Health and wealth both are important in a relationship it may be after marriage between a husband and wife or girlfriend and boyfriend. Money is the base of any relationship, while those who still believe that they can spend their life together without money, after some days of relationships may fade down similar to fading of colors. A strong mental and physical health are also important when both couples think of spending time together. No one can replace each other but some point of a time relationship turns to head in a complicated manner.

So at the initial stage for the sake of strong bonding, it is essential to understand and know to balance between health and wealth. Health is the main key for a healthy relationship, so if you find that a distance arises between the couples which are unlike the start of the love affairs it is alarming. The entire presence and spending quality time with the partner smoothen the bonding. Develops trust and brings you closer but often most of them lack to be present mentally and physically.
So, health is important, but where does one lack in providing the importance to the partner? How deterioration of health discourage building a strong bonding?
The main reason for health issues is the urge to work more and earn better. For earning a little bit more, commonly, one will put some more time and effort. Slowly earning turns to become an addiction and you finally less time for yourself; as you lack sleep, you are highly stressed most of the time and then you find yourself surviving with lots of health issues.

As you spend less or no time finally your partner finds out some alternative ways to keep herself busy or utilize it in some better opportunity while slowly a gap starts to develop in the relationship which cannot be managed or fulfilled by health and wealth.
Wealth can provide you a better materialistic lifestyle, fulfill yours, and your partner’s regular amenities including the medicines for recovery from health issues. But you may always lack the bonding of trust and happiness that you had aimed to have at the start of your Journey.
But somewhere it is true without wealth life becomes unbearable similar to the lack of health. When it is time that your partner may have demanded for a diamond ring on her birthday but you are unable to spend. Often you will realize that the lack of wealth develops issues in the relationship.

The wealth that cannot provide luxury and comfort does not create major bonding issues when you can give some time to your partner keeping the essence of health and wealth aside. A proper balance between health and wealth has always proven the strong bonding that has developed over time. Neither money nor the stress of work and health should interfere in between the couples as at a point of time both need to make up their mind to live happily ever after no matter whatever hurdles are in the path of togetherness.

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After a particular age, a girl’s private life becomes a public affair. Oh yes I forgot she needs to conceive and hence the rush.

Well motherhood is the most amazing thing ever but it is completely the wish and desire of an individual to be or not to be a mom.

Rushing and putting the peer pressure and constantly reminding a girl of her growing age is really not a very healthy practice and should be stopped.

The famous song ‘Kuch Toh Log Kahengey’ is so apt even in this generation. People seriously are so jobless that someone’s private life becomes their sole concern.

After a certain age if you are unmarried then attending a marriage function/ family gathering/ funeral…be it any occasion people somehow find some or the other unique way to start talking about your marriage.

The famous question comes, so what are you up to these days…when are you getting married???

You feel ughhh. The only way you avoid this question is either wear a smile or say soon you would inform them. The most cliché dialogue is to say that you are waiting for the right man.

Damn if you happen to say that dialogue then there is a serious consultation process where you would be grilled to death about there isn’t any right and wrong and you need to settle down immediately.

The kind of situations that an unmarried girl faces can be extreme. Marriages and family gatherings are the favorite spots where you would easily be the ‘bakra’ if you are unmarried.

There would be constant taunts, “tera number kab aayega.” Slightly older women would resort to “haay teri shaadi ke baad main chain se mar sakti hoon.”

It is baffling to me how a girl’s marriage is inversely proportional to someone’s life. Anyways when an elderly person uses this famous line of emotionally making you weak then you also play the emotional card and say that you don’t wish her death sooner and hence you are delaying the marriage.

Indian household is all about melodrama. You need to master the art of tickling the emoticons and you are set to tackle all your problems.

Sometimes apart from relatives you might even find your boss inquisitive about your marital status.

“By when do you plan to get married or are you going to marry soon?” These are very common trademark questions in any interview.

Politely ask the HR or whoever asks you this thing that if the job credentials require any specific household skill. Act baffled and shocked and revert asking the connection between the job profile and your marriage plans.

Your attitude will make it clear that you wish to draw a thick line between your personal and professional life and you won’t entertain such questions.

Sometimes random people also seem to take a very keen interest in your love affairs and marriage plans. Politely ask them, “Why do you want to know when I am getting married? Are you interested?”

If the person asking is a guy he will be intimidated by your bold attitude and would shut up. If the person is a girl she will freak out (assuming she is straight) and would simply avoid you.

Neighbors are the most concerned of all the people in your life if you are unmarried. Living next door to a poky neighbor can be extremely irritating.

Your lifestyle, friend circle, work, etc. everything seems to bother them if you are unmarried. Their sole concern in life would be to keep an eye on you and they do it so aptly that you can’t even directly be rude to them.

Invite them for a dinner or lunch and get your guy friends. Also there would be at least one such relative who would understand your plight. Call that relative too.

Now that would be fun. When the neighbor aunty/ uncle watch your relative completely cool about your lifestyle and your friends then it would be a face palm moment for him/ her.

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Come on, tell us frankly, what crosses your mind when you think of moving in with your in-laws? that they will be intimidating? there will be winds of unsolicited Gyaans? they will press you for bearing their descendant? the will keep you on your toes with the household works? they will be fault-finding and you can’t dress up in your own terms? well, my girl, get a fact-check. The recent scenario has changed a lot and the in-laws are not all those from the K-series serials chanting mental dialogues against you or vowing to destroy you. Take a chill pill!

Millennials are afraid of marriage because in Indian ethos, in-laws play a pivotal part and they have always been demonized by the Bahus for obvious reasons. If a westernized lifestyle is your kink, so far, you were expected to be apologetic about it but not any longer. Sasural is no longer that hellhole that you always thought it to be, rather, you it has way liberal approach now towards accepting the new gen.

The video below is a rough sketch of what Indian marital houses look like now to the daughter-in-law. The in-laws here are no less than her own parents who treat her in the same manner as they would treat their own daughter. This video, however, compels us to think that are we, the Bahus, not way too critical about our parents-in-laws? that too driven by the stereotypical beliefs that they are Claudius or Lady Macbeth straight out of the pages of Shakespeare?

It could not get cooler to have a Sasumom like the one in the video. Firstly, she never barrages her daughter-in-law with life gyaans and gives her the breathing space. Secondly, when she changes the sofa with a new set, she doesn’t roll her eyes. Thirdly, she even passes slapstick jokes on seeing her hiding her beautiful dress behind a funny jacket. I mean, how cool is that?

The Bahu, obviously learns to take care of her new family because it comes easily to her. The chemistry between them is like water, beguiling and simple. So far, we have come to believe that taking care of your parents-in-laws bears no fruit because they will anyway be critical, but when parents-in-laws are the cool lots like this, life is a party!

Everyone deserves to live life in their own conditions. Respect and love is earned not thrusted. When it is trusted upon someone, it becomes duty. This video is a heart-warming ode to the new-age chemistry between the Bahu and her parents-in-law which is so fun to watch. Don’t believe us? well, see it for yourself and laugh a bit like we did.

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Serious efforts to achieve you -You have been playing court to the guy for quite some time and the relationship is all set to take a new leap.

You went all easy-does-it lately but the matters of the heart have now gone out of hand and the distance seems really trying. You can’t wait to be announced man and wife and set up your love nest.

But getting there is not always easy for the lovers especially when their families haven’t many things in common and they raise resistance against your marriage. But you know that the guy will hang in there to move heaven and earth to achieve you.

Here are the clear signs that he is a keeper and putting serious efforts to make you his institutionally:

Serious efforts to achieve you –

1 – He handles all your mood swings:

It is really a blessing to have a guy like this who can handle your mood swings really responsibly. After all, if he doesn’t handle you in your worse, he definitely doesn’t deserve you in your best.

2 – He persuades you to introduce him to your family:

He is a gentleman and doesn’t approve of the idea to hurt sentiments for your own gain. He knows that your family is very dear to you and hence he wants to be introduced to your family and charm hearts.

3 – He makes you comfortable again when you lose hope:

He is hell bent on achieving you and pretty serious about you. So, he makes indefatigable efforts to make you comfortable and look at the brighter side again. He knows that you don’t lose when you don’t achieve, you lose when you lose all hopes to achieve.

4 – He makes plans for your future together:

He doesn’t shy away from making plans. He makes life plans and shows serious concerns to make them come true. No matter if parents are not yet ready, in his mind there is a clear image about your honeymoon is going to look already.

5 – He proudly flaunts you in public:

Of course he is proud of you as you are his trophy girlfriend and makes no qualms in flaunting that in public. He introduces you to his family and friends and never stops gushing over you before them. The clear sign that he is never going to give up on you is that he makes his friends secondary while making you the primary concern in his life.

6 – He lets you be, you:

Every distance seems small like a grasshopper before compatibility. If you two are compatible, there’s nothing that will make things crumble. He knows that you need breathing space too, so makes no effort to change you and loves you as the person you are.

7 – He is always honest with you:

He doesn’t beat around the bush and tells you upfront what he thinks about life because he is comfortable with you and he knows that you will not judge but stand by him as a rock.

These are the signs that he is putting Serious efforts to achieve you –  So, if you already have a guy like this, you are one lucky girl.

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Get married before 30 – As the saying goes, marriages are made in heaven and waiting for the special person until your 30s seems like worth the wait.

Judging by the Indian mentality, women who reach the threshold of 25 are constantly badgered by the aunties to get married and match-make you with every handsome eligible bachelor they come across. The build-your-career-then-get-married fact aside, you need to wait until you reach your 30s to take a call on marriage for many reasons.

Here are some legit reasons why you should not Get married before 30 and give that marriage crazy aunties cold shoulder before you are 30.

1 – You don’t want a failed marriage:

When you know you have married a wrong person in the hurry to ‘settle down’ before 30 just because your other friends were doing the same, you are signing up for unhappiness. You are bound to gasp for breath after you have realized that you have married a person with whom your ideologies don’t match.

2 – Huge age gaps are not romantic:

The age-gap mark should be 3 years to give couple-goals, if your husband is any older than that, it will be quite the elbow grease to make him understand your point. Take for instance, if you are 25 and marrying a 30, he is more unlikely to understand your dreams and aspirations.

3 – You will have had fun with the wrong guys before you meet your prince charming:

If you marry in 30, you will get enough chance to date around and have the best sexual encounters. So, there will be no regret in your heart that you wasted the golden days of your life rolling Rotis.

4 – You will get enough time to recover from your major heartbreak:

We are always in the lookout for transitory happiness and so when we have a bitter break-up, then in pursuit to fill that emotional vacuum, we get head-on into wrong relationships. So, if you marry in your 30s, you are getting enough time to tide over the bitterest break-up and start things afresh. So that you don’t keep comparing your husband to your first love.

5 – You know your true worth and standard when you are 30:

You have a clear picture about yourself in your mind. You know your self-worth and what kind of a person you deserve, so you are less likely to make a wrong decision.

6 – You have better communication skills:

All this while, you have devoted time and energy to hone your communication skills by reading, working, interacting with people. You have grown through your experiences so while a chat with that special person, you never run out of topics.

7 – You have more patience:

You are immune to mind games and it take many a fuckboys to reach this feat. So, your patience has notched up higher and you are not the fickle minded person of your 20s. Maintaining a happy marriage needs lots of patience, keep a note.

8 – You are more responsible financially:

After all those years of impulsive expenses, you have finally learned to save money and handle the other financial matter skilfully. You have made investments which will feed fat your affluence in the married life.

9 – You have lived alone:

Nothing can be compared to living alone. When a person lives by his side, he learns a lot of things about himself that stays with him. So, you will have no regrets at heart and start a conjugal life happily.

10 – You have found your voice:

You have learned to stand up for yourself and you are no longer the person who tries to make everyone happy. You can call spade a spade now and don’t care who sees red from it.

Get married before 30 – So, sums up you have learned to be the love you were looking for in your 30s and marriage seems worth the wait now.

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Marriage is best institution for self fulfillment and gratification. It is one of the important decisions that we make in our life.

There are no double thoughts on that but what shocks us and make us go mad when people from so called society and our own family end up giving very strange and silly reasons so that we walk down the isle any how.

Below are some stupid and silly reasons to get married as given by our “well wishers”.

1.  We ask another question? Do we study and earn to get license to marry ultimately?

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An average Indian male is always in a confused state of mind!

Who to listen to? To his heart that wants adventure, excitement and fun or to his mummy ji, who only wants a sober, decent, homely life for him? Unable to select between the two due to his conditioning from the stone-age era, he makes poor decisions and suffers his whole life with a life partner not fit for him!

Are you able to find your own life’s story in this?

I can understand as we all are in the same boat, well almost!

Look, nobody has seen heaven or hell, all that we have is our life on earth and it has to be spent happily while enjoying and having fun!

However, what most of us men do when it comes to selecting a girlfriend is we go for the so-called ‘bad’ girl of the society. Now how do you define ‘bad’? As per the double standards of our society, any girl who smokes, drinks, wears clothes that hardly cover her body and talks to boys or flirts with them is a bad girl! Simple! Now you must be wondering almost all men of our country do these things so are we all ‘bad’? Nah, these stupid rules are only for women, we men are the direct prasad of God to rule the planet! Hah!!

Anyways, so we men basically choose these girls as our girlfriends because we connect with them, we have a good time with them and somehow our sensibilities match. In short, we connect! You would think this is what is required in a life partner, that connection that will help to sail through the ups and lows of life, right? Wrong! This is not what our society teaches us! It says; go for the girls who despite seeking fun are domesticated by their over-zealous and over-protective parents, those girls who are only taught to grow up to be wives and mothers and servants of a family instead of becoming individuals and living an independent life! Can they give you fun? Yes, definitely, but not the kind of fun you may seek. You may want to travel the world; she may just want to raise the kids! You may have certain dreams and ambitions, her goal might only be to get the best out of her maid!

It is not that good girls don’t have bad aspects about their personalities or bad girls are like a black spot on the society. The whole thing is that this whole definition of good and bad is outdated, hypocritical and nauseating to the core! Goodness and badness of a human being are to be judged by the purity of their heart and soul, by their honesty, loyalty and such other ethics that make humans different from animals!

Therefore, stop being such an ass and classifying girls as good or bad! Girls are girls and should be loved, respected and treated equally as human beings, nothing more, nothing less! Choose the one who completes you and who you can complete and then take the most important decision of your life. It’s only one life, after all, right?

Live it on!

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Marriage or no marriage, the question shouldn’t be this.

Every relationship’s priority should be loyalty and commitment.

Marriage, I would say, is a system where two people make an official announcement of coming together because either they love each other or because they feel a need for companionship (in which case, they arrange a marriage). But then, the basis of live-in relationship is only love, there is no arrangement made that have risen out of insecurity. One second! If there is no insecurity and only love then why there is no marriage? Is it because it’s an institution that makes walking out of a relationship difficult? If the relationship is based only on love, then why don’t you feel like you can be with the person for a lifetime?

But then marriage has its own problems. The only difference between live-in relationships and marriage is that you cannot walk out of a marriage easily. Still, walking out or not is your decision which can be taken anytime.

Then what is this live-in relationship or marriage fight all about? Relationship, of any kind is an individual’s choice, and no one has the right to interfere in it, unless and until it does not harm any third person, as only the individuals involved face the consequences of their decision. Especially, in a country like India where no one says a word against child marriages, where there is no strict law against rape, where no one bothers to take any action against khaap panchayat; people should not comment on anyone’s personal lives. May people choose to be in a gay relationship, lesbian relationship, live-in relationship or choose to marry, no one has the right to not let them choose their own relationships.

And when did marriage promise you security, a life-long relationship, loyalty and love? If that would have been the case, marital rapes wouldn’t have existed.

It’s high time that we, as human beings, decide to live and let live.

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Being in a relationship is like working.

You need to always ensure that you don’t let the bad incidents bring you down, you avoid as many leaves as possible from the other person’s life and you expect to learn through your journey with that person.

But what happens in most relationship is that people tend to think that fighting is the biggest catastrophe to a relationship. People are so busy in their lives that they tend to not have time to mend their relationships – rather they let it loose, hang it by a thread, and let fate decide for itself.

Actually, fighting in a relationship makes it healthier on many levels. Surprised?

Let me tell you how:

1. It lets your stress out: Most couples fight either because they carry the stress from their work or home, or because of usual reasons of not liking what the other said. But it is ok to fight. It lets you and your significant other open up, throw tantrums, scream and cry – basically lets you pour out all the worries and tension you have stuffed inside yourself.

2. Makes you care for each other: Close to 90% couples start worrying and caring the minute they see their significant other crying in a fight. I am not telling you to escape the fight by crying! But it tends to calm the other down and you end up talking things out rather than continuing the fight for long. At the end of it you realize that you were quarrelling with each other for the silliest things!

3. Seeing more of the significant other: Some couples decide to do the silent treatment. Now imagine a situation where your loved one is not around to even throw this treatment at him/her. What would you do? You end up wanting to see them, although you hold off showing your care for the first few days after the fight. Basically, you realize how important they are to you and you tend to love them even more.

4. You learn to find your level of harmony: Fighting helps you to understand the level of understanding needed for your loved one and you learn to compromise. You would never go to bed angry and you will not leave arguments hanging. It not only leads to a healthy relationship, but a happier you!

5. Clearing the air: You both will learn to clear the air about many issues. It might start with one and lead to another. That’s how fights always go and it will only lead you both to learn to discuss and clear all your doubts and jealousy about many things you have not spoken to each other about. You might bring up the past but it will lead the other to understand things that hurt you and you both start to be more concerned about each others feelings.

Time flies by and so will your fights. Do not let a small argument build up into a bigger one. Let go, forgive and forget because there aren’t too many people who understand you like your loved one does.

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Alcohol is a drink made by adults, for adults!

However, in an intelligent country of ours, every state is having difficulty in understanding the basic definition of adult. It’s like, who the hell is an adult? Should an adult be defined based on body size and shape? Or by age? Or by mental maturity? Or by the money in his or her pocket?

The governments across the country are distressed by the question of the century and despite having multiple committees and debates, there is no single conclusion to be drawn as to what should be an ideal age to start drinking. Some states have passed laws making the legal drinking age at 25, while others are keeping at 21.

Here are reasons why why age to drink should be 18 years as the legal age to start drinking:

1) People Drink Anyways

No matter what is the age criteria, for those who know the way get their hands on alcohol anywhere in the country! Yes, it is not advisable for kids to drink alcohol, but look around and you will find so many teenagers drinking frequently. Rather than teaching those youngsters how to bribe and get into corrupt ways for their daily quota of drinks, make the age at 18! At least it saves them from buying liquor from black market for 3-7years, depending on which state they are in!

2) Legal Revenue

Yes, Mr. Minister kindly note that right now the prohibitions and ad hoc age criteria are making your government lose vital revenue, which is anyways getting generated via the black market. How about making it legal so the liquor sells over the table and your coffers get filled by genuine revenues that can be, hoping against hope, spent on the welfare of common man!

3) One Criteria

Save the youth of this country from being confused about their rights. I mean, vote at 18, marry at 21 for boys, liquor at 25 or 21  etc. A guy will sit and think as to whether he is really ready for the world? The whole nation wants boys to shoulder the country’s responsibilities, but they are not allowed to take basic decisions of their life. If they are to be spoon-fed everything, why bother with responsibilities and stuff?

4) Freedom For Girls

Despite all the noise about women empowerment, girl-child marriages are still rampant in major part of the country. This means that most girls are mothers before they turn 18! So legally a girl is allowed to marry at 18, that law is not enforced or executed anyways, and she can touch liquor only when she turns 21 or 25? Is liquor a more difficult decision of life than marriage or kids?

5) Biology

All you decision-makers sitting in the comfort zone of your offices, please read biology and understand that human evolution is causing physical and mental changes in human development at a much faster rate than imagined. Therefore, girls are hitting puberty sooner than usual, the boys are growing a beard faster than expected and the world is changing fast! Therefore, trust the youth of the country, educate them about the ills of liquor and then let them make their decisions. And if you don’t trust the youth, then ban liquor! No, you won’t do that because there are revenues to be earned, right?

Well, all these politicians take such calls according to their vote-bank and dubious analytical methods. Apply common sense and take decisions that can be considered wise. As such today’s and coming generation is much smarter and wiser than the yesterday’s one, so don’t try to fool them!

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People say marriages are made in heaven and performed on earth and also that there is someone out there for all of us.

Wonder why still some of us get irritated when someone asks-Beta shaadi kab kar rahe ho?

Are you also one of us? Don’t worry you’re not alone 😉

Today we look at some of the possible reasons why our generation is running away from marriage, the sacred bond!

Because we are commitment phobic!

Because na pyaar se, na thappad se hame darr lagta hai commitment se!

Hey marriage can wait, our career won’t!

Because one day our career won’t wake up and say – I don’t love you anymore.

Because abhi meri umar hi kya hai?

Am just 25, Salman is 49 and still unmarried right?

Because we want Freeeeeeeeedom!

Ah I love my space and freedom too much!

We think we’re not made for marriage!

We just don’t think we’re not made for such things like marriage! Nah, not really…

We are too much addicted to our single life

Being single rocks! Do you get that?

We don’t want divorce!

Marriages these days is just like china ka maal…

Some of us believe in fairy tale endings badly!

Well at least I do! Spoilt by this you see…

We don’t want to have babies!

Well what’s after shaadi? Of course babies and well we’re just not ready for them..

Too cool for marriage!

We are just too awesome to get married. Is there a possibility to get married to our self? No naa?

We don’t want to hurt others!

We believe we might screw the life of our partner.

We don’t want to get hurt either!

Can’t handle too much pain you see!

We’ve had our heart broken!

Kyuki hum ek baar jeete hai..ek baar marte hai aur pyaar bhi ek baar karte hai! Well that’s what some of us tell ourselves.

There are millions of things to do before marriage!

Like going out and having fun!

May be we haven’t got the right one yet!

I guess the right one has gone the wrong way and is lost!

So which one of these reasons you give yourself for not getting married?

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“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person”.

Does this stand true for you?

Marriage is termed as a sacred bond.  After marriage you are made to believe…And they lived happily ever after, but it’s just a lie you are told to believe.

Sometimes even when you are still married to your partner, you feel like everything you once shared with them is over. You feel like you want to quit, but stay because it’s also tough to walk out of a marriage.

Here we list some signs that show there’s definitely some trouble brewing in your married life.

When you don’t communicate

Communication is very much important for any relationship. Even if you have issues in your marriage and you still don’t talk, then sadly there’s already trouble in your paradise. Lack of communication in a marriage is a very bad sign, especially if you are talking to others and not your own partner. When you don’t even express your emotions to them, how will you survive the life long relation of marriage?

When you don’t respect each other

Just like trust and communication, mutual respect for each other is also one of the most important factor for a successful marriage. If your partner always tries to pull you down, make you feel rejected or dismissed, this is again a bad sign for your marriage.

When you are disconnected from each other

I know in today’s time, when both the partners are working, or if only one is working, it gets difficult to spend some quality time together. But they say it’s all about priorities. If most of the time, you or your partner is spending more time on other things than each other, it’s again a sign that indicates you have moved on from each other.

When there is no intimacy left

Agree or not, passion and intimacy both physical and emotional is very important for a healthy marriage. If you don’t feel the kiss anymore, these are early signs you are drifting apart. Making love is one of the most important way we show closeness and affection for each other, and if you lack some action between the sheets, you need to add some spice to your marriage and save yourself from the heartbreak.

If you stop putting each other first

If you can’t make your partner your priority, your marriage is going to suffer.

If you are self-centered, chances are your partner will feel ignored and neglected at all times and this could hamper your marriage. Marriage is a give and take relation, sometimes you have to ensure your partner’s needs are met while also making sure your own needs are met too. You have to understand and value each other’s needs to be happy in your marriage.

I know sometime it’s tough to survive a bad marriage, but if you really want to make it work, your efforts will count. Both the partners have to communicate and try to rekindle the romance and love that’s missing in their marriage after sometime.

Before quitting and moving always think there must be a reason you held this relation for long.

If this sounds like you or your marriage, you should work on your marriage before it’s too late. Trust me things can always be fixed. There is always hope, all you need is to make it your priority.

Talk to each other, make each other feel loved and secure.

Wake up and SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE!

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Okay okay, don’t jump out of your seats now!

And what, are you drooling? Come on now, put your eyes back in your socket, we are not offering any options for your beloved better half!

All we are talking about is do we need such dating websites given the fact that extramarital affairs are as common these days as air? Of course, people do it in hiding, yet the whole world knows about it! Some do it for extra spice, some out of desperation, for some it is just to kill extra time and for some it’s a thrilling adventure!

Monogamy has been propagated to us for centuries to maintain an order in society, but polygamy is what has been lurking beneath the surface and has slowly become the hard reality of life. Why not make some money out of an average human’s desire to have multiple partners? Why not tap into the potential of earning quick bucks by exploiting the thrill and adventure seeking psyche of so many men and women who also want extra fun in bed?

Where there is a need, there is a product to satisfy that need. Keeping this in mind, various websites have been launched in various countries to give anonymous extramarital affairs a big push! You are married, but not happy and want some action on the side? Log on to such websites, where many like-minded married people are there for you to chat with, know deeper and take that acquaintanceship to next level by meeting in real life and having some great secret fun!

The only hiccup is there isn’t any such website in India as of now, nothing at least that can offer safe and secret ways for married people to engage in such activities. Yes, the ethics brigade will kill anyone who tries to corrupt the society with such outrageous ideas by offering such services, but that’s hypocrisy. Even without such dating websites the business of extramarital affairs is growing everyday and faster than anyone of us can even imagine!

Before actually asking for it, the only question is, are we as a society ready to accept it? Are we evolved enough to handle it without causing mayhem in our real lives? The adults who would be seeking fun out of marriage in a secret manner, can they actually handle the emotions that will come as a baggage? A lot of thought needs to be given before only concerning yourself with the excitement of getting sex with new partners without any strings!

No matter what anyone’s views are, day by the day the need for such a service is increasing and in the countries where it is launched, it is gaining traction and followers. The day is not far when we see one such website here as well!

For the moment, work on your marriage and try to make it work or get out of it if it’s not working rather than seeking risky thrills!

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Is growing up with an abandoned mom any different than growing up with a divorced mom?

In case of a kid whose mother was divorced, the child enjoys relations with both parties but in the case of abandonment the child somehow loses respect for the father figure or any elderly man in the society.

A kid whose mother was abandoned is a rebellious fighter and develops complexes. Along with their mother, they feel abandoned too.

A child, whose mother got divorced, is often confused as he/ she grows up in two different households.

In both cases the child would face the problem of building relations. The height of scepticism increases whenever the child gets attached. There would be a subconscious tendency to be over conscious about any relation.

The child whose mom was abandoned and the child whose mom got divorced both would have their share of trust issues. In case of the child whose father abandoned them the trust issue would be about the person. For example any person they meet they would have a fear if the person is trustworthy. In case of the child whose mother is divorced the trust issue is regarding the relation. As the child grows up he/ she might enjoy a very hunky dory affair with a person but there is a constant fear of losing everything. Sometimes freaking out for no reason at all actually causes damage to the relation.

Embarrassment: Our society is structured in a way where divorce is considered ‘western’ culture. Moreover let us not even get into the debate of pre-marital sex. The child who is abandoned faces extreme challenges from the society as the mother is questioned usually on her character. If the man abandoned them after marriage then the attitude would be sympathetic but if the woman is unmarried then the world views her child with a lot of criticism.

Sex without marriage is considered taboo. Imagine people like M. L. Sharma and A. P. Singh…the society would constantly haunt the mother and the child with unwanted questions.

Abandoned mom or divorced – both cases the children have their own share of struggles.

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Drashti Dhami: Remember her guys?

Well, yeah she is the same actress who did two super hit TV shows as the lead actress and then went on to do a dance show and finally ended up hosting the same show before getting a kick on her ass from the same show in which she was adjudged the winner!

Drishti Dhami

Quite a happening career, isn’t it?

Well, seldom such celebrities come across who are more in the news for their off-screen acts rather than on-screen performances or talent. Drashti is definitely one of them.

No doubt she did win the hearts of audiences with her show Geet- Hui Sabse Parayi and then with Madhubala- Ek Ishq Ek Junoon. She garnered a massive fan following which helped her in winning the dance reality show, Jhalak Dikhla Ja. However, all this while she was in the news for either being a big tantrum queen on the sets or being linked up with her co-actors or causing abmarital rift in her co-star’s lives. Of course she denied it all, but it didn’t help the matter when she was thrown out of Jhalak Dikhla Ja for being one of the most boring and un-interesting hosts ever! That was the time which kind of sounded like the rock bottom in her career. And it’s been a while that she is seen in any new show on TV.

Madhubala – Indian TV Show

But the good news is that she is back in news and like how! Everyone is covering the news of her impending marriage to Neeraj Khemka whom she was dating for a long time, but kept denying it from the rooftops! Wondering why she did that if ultimately she had to settle down with the same fellow.

Anyways, the good thing about it is that finally she has chosen the role of a housewife for herself which is kind of justified as well. After being in the limelight for so long and doing various roles, it must have become obvious to her that she has a limited shelf life as an actor due to her limited acting abilities and practically zero improvisation skills (best example is her failure as a TV host which requires on the spot improvisation according to the situation!!). Given the influx of younger, more beautiful and much more talented actresses in the TV fiction space, it will be very difficult for her to get another show as a lead actress. And for sure she won’t do character roles just for the heck of it, right?

So in a way it is good that we as audience won’t have to bear her presence due to her pseudo-celebrity status and she won’t have to do projects which she feels are not doing justice to her (non-existing) talent!

For now, we would just like to wish her a very happy and love-filled married life! Live and let live!

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Every relationship experiences its own phase of complications. When you care about that one person the bond you both share can be extremely strong yet vulnerable. There is a constant fear of losing the person you love.

We fight and pour our hearts out only to that person because that person is close to the heart. Love is a rare gift and hence you would find lots of bad influences around you trying to create a rift between you both.

The influencers need not be a distant person, he/ she would most of the times be someone very close to you.

It may be a prank or a time pass affair for your friends but it can lead to a growing discomfort in your relation.

I am not denying that friends aren’t important but as they have their own level of importance in your life, you partner also deserves the equal amount of respect and care.

When you are going through a rough patch in your relation even the slightest of comments tend to add fuel to the fire. Most of the fights in a relation are due to a third party and that third party exists in all forms.

It may be a mother-in-law, close friend, parent, sister, etc. – basically anyone close to you. They might be having the best intentions for your life but really no one has the right to influence your relation.

Nobody would understand the bond you share with your partner other than you both.

If someone genuinely cares for you then they would fight all odds to make you meet your lover.

But there are many people to influence you otherwise when your relation is seeing the low. It may even be your best buddy who has a secret desire for you but could never speak a word.

Third party in a relation

In the above still from the movie ‘Aashiq Banaya Aapne’, Emran Hashmi is shown to be carrying the bad boy image but his love for the lady is pure and honest. The best friend played by Sonu Sood has a very good image and she looks up to him for matters important to her.

You definitely need to beware of such introverts as you never know what their secret intention is.

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Ladies and gentlemen, brace yourselves up for an actual beginning of the year as now is the time that the real creativity begins!

The geniuses have opened their mouth and blessed us mere mortals with a new word in Hindi language that has the real potential of changing lives and has the potential to even go as far as to be crowned as the word of the decade if not the century!

Surprised? Well, let’s spill the beans and tell you what we are talking about.

It is all about the new word created by the Bengali beauty, Dimpy Ganguly in Bigg Boss 8!

No one knows, including herself, the origin of this word which is called DEYU!

Apparently Dimpy used her great IQ (must be a genius than Einstein, huh??) to just give a name to someone who gives (gives what??? , We are clueless!! And so are you), simple term, DEYU! How cool is that?

The story doesn’t end here though. The actual fun is that someone like Sambhavna Seth interpreted the meaning of this word in a totally different way. She feels DEYU is someone who offers sex for getting work or getting work done. Now, isn’t it mind-bogglingly super creative? In fact, it is so convenient to portray a meaning of the word which is favourable for her.

Talking about Sambhavna, she is the same girl who had boasted in the show that she studied in a Hindi medium school and all those Hindi cuss words are pretty normal language for her and are not at all shocking. She claims to have been brought up amidst such colourful lingo and is proud of it. In that case, how does a word, which is not even present in people’s dictionary, DEYU, becomes so offending for her? And what about the whole action of explaining the meaning of it to Karishma Tanna? If that wasn’t vulgar and insulting and offending, what else could be for a girl who is scared that this word can break her impending marriage? This is called seeking attention and creating issues when there are none to gain attention and stay in the show. For that, full marks to Sambhavna!

Coming to Dimpy, her dumbness quotient is seen to be believed! If you are weak in a language, learn the basics and then innovate rather than using half-knowledge to gamble with the aesthetics of a language and make it sound funny. Big fail on Dimpy’s part!

In short, we don’t know who is giving or who is taking or who is giving what and who is taking what!

All we know is that, Dene whale jab bhi data, data copied fad ke! ‘wink wink’

Hope whoever is giving here is giving in abundance and keeps giving like that so that whoever is receiving gets it in good quantity!

For the rest of us, let’s enjoy this show of giving and receiving!

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Eva Mendes is pregnant!

Isn’t this good news? It SHOULD BE considering she is pregnant with her boyfriend Ryan Gosling’s baby. Both have been dating each other for past three years and this new development only goes on to say that their relationship is getting stronger by the day!

However, social media and specifically Ryan’s fans haven’t taken this news kindly. Ryan Gosling, the star of one of the best romantic movies ever made in Hollywood, The Notebook, was in a relationship with the film’s actress, Rachel McAdams but they called it after dating for only two years in off in 2007.

Now, all those romantic souls, those die-hard fans of this couple, who cried their hearts out with the movie, for them both Ryan and Rachel are the epitome of love Gods! Just like in the movie, the way they created a romantic union which touched the raw chords of every heart across the world, so was their relationship  off-screen.

Despite them breaking off nearly seven years ago, somewhere in the heart, their fans still long for them to kiss and make-up! Just one more of that sexy sensuous rain kiss for their fans, just one more! Ahhh..wishes!

That is precisely why this beautiful news of the gorgeous diva, the leading lady of terrific rom-com Hitch, Eva Mendes’ being pregnant with Ryan hasn’t spread happiness around. No doubt Eva has her own share of millions of fans and followers who want to see her become a mom and showcase her motherly side after wooing the world with her terrific sex-appeal. But on social media, there are more brickbats for the couple than bouquets of love! People have been posting hate messages about how they want to see Ryan and Rachel back together instead of seeing Ryan with Eva! So cruel these fans can be sometimes, isn’t it?

For now, both Eva and Ryan have maintained a silence and haven’t issued a public statement. But the fact that Eva is seven months pregnant has fuelled the rumor mill that marriage may also be on the cards and that too real soon! The reason being Eva’s conservative mindset and Ryan’s belief that whenever he becomes a father, he will be a hands-on dad and will be there for his child, in every possible manner! For starters, making their relationship legal by marrying is a good move, what say?

Let us hope that Ryan doesn’t chicken out of this relationship and stays committed to Eva and on her part, she proves to be as good a mom as she has been a professional.

Even if some people aren’t so happy about this new beginning in their life, definitely there will be more who would be sending their good wishes and praying for their happy life!

Awaiting good news from them, eagerly!

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After a year of turmoil on the field, ‘shamed’ cricketer S. Sreesanth returns back on the screen, but perhaps in a new avatar as he hops on to his dancing shoes in the famous dance reality show, ‘Jhalak Dikhhla Jaa’ season 7.

The cricketer will be part of the dance reality show that will take place on Colors TV soon with a host of celebs competing for the top spot. Cricketer Sreesanth is not new to a dance shows as he has learned break dancing and street dancing in his school days and even performed at events. He was also part of the 2008 dance reality show, ‘Ek Khiladi Ek Haseena’ where he partnered TV actress, Surveen Chawla.

As the defamed cricketer gets back onto the screen, we wonder which songs he might select for the dance show. Even though our very ‘Sree’ is busy picking up the song list, we select our top 5 songs for the former Indian pacer that he could dance on during the reality show. Check them out:

Jab Pyaar Kiya Toh Darna (Remix version)
We all know the ‘old version’ of the yesteryear hit song ‘Jab Pyaar Kiya Toh Darna Kya’ from the movie ‘Mughal-e-Azam’ but Sreesanth can add a bit of spice to with a remix version. The cricketer recently got married and this song might just be an ode to her beloved wife. Must be exciting to know what his moves will be to this song.

French Kiss by Sharib-Toshi
Well, one must wonder why this song? If you haven’t heard the song yet, go and have a listen which renders lyrics that are, “Ho naina vich nain mix karde, ho milne ki date fix karde, ho yara tainu bada hi miss karde.” The song’s title might be a bit absurd but if the lyrics are telling us to ‘fix’ something, Sreesanth surely can do that well.

Fix you by Coldplay
Out and out, a must have on his dance playlist. Sreesanth might be defamed on the cricket field for ‘fixing something’ but he has a point to prove that the Kerela-born can ‘fix it’, perfectly, on the dance floor.

Main Aisa He Hoon from Lakshya
This song was pictured on dance ace Hrithik Roshan in the movie ‘Lakshya’ where the former shows off some highly skilled moves. Sree is a master at dancing and definitely we can see some spectacular dance skills from the cricketer himself.

Meri stumping ho gayi re from Stumped
Salman Khan hardly appears on cricket-based films but here did a ‘special appearance’ song for the movie ‘Stumped’. The lyrics are perfectly suited for Sreesanth who has faced the same atrocity during the 2012 IPL scandal, stumped!

So here we go, Sreesanth is going to scorch the dance floor yet again! If the cricketer happens to win the competition, by any chance, detractors and critics, do you still consider him ‘disgraced’?

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