hope now you are feeling better than before.

As I know that things after thebreakup have been really hard on you.

But now it has been years and there is no point of remembering your ex-lover. Especially, when they didn’t do any good to you and left you at the time when you needed them the most. So, why do you even want to recall those memories of your Ex-Lover? Why do you keep on finding you Ex-Lover in every person you meet?

Well, trust me it will only hurt you more. I completely understand that you loved the person with all your heart but they didn’t love you as much as you did. Otherwise why would they be happy with somebody else right now?

And leave you here confused with all the pain and anguish. Thus, respect yourself enough and drop the idea that your ex is ever going to come back. As a person who can hurt you once wouldn’t mind hurting you again.

Apparently my friend, you are blindfolded by all the good times that you two have spent together and can’t see the never ending pain your Ex-Lover has given to you. It’s time you open your eyes and see that you have a beautiful life ahead of you, therefore don’t spend it on crying over someone who never deserved you in the first place. Remember the time when things got tough and that person immediately gave up on the relationship you two build with so much love. They didn’t even fight for you, not even once.

By now, I am sure all kind of questions are popping in your mind- “Was it my fault?” “Was I not good enough?” “Do they miss me?”

Well, the answer for all this is that it wasn’t you, it was them.

Rather you were the one who wanted it forever. You were the one who never gave up on them. You were the one who was there for them during the thick and thin. You loved them more than anything in the world and they just threw it all in the trash. Also, don’t forget that you gave them more than they deserved. So, if you can love someone like your Ex-Lover then just imagine how much you will love someone who would love you unconditionally and would want to spend their life with you.

So, forget about your Ex-Lover and go out as you never know where you will find the ‘ONE’.

Your well-wisher

xoxo

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We all know the type of guy we should date and be friends with. But what sort of a guy should we tie the knot with? Here’s a simple guide on which guy is a keeper and who needs to be shown the door right away. Read on!

He promises to call back in ten, and does so

He notices your new haircut and nods a little

 His answer for ‘Am I looking fat’ is always a firm shake of his head

 He asks you if you have reached home, even if he has dropped you till the gate

He lets you hang out with your guy friends and checks on you…just in case.

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Marriage is an important ‘ritual’ in our society. And a fair bride is even more important. Unlike the west where couples meet, date, fall in love and walk down the aisle. In our culture, the couple first ties the knot and then falls in love (if at all).

So it’s no wonder that we have plenty of funny matrimonial ads that will leave you in splits. We bring to you ten of the best from our lot…Read on!

#1: “Require girl for marriage she should be very pretty very sleem and have one brother one sister.”

Don’t know why he specifically wants one brother and one sister…hmm. We are confused too!

#2: “i am very handsome and pretty I want marry very beautiful girl who will respect my family pets etc’ 

You know he is for keeps when he uses ‘etc’ in the ad.

#3: ‘I am very good cook I want girl also very good cook. Please contact me very early as i am waiting to get married.’

At least he can cook!

#4: ‘in every part of my life only her image exists…see in your self she is with you…if you love her then every one afterter…I love pets’

Does he want a pet or a wife?!

#5: ‘I want very much enjoyment in life so i want to get marry…if you also want to enjoy please contact me’

Somebody tell him that marriage isn’t that enjoyable!

#6: ‘Want very fair girl for immediate marrige’

Yes, sir. No time like the present.

#7: ‘I am Brahmin cast but eat all non-veg items. If you like non-veg items accept my marriage’
Please marry him before he publishes more such ads.

#8: ‘I am very much love marry and want great awesome wife thanks’

He is the man.

#9: ‘if my mother like her then i will marry her please send all pictures to mother’

He is a mamma’s boy. Clearly.

#10: ‘I am very honest good looking boy. I want poor rich beautiful girl’
Poor, rich? Wha!

Girls, we hope you are having a good mid-week ROFL moment.

But on a serious note, would you marry somebody like those mentioned above?!

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People have ironclad loyalty and unflinching devotion to the person when true love happens. When we explore the beautiful heart beyond the transitory visual appeal, we fall in love and that feeling is going to stay, no matter if the external beauty fades out.

Love is like the juxtaposition between the day and the twilight, while day symbolizes the youthful years when love is vivacious and twilight symbolises the advanced years when it is peaceful and calm. In the stern strife of being, love blossoms to the fuller and we become each other’s mainstay.

However, people who pride on being each other’s forever, these are the pictures that prove how it grows manifold with the passing years.

1 – Nothing changed in the passage of 20 years:

This couple got wedded 20 years back when there were simply teenagers, now nothing has changed between them even after having two handsome sons. They look as radiant even after 20 years.

2 – Their love is evergreen so is their fondness for cake:

It was in their wedding day the bride shoved an enormous piece of cake in her groom’s mouth and after years have passed, her antics are all the same.

3 – These childhood sweethearts:

They make our heart melt in droplets. They loved merry-go-round as babies and so chose it as a prop ditching the stereotyped ones for their wedding day as well.

4 – Nothing comes between a father and a daughter:

A father and a daughter share eternal bond and this picture is worth a thousand words which justifies the statement loud and clear.

5 – Boys will be boys no matter what:

The boys were bonding with their dad way back in time in his bicycle and they care hoot even if they have grown out of the bicycle by size, they strike the same pose for a photo and have a gala time together.

6 – The twinsy-weensy love:

These twins posed upside down as infants and they are posing the same as grown-up young men. Time has taken a huge leap but they clowning all the same. That’s quite cute man!

7 – Brothers in arms:

The big brother was watching when he was an infant and he still is as watchful. Big brother is the cocoon and baby brother is the pearl cared for.

8 – Superhero costumes ftw!

Superhero costumes make great show-stealers for Halloween and are timeless, so are the cousins wearing them in their childhood and as grown-ups.

These pictures prove love is not hostage to time, it is involuntary, we don’t choose whom we love but when we understand we love them, it can never wear thin with time.

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Poems From Pillow Thoughts : Courtney Peppernell is one such poet who is FAMOUS on Instagram. Her poems has that deepness that’ll touch your heart and will move you into tears. In the poetry world on Instagram, Courtney Peppernell’s poems really, really makes Instagram a better place. She talks about love, loss, sadness, happiness, and LiFe. Most importantly; her poems will make you FEEL as though you’re NOT the only one experiencing sadness, and other emotions in LiFe.

Just like R.M. Drake, Courtney Peppernell has managed to grab attention, and touch souls with her beautiful poems in a very less time. Her poems are so, so deep and honest, that they even touched hearts and captured attention of artists “The Chainsmokers.”

Oh yes, you’ve read it right.

Enough talking; I think it’s time for you to read these poems from her bestselling book “Pillow Thoughts.” BEFORE you start reading ‘em, please take a seat; find a comfy place and enjoy these heart touching poems.

Poems From Pillow Thoughts : 

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Six Word Stories : We all know that it’s not really easy to tell an entire story in only six words. Luckily, some people are blessed with that talent and they can easily tell a sad story or a happy story in just six words. Have you ever tried it? IF yes, then you’re welcome to let us know in the comment section below.

Now; like I mentioned, it is not an easy task to tell a complete story in six words. It is nothing less than a challenge.

Some have undoubtedly mastered it.

These stories mentioned below will make your heart sink. Even though they’ve written a story in six words only, I’m sure that it’s going to hit you hard where it should. All I want you to do is, find a comfy place and start reading these tales.

Six Word Stories : Are you ready? Alright, keep scrolling.

1. Friends. Best-Friends, Lovers, Strangers.
2. “Wrong Number”, says a familiar
3. The smallest coffins are the heaviest.
4. Nine month wait. LeFt hospital alone.
5. Lovers only when people aren’t watching.
6. Mommy? Why aren’t you moving? Mommy?
7. …Loves me not. Last petal… Damn!
8. Married a woman. Divorced a man.
9. The only mourner, her pet cat.
10. Brought roses home. Keys didn’t
11. Failed suicide attempt. Paralyzed. Suffer LiFe.
12. Megan’s baby: John’s surname, Jim’s eyes.
13. Tripped over luck; stumbled upon tragedy.
14. They lived happily ever after,
15. Failed school. Attempted suicide. Failed again.

 Six Word Stories : Aren’t these heart touching? Just in case you want to read some more, click here.

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How falling in love looks like – Love is one of the most beautiful feelings in the love. Not that love is a destination sort of final feeling, it’s a slow process and the best part is that ‘process’ of feeling every element of falling in love.

The best form of expressing feelings is not through words but through ART. Art is the best representation of feelings and it makes it so easy for people to understand each and every aspect of it. This Korean illustrator used his art of showing what falling in love feels like and no matter what; you’ll be able to connect to it very smoothly.

Let’s go on a bumpy and experience how falling in love looks like:

Falling in love looks like – 

1 – Spending time together is the best thing you can ask for in a relationship. Being together, staying close to each-other, hugging, cuddling etc. are some of the things which have absolutely no replacements in the entire universe. The closeness that you have with the love of your life is invaluable.

2 – Sleeping together is another amazing thing that can happen to you. Dreams don’t matter anymore when you’re sleeping with the one of your life because you feel like as if the entire universe has wrapped its arms around you, what else will someone need after that?

3 – Feeling safe with each-other come in-hand with falling in love. You fall in love with everything about them. When you are with them, you feel as if you’re home. You feel cozy, safe and secure with them. Love is all about that coziness!

4 – Talking to each-other is everything that you want. Talking to your love is the only most effective stress-buster for you. You just cannot keep anything inside in-front of them and let it all out. Only the love of your life has the capability to make you feel lighter and better in that way.

5 – The little kisses play an important part in your relationship. Embracing each-other and placing small, out-of-love kisses on your partner’s body gives you those jitters which nothing else can. Those chills rise straight from the heart and it’s the most beautiful and romantic feeling ever.

6 – Comforting each-other is all that you need to do when you have to console your partner or free them from their worries. Just a touch-of-love has that charming ability to rejuvenate your partner from the bone to the flesh. Trust me, when down, your partner only needs you and nothing else.

7 – Dancing together is so amazing. It’s an activity which is romantic, fun, passionate and engulfing at the same time. Dancing together can range from holding each-other close to jumping on the bed on your favorite jam. Dancing brings out the little child in you both.

8 – Taking long walks is a must for a couple. Talking, holding hands, observing your surrounding and what not. Walking together gives you the most needed quality time and you should never miss a chance to avail the journey to this beautiful path to collecting memories.

This is how Falling in love looks like – Isn’t love so beautiful? It’s one of those feelings which feel beautiful as well as look beautiful at the same time. These illustrations according to me have done complete justice to what love feels like. Just like the original feeling, it gave me butterflies in my tummy. Did that happen to you as well?

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Weird Marriages – Getting married to “weird” objects is shocking, isn’t it? You know what; the world is too big and people living in there never FAIL to surprise others. Usually, it has been seen that one person marries the other, no matter the age gap etc, etc. We all have it in our mind that “a man marries a woman”. But, there were some people who did something out of the box and fell in love with weird objects.

It’s not about judging anyone here, but it seems a little weird, isn’t it? Once you’re done reading this article, I’m pretty sure you’ll be convinced that love is blind.

Here we go ( Weird Marriages )–

1. Man married a doll

Yes, this happened and I know that this is kinda surprising. In 2000, a 55 year old man brought 12 realistic looking dolls. In 2008, he decided to tie the knot with one of his favourite doll and surprised the world.

2. Woman married a dolphin

Well, another shocking one, right? In the year 2005, a woman decided to marry a dolphin named “Cindy”. When asked about her marriage, she said “I’m the happiest one and I’m not a pervert”.

Sadly, the dolphin is no more.

3. Man who married himself

Guess what, this man doesn’t need anyone, it’s all about loving yourself. To express his dissatisfaction, he decided to marry himself. He exchanged vows with the cut out photo of himself wearing a bridal gown.

4. Eiffel Tower

I’m pretty sure that you heard about this one. This one created a lot of buzz and it captured a lot of attention. In 2007, a woman name Erika married Eiffel Tower. Nothing sexual but she feels an emotional attachment to the Eiffel tower.

5. Woman married a truck

It all happened when she felt that she was unable to feel aroused by other people. Soon she got attracted towards vehicle. So she purchased Ford and in the presence of her friend she married the vehicle.

She also revealed that her sex life is very healthy.

6. Dog is our Best-Friend

And this man decided to marry his “Best-Friend”. It all happened when Joseph was walking his dog in a park one afternoon and he saw a marriage being conducted. That’s when he decided to marry his dog, a Female Labrador called Honey. He promised to love her FOREVER and also assured that the marriage would not be consummated.

7. Married a Sex Doll

Shocking? I know it really is. This man (in the picture) decided to marry a sex doll because he felt that the doll gives him more pleasure and happiness as compared to the natural partner.

Weird Marriages – Well, let me tell you, that the list is long. There are many who married goats, video games, cat, pillow, wall and the list goes on and on. Would you like to add something on this list?

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Men In Abusive Relationship – When it comes to abusive relationships, some people always think that girls are the only victims in it. But, the recent Reddit post will certainly prove them wrong as it opens up about the other side of coin.

Men on Reddit opened up about their abusive GF who made their LIFE hell. They even revealed how they bravely escaped the relationship.

Keep Reading ( Men In Abusive Relationship)–

1. Literally an “Are you in an unhealthy relationship?” poster in my office building. I walked by it every day, and eventually took it seriously.
2. I asked her to stop. She told me she has the right to beat me. I said that was it. Next morning, she started again. She was arrested and took a plea deal. I never looked back.
3. Was with a girl that turned out to be a hardcore alcoholic, and wasn’t even 21. Also did cocaine and pills. Would try and beat the fuck out of me when drunk. Was also emotionally abusive. She actually broke up with me because I was lame and complained when I found out she lied about being at parties and shit. She tried to get back with me and fucking stalked me, sought out my family members in public and harassed them. Waited in the parking lot for me to get out of the gym. It was fucking weird. I eventually moved away.
4. She was abusive of me financially. I stopped talking to her and moved out.
5. She was mentally ill and threatened suicide often, freaking out of I left her alone more than an hour. she was a student and I worked 9-5, so these freak outs were often, and if I was in a meeting the poor receptionist would get an earful. I carefully planned my exit for months and waited until she was out of town with family and did a midnight move.
6. I said I don’t want to be in a relationship where you hate me.
7. Finally accepted the help of my best friend who got me to break up with her.
8. Cut them off with the support of friends who also noticed the toxicity.
9. I moved states and blocked her on everything. After a few months she stopped trying to contact me.
10. I just had some really spectacular friends that saw I was in a lot of emotional pain and guided me in the right direction. I broke up with her over the phone, which some may think is disrespectful, but you know what? I think that’s all the respect she deserved from me.
11. It took her parents confronting me and telling me I need to get out. They saw how she treated me and politely suggested maybe I should break up with her. They were awesome people, and if it weren’t for their advice my young, dumb ass likely wouldn’t have gotten out.
12. I just told her I was done. Well, I had her friend tell her. She threatened to kill herself, and followed me around for a couple months. It was a shitty relationship.
13. Left the country.
14. It was rough, I started to distance myself from my friends and even family because she was manipulating me; just recently I’ve finally broke out of that relationship once and for all. I just cut her off cold turkey and watched her plead for me back, but was adamant on our break up. Now I have someone who’s a trillion times better to me :⁾
15. Broke up with her and told her how she was a really toxic person in my life, it was just before summer too, so the timing was perfect.

Men In Abusive Relationship – In the end, no matter what who you are, if you are in an abusive relationship and it gets to that point where you just can’t take it anymore, then leaving is certainly is the right thing to do.

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Thoughts On Arranged Marriage – There are still many people out there, who are having arranged marriage.

There’s certainly nothing wrong about it.

You know, there are so many people who are living happily. Yeah, some experienced heart-break as well. But c’mon, it happens in love marriages as well, right? In the end, it all depends on the “FOREVER PERSON” that you’re choosing.

On Reddit, some people shared how their “arranged marriage” turned out to be – Keep reading.

Thoughts On Arranged Marriage – 

1. I am 27 my wife is 26 we are both doctors and we had an arranged marriage. I may be biased but I think at least for me this has worked out better. I had many social issues and a really low self worth. I got matched to a really lively girl. I panicked when it started and I nearly ended the engagement because I thought we were so different how this could ever work. What I was not expecting was how much I would fall in love with her. She awakened my sleeping lively side. Now our life is looking up as I just got a residency and I tend to think that is due to the luck brought to me by her.
2. My parents had an arranged marriage; they get along great, they rarely disagree, and I expect myself to go into an arranged marriage, too.
3. We are in an arranged marriage and have been happily married for the last seven years. It was definitely scary at first but both of our parents supported us a lot. What made it stronger was that we both shared a strong common base, being our faith and the way we grew up.
4. I had one. Divorced. Never again.
5. Been arranged married since ’95 and going strong ever since. Love my wife and will always love her.Bottom of Form
6. Best decision I ever made, and, yes, one of the scariest. Brought up Hindu in the West. Parents put ad in the paper (hinting at how old I am) Fifteen minutes of actual face to face time before the wedding. That was 20 years and 3 kids ago. She is my rock.
7. From Turkish living in Germany and getting arranged with girls from Turkey it is really random and a matter of luck.
8. I had an arranged marriage at the age of 16…it was horrible, everything about him was horrible. My parents didn’t care, obviously I got a divorce but with great difficulty at age 24. Glad I am not with him anymore but sad over the years I lost and the hardship that I had to go through.
9. Arranged marriage here, Been 16 years and 4 beautiful children later and were falling in love deeper every year. She is my auntie’s daughter.

Some people shared about their parents who had an arranged marriage.

10. My parents are Indian and have been married for nearly 30 years. I’m really surprised that my mom married my dad because he was some villager who had nothing going for him at the time, while she is educated and grew up in a semi wealthy family.
11. My parents are in an arranged marriage. Lots of fighting due to in-laws occurred and now they just find anything to fight about. They’ve gotten better but I had times when I’d wish they just divorced.
12. My parents are in an arranged marriage and they only just celebrated their 22nd anniversary. They don’t exactly like each other; Its as if they’re being forced to live.

Thoughts On Arranged Marriage – This was all about it. Do you have any story to add? Comment below.

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Mistakes To Avoid After Break-Up : –

Ugh, sometimes, break-ups are the worst thing to deal with.

Honestly, break-up sucks A LOT.

If you’re someone who can’t handle or survive that “break-up world”, then this article is for you. Sometimes, when your partner breaks up with you, you certainly don’t understand about how to react in such situations. But still, with a little courage, you try to do something, and it all goes wrong.

Frankly, you need to put yourself together by avoiding certain mistakes. So, take it easy on yourself, and breathe. Let it all GOOOO…

I know, you’re already in the worst zone, and that’s why to avoid getting into more trouble, here are mistakes to avoid after break-up.

1. Feel GUILTY

Why so much guilt? Let it go. Understand, that maybe things were meant to end in that way. So, don’t drown yourself into the worst feeling i.e. guilt. You don’t need to be in that situation, so stop it.

2. Bombarding his phone with calls and texts

It’s OFFICIALLY Over. If that’s the case, then you must keep things to yourself. Don’t text him or call him continuously, because it’ll annoy him. Plus, later if he blocks you on social media accounts, then don’t cry it out babe.

3. Getting into a relationship

Naah, Naah, it’s okay to date someone, but don’t do it to make him jealous etc. (You know what I mean, right?) Getting into a relationship just to drink your current feelings is the worst thing ever. So, don’t do it.

4. Dragging personal things in public

Actually, there are many people who think that insulting their BF/GF will be the best option, but honestly, it isn’t. So don’t drag things in public, and stay away from all the bad vibes and chaos.

5. Harming yourself

Never ever do this. Don’t keep thinking about the things he said while breaking up with you e.g. (You’re not my type or you’re still growing up & shit like that) The truth is, he don’t deserve you at-all. And trust me; he left you because you’re too good for him. So, the problem is that guy, and not you.

6. Crossing lines to make things work again

There’s always a sign that indicate whether you should work on things or not. Sometimes, end means end. So, don’t cross your lines to show your love. If you do that, then it becomes madness and not genuine love.

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Signs You’re Infatuated –

Infatuation and love are two different things.

Yes, they are often mistaken by many people; and that’s the reason they end up doing something that they shouldn’t really do. Let me break it for you – Infatuation is a short-lived attraction or passion towards someone or something, whereas Love is a deep affection or sexual love for someone. Get it?

Sometimes when you’re infatuated, you tend to call it as love. Because during that moment your feelings are so strong that it makes you believe its love. But in reality, it’s the opposite. It is not a secret that many relationships have been broken because of this one particular mistake.

Now, if you don’t want to get your heart broken or waste your time on something that’s not real, here are clear cut signs of infatuation that you must know.

Signs You’re Infatuated : –

1. You become selfish

When you’re infatuated, you become so obsessed with the opposite person that you want them to leave everything and be with you 24/7. In this scenario, you don’t want them to leave your side, so you go out of way sometimes. Whereas where you’re in-love, you try to understand each other and the feeling of obsession is not so strong. In short, when you’re infatuated, you become selfish.

2. You keep day-dreaming

In love, this happens. But, there’s not so much involvement. Whereas when you’re infatuated, you keep day-dreaming about “that guy” or “that girl” you like the most. It’s like people around you can easily tell what’s wrong with you today and every-day. You know, that’s how it is.

3. Stalking becomes your favorite part

Stalking? Yes, that’s what you do when you’re attracted towards someone. You go on Instagram and then you like all their Pics and you even save some of ‘em. Plus, when you open their FB account, you go through all their pictures over and over again. This is all a part of infatuation.

4. You study their eyes, hands, body…everything

You literally check out everything about ‘em. When they are talking, you will continuously look at their face, and then their hair and their Shirt…damn literally every little thing. It’s like, you are totally obsessed etc etc…

5. You talk about them 24/7

Well, when it’s love, everyone knows how to keep things real and in-between each other. But when you’re infatuated, you talk about them 24/7. You will catch your close friend, and then talk about your so-called crush, sometimes you even talk alone. You know, that’s how crazy you become.

6. You rush to get things done

It’s like; if tomorrow he comes and proposes you then you will quickly say “yes”. Even though you’ve known him for like 1-3 month, you are all ready to give it all. You rush things i.e. you want them to understand you, stay with you etc. In love, you don’t rush things to happen.

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Signs Of Immature Relationship – If you’re looking for a serious relationship with the presence of immaturity, then let me tell you, you are on the wrong track.

Yes, because there’s either a “serious relationship” or an “immature relationship” i.e. entirely immature.

You can obviously do silly immature things to have FUN in a relationship. But, if your relationship is ONLY filled with those immature happenings, then honestly, it ain’t gonna last until and unless you make it right and tight.

Here I’ve listed the signs of an immature relationship.

Well, you don’t need to break up once you relate to these points because you can always try to talk it out and solve. So, read these signs and make sure to make them turn right before it breaks your lovely nest.

1. One-upping is what you both love

I personally hate one-uppers. Frankly, if your relationship is a battle game where you’re trying to prove each other that you’re better “this and that”, then let me tell you that it’s bullshitingly immature. In a relationship, equality matters. If you’ve to prove each other that “I’m better than you”, then sorry, but what kind of a relationship is that?

2. You don’t open up about your feelings

In a relationship, you must never ever hide your feelings. You know why; because later it only creates misunderstanding. You or your partner might expect that you must understand each other without talking about a certain thing, but sometimes it doesn’t work that way.

So, talk about your feelings and encourage your partner to do the same thing.

3. Not accepting your own mistakes

You must learn to accept your mistake because that’s how you win a person. If your partner is always blaming you, then talk it out, dude. Blaming others just proves that you’re a selfish prick.

So, don’t do it or don’t let your partner do it.

4. Taking help to solve problems

Are you in a relationship where your partner always bumps into telling your friend about your fights and then they come and convince you? This looks so bad and one needs to stop it. You must learn to talk about your fights and complaints. Do not involve any third person into it, because it’ll make the situation, even more, worse.

5. Not putting efforts to make the relationship work

Problems are in every relationship. Accept it. But, dealing with them is what matters a lot. So, if your partner is not putting any effort to make things lively, then I guess, it’s time to teach them a lesson.

Talk to your partner straightly and if your partner seems to be not taking things seriously, then you know what you have to do, right?

6. Hiding your true self

Yes, that’s immaturity too. People who are always acting up to hide their inner-true-self are simply immature. Tell your partner, you want to love them for who they are and not what they’re trying to be.

Same goes to you as well.

So, these were the signs of an immature relationship. Are there any signs of immaturity that you will love to add? Let us know in the comment section below.

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Ways To Win EX Back – Sometimes life isn’t fair, right?

In a relationship, sometimes you feel all-alone and then you need your time. That’s when you ask for some “distance” by giving your relationship a break. I’m pretty sure that many must’ve done this, even though this decision killed your partner’s heart completely. And then, when you’re done spending all-that alone time and you feel that it’s right time to get back together, some things, turn awkward. Yep, you start questioning yourself “How am I gonna talk to her/him to get back?”, or “What should I say now”. The realization is OK but the next step gets pretty hard.

There are questions that keep bothering you. You keep thinking, “Does she still have feelings for me”? etc etc. This phase of life is difficult, I agree. Now, if you’re in that boat where you want to get back together with your EX, this one is for you.

Use these matured ways to win EX back and make it last FOREVER.

1. Send a text

Please don’t bombard her with A LOT of text messages, Okay? Drive it slow. Send a text “R u there”, and talk like “two friends are talking with each other”. Pay attention to the way the she responds and take note about everything. If she seems cool about everything, then carry on with the second step.

2. Call her

Once you call her, talk casually. Forget the romantic talks you once had, and do it casually. This time, ask her to meet you. Go like “Hey, I was thinking if we can hang out together- For a movie or something like that”. If she’s interested, she will certainly say “Yes, you decide what time” etc etc. Decide it over the phone or to keep the conversation going, tell her we will discuss about it through text.

3. Talk about it

You don’t need to talk about everything that happened. Just slowly, ask her about her life, what is she doing, how’s her job-life etc. When things seem light, tell her about your realization. Listen to how she responds and if anything comes up, please don’t mess things up. If she seems comfortable to get back, then there you go.

4. Don’t repeat the same mistake

This time, give your 100%. Avoid talking about what took place and put more efforts into making her feel special all the time. Act like you were always together. Put on your romantic side and make her feel comfortable and let her make the move too.

5. Propose her

Yep, you can certainly do this. Take her somewhere out, and surprise her with a ring or something that she loves. In short, do a small proposal. It’ll make her happy. 😉

Ways To Win EX Back – Frankly, if your EX acts like she’s over you, then don’t force up buddy. Let it go.

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Romantic Gestures  – Guys, are you struggling to find the spark in your relationship?

If yes, then this article is for you. Well, to impress or say to blossom your love once again, you don’t really need to buy expensive gifts or take her on expensive trips. You can impress her by doing small things that’ll instantly bring a smile on her face.

Yep, once she smiles, you win.

Trust me; these gestures will melt her heart like an ice-cream 😉 So, don’t forget to use ‘em daily and oh yeah, these small yet romantic gestures will make her say that you’re the best BF ever.

1. Help her with FOOD

This is literally the best thing you can ever do. Help her when she’s busy making you something in the kitchen. Go inside, ask her what to do, and just start doing it. Understand, even if you don’t make it right, she’ll at least appreciate that you came and helped her in work. If you just sit there on your lazy ass, then dude nothing’s gonna work out in your relationship.

2. Write love notes

Trust me; it’ll make her blush for the entire day. Write love notes, and place ‘em in her bag or her pocket. Make sure that you don’t bump into Googling what to write, okay? Write something creative, and “I Love You” is good, but make it more romantic.

3. Take her on a long drive

When you feel that the night is boring and even watching a movie is gonna make the night more boring, then get out of the house. Take her with you, and go on a long drive. You know what; the talks you’ll have while driving is incomparable to the house-fun.

4. Be mischievous

In a relationship, sometimes you must act like a child. It’ll just make your GF smile, and she’ll start enjoying with you. You know, just do something crazy i.e. sit on her lap, play with her hair…the list goes on. (You know that better than me, right?)

5. Play games with her

Playing game is a plus point. Convince her to play games with you at night or whenever you both are free. Or simply be there with her when she’s doing something that she likes a lot.

6. Give inexpensive gifts

Guys, girls love inexpensive gifts too. So, please don’t bump into buying only expensive ones, once in a year. Buy her flowers, or give her chocolates, and pay attention towards her likes and dislikes to get a better idea.

7. Watch a romantic movie

Now, don’t just watch a romantic movie. Put some little efforts, and cover your room in a way that romantic vibes are present. Sit down or whatever, and watch a romantic movie to make your night double-romantic.

This was all about the romantic gestures. Do you have anything to say? Let us know in the comment section below.

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Ways To Convince GF – Arguments are worst.

Especially, when you’re arguing with your GF, and in the end, she goes out slamming the door. It gets worse and sometimes the techniques you guys use makes it even more worse. Well, a relationship needs a proper understanding, but I get it, that in the midst of a heated argument, understanding takes a whole new turn. But, leaving it that way is not good, right? I mean, I know girls are little hard to understand or little hard to convince, but it’s not something that is impossible, right? So, each and every time when you’ve a heated argument and you sit down thinking “Oh God, what do I do now?” Just stop thinking and use these techniques as quickly as you realize your mistake.

Trust me; it works.

Note – Please don’t say anything louder if she tries to shout and stretch words/topics etc.

Here are 6 absolute ways to convince GF quickly.

1. Sit down and talk it out

Well, every girl wants that her BF should understand her and listen to her words carefully. So, when things seems to be cooled down, take her and sit down somewhere, and ask her “Darling, what’s the problem?”, “Why are you getting so mad?”. Now, once she starts telling you everything, do not interfere. And then when you know the problem, talk it out and find a solution. Simple, isn’t it?

2. Give her a tight hug

Go towards her and without uttering a word, give her a tight hug. Make her feel special and make her feel safe. Trust me; a hug is like an absolute magic which works amazingly. Give her a hug and I bet that everything will slowly calm down.

3. Use a romantic line

Guys, how many of you have done this? Seriously, you know what, sometimes when you say a perfect romantic line, the girls have no clue and their heart melts. It automatically becomes that “Awwww” moment. Say something like “Your lips look so lonely, would they like to meet me”? It might make her laugh, but it’s a sweet gesture to make things alright.

4. Bring out your funny side

Trust me guys, this one is simply amazing. Go towards her and make funny expressions and try hard to make her laugh. Once she starts laughing, you’ll get back with her. 😉 You know what, this little thing will make you both forget the fight.

5. Pen down sweet words

Guys, it might take a little effort, but trust me, it’s worth. All you need is a pen and piece of papers. Write down cheesy lines, romantic ones, make it funny as well, and pass ‘em to her. Even though she’s angry, I bet that she’ll read the papers.

What more do you want? She’ll end it up laughing or maybe she’ll say “Stop it! You’re so crazy” but all in a good way. 😉

6. Sing a romantic song

Totally romantic… Sing the words loud, and look at her, then give your dirty or romantic expressions, and make it happen. I bet that she’ll turn around and give up too. 😉 And if this doesn’t work, then start making her favorite dish.

These were the ways to convince GF. Girls, do you have any personal points to add? Let us know in the comment section below.

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Games To Play With Your Partner –

Hey, it’s time to play a game.

Yep, tell this to your partner when you both are equally having a sad-bad-dull day. Okay?

I think that many couples mostly watch movies or they take a nap or they’re busy on their cell-phones etc etc when they’re bored. Now, are you one of ‘em? Maybe you are, but don’t you think that doing these things are even more boring? I mean, they somehow take away all the sparkles from the relationships, right? So, why not make it interesting? I mean, you can play games, plus trust me; it’ll be FUN and you’ll end up having a best time together. 😉

So, here are the best games to play with your partner and they’ll help you pass the time romantically.

1. Twister

You certainly need this. Yes, it’s not just fun but too much FUN. In the midst of all the laughs that you’ll share together, the time will pass out so quickly, but it’ll not bother you at-all. It’s a simple game and it definitely promises to bring you closer 😉 So, you can try it and I’m sure that you’ll thank me later.

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2. Truth or Dare

Yeah, I know that it’s an old game, but who cares, I mean, you can make it interesting. I think that it doesn’t matter if the game is old or gold, if it promises to give you fun, then you should play it. You know, you can ask your partner some serious questions or give you can give him a sexy dare (You know, he’s alone & you’re alone) so too-much-fun.

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3. Kissing cards

Take 5 piece of paper and write down the types of kisses that you know e.g. Single lip kiss, The Spiderman kiss or The French kiss. Later, once you’re done, tell your partner to chose one paper and whatever kiss he picks up, tell him to do it.

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4. Staring at each other

Now, when was the last time you looked into your partner’s eyes and observed every little thing? If you haven’t done that yet, then maybe it’s time to do it. All you need to do is, make it romantic by playing a soft music and then staring into your partner’s eyes. Whosoever loses it will have to perform. You know, it’s like giving a dare.

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5. Story-making

You don’t have to make it a movie story. So, chill down and have fun. All you need to do is, start a story and then tell your partner to continue with it. Make it romantic and get your creativity out with it. Keep doing it till 15-20 turns, and see where it goes.

These were the games to play with your partner. Do you have any other games to add? Let us know in the comment section below.

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Compliment For Guys – Ladies, have you ever complemented a man? Have you seen his expression during that moment? Didn’t you felt that men seriously love compliments?

Honestly, they love it more than you think. You know, it makes them tremendously happy and thus there’s always a sudden smile on their face. Just like a girl who loves to hear “Hey, you’re so beautiful”, there are compliments that men loves to hear too. For ladies, who are committed, I’m pretty sure that you must be expecting compliments from your BF. You know what; secretly your BF must be expecting it from you as well. Yep, that’s absolutely possible.

So, in terms of complimenting girls, guys get it real quick. But, girls are somewhat confused i.e. what should I say and stuff? Frankly, you don’t have to be creative with your words, ‘cause simple ones are appreciated too.

Here are compliment for guys –

1. I’m proud of you

This one is No.1 compliment that every man on this earth wants to hear. So, whenever your BF does something worth appreciating let him know that you’re so proud of him. Trust me; it’ll not only make him happy but it’ll indirectly encourage him to do better things and be a good person.

2. I feel safe around you

This will definitely make him feel responsible but in a good way. He will like the fact that you feel good to be with him and he’ll appreciate it too. In the end, he’ll always make sure to protect you more and more.

3. You look very handsome

Every girl expects a guy to compliment her when she’s wearing a new dress etc, right? Just like that, every man expects a girl to look at him and compliment him about his body and appearance. For e.g. you can say “You look very handsome” or “You also look very handsome in your messy hair”… 😉

4. I love the way you tackle situations

Trust me; this one works like a magic. You know, there are always problems in a relationship be it personal or relationship-based. Guys have their own technique of solving the problems, so if your BF has amazing techniques, then give him this compliment.

I’m sure that he’s gonna love it.

5. You always bring the best out of me

This sweet compliment is something that every man would love to hear from his special lady. It indirectly gives him a sense of inner satisfaction too. This is like another biggest compliment that will make him a better person.

6. You’ve a good sense of humor

Mostly men try to make girls laugh as much as they can. So, when your BF is really trying hard to make you laugh with jokes, tell him sweetly that “You’ve a good sense of humour”.

7. I love your voice

You know how guys say “I like your smile”, just like that in a way; you can tell your BF that “I love your voice”. It’ll make him 100% blush. He’ll actually think about it whenever he is talking to you. Isn’t that great?

This was all about the compliment for guys. Ladies, do you have anything to add? Comment below.

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“Things We All Did When We Had A Crush”

No matter what, our high school days are undeniably irreplaceable, agree? The feeling of having a crush on a classmate and then quietly starring ‘em, was literally the best thing that ever happened during that time.

Even you must’ve had a little crush in your good-old-high school-days, right? And frankly, even you must’ve did crazy things, just so that, your crush will notice and stuff like that. You know, having crush on the classmate is like experiencing the craziest thing in the world. It doesn’t matter if the things we do make us look strange because we’re so much into that moment, that everything around looks magical.

Well according to me, these are the things we all did when we had a crush.

1. Attending the boring lectures

Yes!! No matter how boring the lectures were, all of us must’ve attended lectures only because our crush is attending. The reason was simple- You just wanted to look at your crush and admire the beauty etc.

And like some people say- This was actually good because we were marked present too.

2. Writing name at the backside of the book

I don’t know about boys, but girls must’ve done this for sure. You know, when lectures are boring or there’s nothing to do, decorating the back pages and writing name of the crush in a stylish manner was the coolest thing.

3. You went to places where your crush was already present

C’mon! This thing is a sure shot. I mean, during that moment, it doesn’t matter if you hated the place but if your crush was hanging out there, it meant that you should you go there too.

4. You kept talking about your crush

You must’ve never got tired talking about your crush with your BFF. Discussing things like- “Hey, he was looking so handsome”, “Today he looked at me and smiled”, and “He was standing so close to me” etc etc.

5. Day-dreaming about your crush

The moment you saw your crush, the butterflies in the stomach started to fly. And then day-dreaming that your crush is having a sweet-talk with you and the instant smile on your face used to describe it all.

6. Getting Jealous but acting cool

Yeah I can understand this thing totally. When your crush used to talk with somebody else, that little thing used to kill you. But all you did was acted as if “everything is cool” and that’s it.

7. “Hi”, “Bye” was like the best part of the day

When your crush used to say “Hi” or even a “Goodbye”- it was like the best thing that happened and then you used to keep repeating the way he said it.

These were the things we all did when we had a crush and i think, it must’ve put you in the “reminiscing mode” for sure.

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