Distances are often the reason that old and close friends do not remain connected to each other. Somewhere the time differences are the reason while few may have their work schedules with new additions of relationships and activities. But it does not mean that they have forgotten their close or best friends. A person with whom spending hours was fun and filled with memories, but due to changes, the distances of place have driven them far away. It has led to the unrealized fact that they have not spoken to each other for years. But the recalls of the older times already prove that it remains as a healthy friendship.

Factors that prove it was a healthy friendship

Even after years when the old memories of a friend bring a smile to the face, it is a sign of a healthy relationship. Friends often during sad hours or hard times remind me of the times that bring some happiness. No longer there are the scopes that allow old friends to forget each other.

Even when not spoken to each other for years there is always a soft corner for them. Believing the fact that sometimes to be together to cherish their old friendships.

No flaws

Good and close friends never find flaws in each other. They may be lazy or witty in any way close friends bonding never ends up finding flaws within them. Even after decades whenever they find time to recall their old times it is the amazing fun times that are on their list.

Despite not being able to call or talk there are no complaints against each other. It is a part of the healthy relationship that ensures even after years people can find their close friends still closer.

Remembers each fact

Even the grey hairs may be having years of experience. But it has always kept the time evergreen with the past times; it can be during the drenches together wandering around. Or, it can be while the mischievous moments at home and during school hours.

Each fact of good and bad times is a mode of positive vibes that remains buried in the mind. They never will like to forget it but rather live with it throughout.

Independence

The reason for the distance in a healthy friendship is due to the intention of providing independence and space to each other. Being aware of the different aspects that may have changed the time and the requirements of opportunities for progress becomes a reason for distances.

Healthy friendship always seeks the betterment of friends, so it is the reason for increased distances.

Never ignores

A close friend can never ignore any situation. They are always close and intend to remain closed. But due to the changing times and situations, there may be fewer interactions. Even after decades if they meet each other then there are never any chances of ignorance.

Healthy relationships do not require much attention, it grows deeper as turn older. It helps to make a person feel compassion as moves on with time.

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Being Kids and teenagers in no time they can make good friends. But as one grows older to an adult finding or making friends becomes difficult. There are many common reasons for which making friends have never been easy for an adult.

Adults are being surrounded by various routines apart from their work and regular activities. Each person has their ways of living it may be related to their personal or social life. Somewhere or other they are connected from one way to others. It does not enable any adult to make new friends easily.

Kids and Teenagers comparatively are faster

When compared to an adult, in terms of making friends when in new places or cities teenagers and kids are faster. They can easily connect as well as expand their social circles in less time. Hardly have they struggled to work and think twice to have a new friend with whom they can spend talking with or without reason.

Why do people need new friends? Does not matter how old a person can be, he or she always needs some new friends. Though they may have many old friends finding new ones gives an excitement to have something that was not earlier present. It can be for yourself to spend time talking with a friend when no one is around. It is when you have some free time but none of your old friends or family does as they may be busy.

Where ever the kids move they tend to find some friends. It is because their minds are less or not at all diverted as compared to adults. Teenagers are energetic, as well as open to expressing themselves to old friends and new ones. They do hardly think to find any reason to talk or spend time, as they do not need a reason to talk to anyone. It can be teenagers and kids meeting at a birthday party or any playing ground. It takes a few minutes to be friends.

Difficult for adults as they need a reason to talk

The worst part of an adult’s mind is that they cannot talk unless they have any reason. Approaching anyone without sharing some interests or reasons does not help them at all. On other hand being connected to others cuts off much of the time of a person to have some time for new ones.

Some feel that they are ignored and thus push one from another. But those who can understand the differences, the busy schedules wrapped within work-life, families, and self space can find new friends.

But comparatively the time is less and it is why adults are trying to join groups and activities when they have friends around. They are present there when you are free and can spend a good time with them. Likeminded is another thing that adults search for; hereby it makes them comfortable to spend some worthy time.

Adults look for something similar topics that they can share and enjoy. Keeping away the miserable thoughts of jealousy, comparison and status is essential. It is not among kids and teenagers, hardly they bring in their friendships.

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Being around with a drunken friend can bring you one of the best experiences of your lifetime.

If you do not drink alcohol, you may (or may not) feel left out. Nevertheless, total entertainment is something you are guaranteed.

Alcohol is (in)famous for bringing out people’s secrets. Under its influence, people tend to give out the most secretive stuff or just ramble quotes that will leave you in splits.

Here are some of the many things a drunken friend would say –

“I can drink one more bottle of…whatever this is”

They can always do an extra shot

By the time they are done, they definitely do not remember the name of the drink.

“Let me pay. I have lots of money”

They will volunteer to pay for the drinks and food

Suddenly they have won the lottery. Well, free dinner and drinks for you, it is.

“Keep an eye on the stage”

They will want to perform live

If the bar has live performance, you will find your drunken buddy on the stage right after they utter this sentence.

“We should host a party Friday night”

They will plan a party where everyone will be invited

And this ‘party’ means something lavish. Booze, drinks and women, that sorts.

“I need to score tonight”

Sex is definitely on their list

For some reason, your friend is all horned up in a drunken state and will want to score with any (and every) woman.

“I’m not drunk. You are”

They are not drunk; you are

When you tell them to keep down the rants and tell them the evident – them being drunk – they accuse you instead.

“You are my best friend”

They express their friendship in the most genuine way

Awwww…that’s cute. Please tell the same when you are not drunk.

“I need to call her”

They will also want to call a girl

Yes. ‘Her’ is either the ex or the potential mate. Be the BEST FRIEND and stop them friend from calling anyone.

“I’m gonna barf”

They will puke

This usually happens when you done with drinking for the day. Unfortunately, it is too late for your friend, who is already too drunk and yes, THEY WILL BARF!! Save your shoes.

These are just few of the many things that drunken people say. Let us know if your friend has said something different than the ones mentioned in the aforementioned list.

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Friendship pairs of the zodiac – Friendship day is waiting round the corner and it’s time to reconcile the bond with your bestie, your partner in crime and your biggest confidante.

You know you are the strongest person in this planet when friendship is your weakest part and you can’t let go of your friends come hell on high water. Friendship is like brewing whiskey, the older the better. Time slips away imperceptibly and friendship helps you two grow and borrow wisdom from each other. A foe will praise you on your presence but chip away at your repute in the back but a friend will question your everything, your morals, your drinking habits, your cursing habits and swear words yet pampering you in the most opportune moments. That is a friend and you have a soulmate in your friend too.

Well, we will here under tell you friendship pairs of the zodiac – who is going to be your suitable BFF as per your zodiac sign:

Friendship pairs of the zodiac –

1 – Aries and Libra:

Aries are the most impatient signs with a fiery temper, on the other hand Librans are very calculative and balance seekers. So, whenever the out-of-the0box thinker Aries goes out of bounds, a Libra BFF brings him to earth.

2 – Taurus and Pisces:

Taurus are goal-oriented and very stubborn. They are often judgmental about people for their single mindedness. Pisceans on the contrary are way to peaceful and believed to be loyal and faithful friends. Only a Piscean BFF can handle an opinionated Taurus .

3 – Gemini and Aquarius:

Gemini people don’t hesitate to react impulsively but generally they are very affectionate people. Aquarians on the other hand are very easy-going people who are best at handling the moody Gemini BFFs

4 – Cancer and Sagittarius:

Cancers are very easily satisfied and they revolve around their family. They are extremely moody who enjoy alone time but when deprived of such, they can be really grumpy. Sagittarians too are like Cancers who are introverted in nature and not to mention the peaceful lot. So, they enjoy each other’s company and make best of friends.

5 – Scorpio and Aquarius:

Scorpions are the most mysterious and complex sings of the zodiac who like to keep their private life private. They are bold, nonetheless in whatever they do. Scorpios gel the best with Aquarius who are down-to-earth but have intense power deep inside.

6 – Scorpio and Pisces:

You can call it the most celebrated friendship pair of the zodiac because Pisceans are usually calm but wisdom borne whose talent can become complacency but Scorpios, although generally withdrawn, will break the bubble of the Pisceans time to time.

There is, however no rulebook for friendship because you don’t choose it, it chooses you. But then, if your friendship complies with the pointers stated above, you too are definitely the keepers.

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The world would be a very dull place without friends especially ones who make us smile through our rough times.

We can be our natural self around our friends and don’t ever have to pretend in front of them, and without saying a single word, they will understand our pain and do everything in their place to keep us smiling and going. Those friends are to be cherished and kept along with us for the rest of our lives. It is so important to have a true friend in life. Without them, it just isn’t the same. Friends are a definite part of our lives.

1 – Travelling with friends can be fun

Travelling is awesome and travelling with friends is even more awesome. The sheer thrill of fun, craziness and adventure makes you want to do it more often. There are a few things to keep in mind though: It is important to understand what everyone wants to do and where to travel, choose a place where all are comfortable in staying, do things separately, but not on an every-day basis, compromising for each other, to be open about what we really want, to respect each other’s spaces, money isn’t everything, to figure out how to split between each other when eating and communicating with each other.

2 – The 3 types of friendships

All friendships are not the same. We always connect to a particular category to a friendship: best friend. It is not possible to identify each friend in this category. One has to pick and choose. There are three types of friendships in this world. They are: friends found in one’s circle or business associates because we find comfort in them, second one are friends who find each other’s company pleasant for one reason or another, probably because they are funny and the last group is friends who are purely based on virtue. This last group is extremely valuable and wishes for the best in the other.

3 – Communicating with your friends

We must take care of using “I” rather than “You” while communicating with a friend, just to avoid being misunderstood. Trying to read the other person’s mind or assuming can lead to many problems. It is always best to talk openly with your friend. It is also extremely important to relay your message clearly rather than holding back. But, before we do that, we need to ensure that we have cooled down prior to raising the issue. Asking your friend for clarification helps to prevent misunderstanding. Letting them know we are uncomfortable really helps! It is essential to keep our voices neutral while speaking instead of speaking aloud. Expressing ourselves truly builds our relationships with our friends, especially if we want to tell them something good about them.

4 – Cherish the friendship

Friendship is as precious as one’s own family. When you find the right friend, it is very important to tend to them, as you would your family. Friends come and go, but the one that stays with you definitely evolves in time. It transforms and inspires. It is real. And it is one of the most beautiful experiences life can ever give you. Sincere friendship takes hard work effort. Real friends make us a better person. So, do not let go of that hand of your friend, whom you have chosen.

Life is definitely a beautiful place with a friend by your side.

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Friendship – Tere Jaisa Yaar Kahan – Remember these lines?

Heard of it somewhere? I know….I know…. The most trending song of today’s era! But wait a second… The song was originally from Yaarana movie which rocked the bollywood for ages. Star casing Amitabh Sir, the original track was in the golden voice of the greatest ever Indian delights Kishor Da!!!

Today when you search for this song, you’ll come across a huge collection of different audios/videos all round the search engine. But today the voice is of Arijit that is winning hearts. Isn’t it a cherry on the cake???? Youth today has a craze for Arijit’s voice and this song just adds some more spice to his existing collections. Yes the voice of Arijit is again replenishing the moments of Yaarana today at every Chai ki tapri se leke CCD ki coffee tak. Truly reconnecting us with our friends much stronger than ever.

Once again we are replenishing our beautiful journey throughout our life with the cute moments we had with our friends right from our childhood to teenage to youth age and bla…bla…bla… This song has now become one of the most frequently downloaded tracks from the search engine.

Browse the song on Youtube and there you go!!! Leading the table are two most viewed short videos made by Rahul Jain. One of them is so mesmerizing that it actually drives us back through our school times. The fun we had, regularities, punches/ comments made on teachers, projects, eating tiffins during on-going lectures, scribbling on walls, school trips, and much more. Speechless!!! Right??

And then the day comes when we bid adieu to our school. The video cherishes all those simple yet natkhat moments of life and reminds us that no other phase of life can be replaced with our childhood memories. No wonder how much we head in our chosen frontiers, we’re always back to kids once we’re amongst our school friends!!!

The very next video is a group of 4 friends bonded eternally so much that they fear even at the site of losing any one of them. True friendship is revealed much more reluctantly when two of them meet with an accident and the rest two accompanied them day & night till they recovered. Finally when the two of them are out of danger, all four fellows cry out with happy faces. Friendship is truly a bond with no limitations.

Both these videos are being applauded all round the globe for the sensitiveness and justice they did to the lyrics. The former video published on 12^th August 2017 with current views shooting up to 18,771,553 while the later published on 27^th Sep, 2017 with the current views shooting up to 10,210,000.

The ultimate aim of the lyricist was to touch every heart listening it out. Hearing this song soothes your mind from all worries and hazzles of life by reconnecting it to your good memories. We all celebrate Friendship’s day every year on the 1^st Sunday of August. But are we really up to our friendship? Are we present both emotionally and physically, the, moment they need us? As we progress in life, our concept regarding friendship changes with our tastes, lifestyles, our chosen frontier, etc.. But does that mean we should replace our old friends with it? The answer to this is a Big NO.

So friends what are you all upto grab a hold of a common day and make yourself available for your Purane YAAR right near your old meet point. Afterall “TEEDHA HAI PAR MERA HAI”.

Biding adieu once again with the lyrics:

Meri Zindagi Sa Utwaari….Mujhko Gale Lagake

Baitha Diya Falak Pe Mujhe Khat Se Uthake…..

Tere Jaisa Yaar Kahan!!!!

 Kahan Aisa Yaarana!!!!

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Hilarious ways to treat friends – We, as teenagers and college-students fodder on pocket money which run dry in a matter of 15 days.

While in the first day of the moth we are king, halfway through the month that royal feeling dwindles. Then we are left with only one option, borrow money from friends and friends who fall in that never-need-to-return-the-money loop, make the dreadful appearance in the first week of month again and the cycle continues. It’s always our temptation that leads us to borrow money and repayment is worse as they come.

Especially during the studenthood when we have limited money to survive on and asking more from parents will only leave them on the boil.

Since we are forever indebted, here are some relatable and hilarious ways to treat friends when we sense they might just ask for the money back:

Hilarious ways to treat friends

1 – Oh I forgot you existed:

Debtors are equally annoying like the insurance agents and when you see them approach, the cold sweat comes. You so wished for them to lose in oblivion but they are here again, to get on your nerves.

2 – You try to blackmail them:

You threaten to spill the beans before his girlfriend about last night where he let out his true Casanova self.

3 – You cook up excuses:

Shucks! My wallet always keeps go missing. I think I need a couple of more days to track it down. *pokerface*

4 – You shower them with compliments:

Before they could open their mouths and ask for the money, you shower them with compliments and cause a heartmelt.

5 – You simply feign ignorance:

You pretend to forget the event of loaning money from them altogether. Worse, you ask them to raise an eye-witness for it!

6 – You just go melodramatic:

Because going melodramatic is all you left with now that all doors are closed.

7 – You ask them to take a chill pill:

And you know your heart is thumping like a railway-engine right inside the body.

8 – You just make faces:

Hunh! Bade aye paise maangne wale.

9 – You divert their attention:

See, Polar Bear!

10 – You oil them:

Because oiling is the holy grain of pleasing someone and earning a riddance from repaying the loan FTW!

These are the Hilarious ways to treat friends – No matter how profound contempt we hold for our debtors, how nightmarish paying off the loan may seem, the day finally comes and we ready up such hilarious defences and find the escape route.

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Friendship Betrayal : Friendship Betrayal is as bad as Breakups.

I mean, it literally suucccckkkks.

I’ve been betrayed not once but twice & honestly, it really feels bad. Just like any other relationship, Friendship is a pure one. Just like we expect our partner to respect us & not cross the limits, we expect the same thing in Friendships. I’m sure, many are NOT lucky enough to be friends with people who will 101% never betray them. Those who have faced “Betrayal In Friendship” I feel extremely bad for you. I know that it hurts even more when you lose a FRIEND who you called “Best-Friend” once. Some of us think giving a chance might change everything but even that doesn’t work, we know that it’s THE END.

I believe, getting over “Friendship Betrayal” is as hard as getting over “Breakups.” Especially if you have a Best-Friend who is always into one upping you, then you should see the Betrayal coming.

Well, here are some things that every person who is betrayed by their best-friend will relate to.

Friendship Betrayal: 

• Moving on from breakup seems less painful to me as compared to moving on from a friend who I shared so many secrets with. I know when a friend betrays we feel a loss that becomes hard to explain. It is a different kind of feeling.
• Even when it’s not our FAULT, we end up blaming & getting angry over small things. When I was betrayed I used to get angry so much. It happens, you know? Deep inside the anger comes because we feel how someone we believed & loved so much can do this to us.
• One betrayal breaks the trust factor. I’m sure many out there who were betrayed by their best friends now don’t trust any people. Friendship betrayal does that to you. I know, it really does.
• Even when we try to forget what happened, nothing really works for days. Our heart is in pieces & the only person who once used to mend it has broken the heart, so it gets even more worse.
• We start blaming ourselves for choosing the wrong person. I did a lot. We keep hurting ourselves by saying things like “It’s my mistake I chose the wrong person” or “It is my mistake. Period.”
• Undoubtedly, when we see other friends hanging out together, chilling & enjoying coffee, we go back to the memories. Hell yeah, we miss them. SOMETIMES.
• You think whether to “UNFOLLOW” them on social media or not. Whether to like their pictures or not. This is the hardest thing.
• We realize that our LiFe is boring. You know, then you go back to the past & you see how happy you were. You end up screaming “Why the Fuck she/he had to do this with me.” *SCREAMING*

Friendship Betrayal indeed hurts. What’s more heartbreaking is, it gets difficult to move on. Some days, you miss your best-friend & on the other, you don’t think about them at all. Sometimes you think of forgiving them. But then, you control because you remember what they did to you.

Friendship Betrayal: All I would say, never betray anyone.

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According to all; commitment is a big thing and surely it is.

But truly; being friends before getting into a relationship is much more important. Don’t you agree?

I’m saying this because I feel many people get attracted towards someone & right when they start talking they bump into getting committed. And the main highlight is “they think it is better to know ‘em after getting committed”.

But, when they face reality all of a sudden the whole world kinda changes around ‘em.

Well; and to avoid that heartache or in frankly way- to avoid wasting that commitment time; it’s better to be Friends before commitment with your so-called lover.

And Friends before commitment is important because:                     

1. Trust & Understanding can be built

It is good to be friends because you can take time to understand the opposite person a lot better & clear. And; thus this sharing & caring process leads to know how well you can trust that person further.

It is quite obvious; it is hard to trust a person you’re dating if you don’t know him/her & that’ll always be a problem to deal.

2. You get to know what Kind of person they are

Spending time as friends helps you study what kind of person they are (Emotional, strong etc).

And knowing this will help you understand whether you can share a relationship with that someone freely.

3. You will know their past & can be honest

Everybody has a past. Agree? It will be good to share about each-others past life & then realize if dating is really going to be worth it. Suppose if quick dating later results into your partner cheating on you then it will be quite hard to deal with the situation.

So it is better to share pasts & be truthfully honest about it as well.

4. You can share a comfort level

Being friends is great because friends always share the comfort level with each other by accepting everything. Well; in a direct relationship the comfort things might act like an issue at first.

5. You become best-friend

Spending time will certainly help you get an idea about- is it just good to be best-friends without getting into a relationship. And it’s quite OK because it is not necessary that the person you spend time with must end up being your lover only.

6. Friendship can last for lifetime & if possible so does the relationship

You can decide later if it’s time to move on or not.  And if you decide to start dating then it will be a lovely thing because “you will not just be a couple but also best-friends”.

What do you have to say about the idea of Friends before commitment?

Let us Know in comment below.

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Love in Bollywood has always been glorified, glamorized and been part of innumerable controversies.

Love marriages, extra-marital affairs and one-night stands have ruled the roost and we, as fans, have lapped up any and every gossip coming out of the world’s largest gossip factory!

Times are changing though!

The new generation of actors and stars are re-defining love and how it needs to be handled. For a change, it is a refreshing sight and reflects the changing ideologies of a nation as well.

After all, reel life is always inspired by real life and vice-versa, isn’t it? However, they have a different definition of love!

Let me be more specific.

Talking about new age actors like Alia Bhatt, Varun Dhawan, Sidhharth Malhotra, Shraddha Kapoor and many more like them, one can notice that no matter how much media tries to link them and spread stories about their romance, when you see them on screen during interviews and film promotions, it gets clear that these guys have strong bonds of friendship rather than love! These guys are on backslapping terms and are fully aware that these linkups are just a part of PR machinery more than anything else.

Taking a step further are the upcoming stars, Athiya Shetty and Sooraj Pancholi! These guys have already declared that they love each other like crazy, but the way you love a friend, a human being, a near and dear one instead of the typical love we see in a couple! That’s how a lot of us are in real life, aren’t we? We all have that one close friend with whom we bond, connect and love to hang around with, without having any romantic or sexual ideas! Just pure soulful love!

This is actually refreshing to see youngsters being open about their love preferences, love lives and knowing how to love one another without being classified as lovers! Such a relationship is most liberating and actually helps one to understand love in a new manner.

It is not that yesteryear stars were not right about their definitions of love, but they belonged to a totally different generation. Someone as young as Shahid Kapoor was also a part of many of those so called love-affairs instead of friendly love this new generation exhibits! A part of the credit goes to the globalization and the exposure we all have got from the western culture where relations are defined in a different manner. It is a culture where it is perfectly acceptable to consider a girl and a guy as friends and nothing more! That’s the real change happening in our society and being reflected in Bollywood stars as well!

Even though I would love to see many of these good looking guys and girls fall in love, if they are friends and want to find love elsewhere, good luck to them!

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There is no life without friends!

But not all your friends can be as close to you as you want them to be and only a select few make it to the top of the friendship list! So how do you go about finding who is your good friend and who is actually your true best friend?

Here are some pointers to help you the difference between good friends and best friends.

1) Good friends are polite with you to the extent of hiding bitter truths from you. However, you can trust your best friends to not only be blunt enough to show you the mirror, but also help you come out of a tricky situation.

2) Ordinarily, friends or good friends tend to ignore your irritating behaviour to remain in your good books, but your best friend will smack your head and ask you to BEHAVE!

3) As per social behaviour, good friends will not try to embarrass you over past incidents or something stupid you did some time back, but best friends are made of something else! They will keep pestering you and keep pulling your legs over every stupid thing you did, ever! That’s where the fun lies though, isn’t it?

4) Your normal good friends will only say good things about your girlfriend/boyfriend or at the most will remain silent if they have a different opinion so as not to hurt you. A best friend on the other hand will make you sit down, and tell you how wrong you are in selecting your lover! In fact, they even might become instrumental in you breaking up with your gf/bf purely for your own benefit as they have nothing personal to gain out of it!

5) You might have to ask or invite your good friends for a party, to hangout, etc., but your best friends are going to be around you unannounced, uninvited and as per their own comfort! Obviously, they understand your comfort as well and ensure that you’re never alone, happy or sad!

6) Your good friends will only see your wild, crazy laughter, but only your best friends will have a way to see your tears too! The best friends also know how to wipe those tears and get a smile back or are crazy enough to cry with you!

7) You might have to ask your good friends for some favours when you need them, but your best friends will know it without you saying and will eagerly bail you out of a situation! It is a different matter that they will kick your ass as well if you try to act over smart!

8) An argument with best friends will end with a meek ‘agree to disagree’ kind of formal moment. But a full-fledged fight with your best friend will resemble World War 3 and once it is done with, you guys will be found sharing food in the same plate!

9) Good friends are only aware of a particular side of your life and personality, but best friends can actually blackmail you in jest about spilling out the most awkward embarrassing secrets of your life! That’s how close they are!

10) Good friends go out of the way to respect you, but with the best friends you learn to understand that even when they insult you, it is a form of respect!

There can be only one or two best friends in life, rest all are either good friends, friends or acquaintances! Keep these best friends close in life and try extra hard never to lose them, come what may!

Enjoy friendship!

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Friends make life easier!

According to a survey, on an average a friendship lasts only seven years, but obviously there are exceptions to the rule and some last an entire lifetime! It takes a lot to build a friendship, but it can be broken in no time if you’re not careful.

If you want to keep your best friend in your life forever, don’t do the following things, ever!

1) Lying

Let’s accept we all lie at some point or the other for whatever reasons despite being taught since childhood to always say the truth. However, if you want to be with your best friend, lying is a big no-no!

2) Gossiping

Don’t ever gossip about your best friend behind his/her back. If you’re not happy about something they do, talk to them, but don’t make fun of them. You don’t want that happening to you, do you?

3) Sharing Secrets

Secrets are to be held on to and not to be shared! If your friend has shared their secret with you, keep it with you or else say buh-bye to your best friend in no time!

4) Receiving, But Not Giving

The world is a two way street! For any relation to work, a balanced give and take is required. If you are using a friend only to receive favours and gifts and what not without giving back in any manner, it is not possible for friendship to survive!

5) Not Happy For Them

You want your friends to be happy for you when you achieve something or when you have happy days. Same goes for your friend too. If you’re not happy for them during their moments of glory, don’t expect them to keep such negative friends around them.

6) Not Around During Hour of Need

You have to be around your friend when he/she needs you the most. In times of need, misery or sadness, we all seek our friends. If you’re only available to party and have fun, then it is not friendship, but a comfortable acquaintanceship!

7) No Sincerity

Friendship thrives on sincerity guys! Everyone wants a sincere, genuine dependable friend and if you’re not showing these traits, anyone will be able to look through you and then nothing can save your friendship.

8) Not Meeting Frequently

Okay, we all are busy in our lives, but then like everything else, friendship also needs time and commitment. If you’re using social media as your best hangout joint instead of meeting your best friends in real life, then you’re doing something absolutely wrong!

9) Too Much of Negativity

If your persona is negative, that is you live in self-pity and are always negative about almost everything happening in and around your life, trust us, no friend is going to stick around you for a long time. Have positive thoughts and spread positivity to attract people and make your friends die to be with you!

10) Conflicts Without Communication

Every relation has its own share of conflicts and disagreements. What matters is how you resolve them. Communication is the best answer. Instead of sulking and staying angry, just talk to your buddy and resolve matters.

Friends are a gift! Care for them and maintain them and they will make your life fulfilling and full of life!

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Friendship is one of the most important relations that exist on earth.

Even the intense blood relation has a tint of friendliness just like a lovely relation of a mother with her child and at the same time with a dad also. So yes friendship surely is a vital relation that you cherish all through your life because these are the people you choose by yourself in this world.

Moving over to the type of friends we have in our life is a vibrant one.

Yes, of course we have that one 3am call friend, then one friend with whom we can discuss the harsh reality of life and so on! So taking this forward we have a vast difference in friendship between two girls and two boys.

And I guess everyone will agree to below facts that how different the bros are compared to the hoes.

The Jealousy Factor

Girls:

Well, this is truly a valid point that when talking about friendship among the girls, as the jealousy factor is way too higher in girls as compared to guys. There are many occasions when you sense jealousy seeping in among girls and a lot becomes history in terms of friendship.

Boys:

While, on the other hand, guys are way too cool about this part and jealousy is not one of their bro codes! And the best part is girls will also agree to it completely.

Gift a gift to me

Girls:

The gifting saga never ends for girls while between boys there is no such code, until and unless it’s the girlfriend’s birthday! Obviously, a guy just cannot afford to miss his lady love’s special day. Well coming back to the point, for a girl gifting a female friend can be some good luxury item.

Boys:

For guys the idea of a present completely goes for a toss and you never know they end up gifting each other a joint! *just saying*

Readily Available

Girls:

Imagine calling a girl at 3 a.m. if you are in a problem! No one will try to do that and yes everyone understands how difficult it is for a girl.

Boys:

On the contrary, it’s a rule for a guy to reach in any way possible if ever he is called at midnight. So, this is true that guys are available easily whenever their friends are need and in this way they earn some brownie points.

Bitchy Bitch bitching

Girls:

Every guy has to accept this part that women will bitch and you cannot avoid it. For the girlfriends, gossip and bitching goes hand in hand and no one will deny it.

Boys:

While on the other hand, guys just cannot stand the bitching part in any way. They are way too practical and straightforward in many cases.

Being judgemental

Girls:

Friendship between girls brings many judgements. Having personal experience, girls cannot get over the amount of judgements they pass.

Boys:

While for the guys, as far as they abide by the bro code, they don’t really give a shit.

Abusing

Girls:

Just imagine if a girl abuses her best friend; that certainly is the end of the friendship!

Boys:

The frankness that the two guys share in their friendships is unbeatable and sets some good example. Abusing is one part in which they will never compromise. So being purposely abusive with the best pal won’t go wrong.

Light Heartedness

Girls:

Girls usually are very sensitive compared to boys and live on their extremes. Whatever they do, they do it whole heartedly.

Boys:

Guys carry a very light hearted approach towards their friends, be it a girl or a boy. That doesn’t mean that friendship is also taken lightly. They are, in a sense, more chilled out about their friendship, focusing more on the bond rather than jealousy.

With these insights, the judgement completely depends on you people of what you think about these different aspects of friendship and do let us know in the comment section.

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