If you are a handsome dude who is hell bent on dating a IIT girl, I would say, think again!

Still, if you are not budging away, OK!

I will help you to make your tough task a little lighter. After all, who wouldn’t want to be with the most coveted female class of the country.

Well, first and foremost you have to understand that getting into IIT is really not an easy feat and if a girl got an admission in the most coveted engineering institute of the country, then she is nothing short of a celebrity. And her attitude would more or less be the same!

Being with one will not only make you famous and talk of your peer clan, it will also make you a sensible man, provided you let her rub you the right way!

Now, here, are 10 things to identify and understand an IIT girl, before you go ahead and propose for dating or a relationship!

1. Appearance – They are mostly in a rugged jeans and worn-out tops! Studying so many hours a day gives them dark circles. Such is life!

2. They are habitual of getting attention, as they are form the background where there are so many boys and very little girls!

3. 9 out of 10 IIT girls are crazy bookworms and are very nerdy! AT least they are perceived like that.

4. An IIT girl is more likely to be seen in a pair of spectacles. If she doesn’t, you are lucky!

5. If you meet one, she might offer to tutor your younger brother or sister or your uncle’s kids for free. They are generous and born to tutor! They have the brains you see!

6. She would meet you and ask you the most intelligent questions you may have no answers to! She would not tell you the answers if you don’t know! She would only walk away giving you a sarcastic look!

7. They believe in self-waxing as there is hardly any time to visit parlors and spas! That is a lot of saved money too!

8. They are usually not bothered about the looks of the guy they wish to date, but they are most definitely concerned about his dimaagi gyaan! If you do not possess that super power, back off already! She might be most comfortable discussing Manchester United and T20 League with ease.

9. They are usually looking to date a guy who is an IIT product himself, simply because their parents wouldn’t approve of anyone else, if the things land at matrimony doors! If nothing else, they would at the least expect you to be in one of the IVY League schools abroad.

10. If you finally get to date them, your next four years will be rotten in frustration, because they will be working their ass off in one of the most prestigious techie companies, and you would be sitting waiting for an ounce of their time!

So here you are! We gave you all the giveaways! If you still are standing on the same grounds, be our guest and find an IIT product for yourself.

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Break-up – Gone are the sweet messages, the inside jokes, the butterflies in the stomach, the waiting, the fighting and fear of losing and patching up eventually.

Now you are ripped off your mental peace and feel like a confused cat who forgot how to cat after staying with hoomans. Every day you wake up thinking it’s a bad dream and things will go back to normal again.

You pray to the lord that he comes back but those prayers fall in deaf ears.

Things will not be the same for a while, in fact pretty difficult at that.

The most important person in your life two years back suddenly turned their back on you. You are more shattered because you know you haven’t only lost your boyfriend but the best friend and reached at your wits’ end. But life goes on and we urge you not to keep a tunnel view. You need to train yourself, condition your mind, that is to say is to deal with the heartbreak. Your heart will heal with time, the heartache will go so will the depression. We are laying down some pointers that will help you to heal after Break-up:

1 – Don’t fight back your tears:

It feels like someone is stabbing you right at the heart over and over again and you can’t defend yourself neither you can turn back time. There is nothing unbearable than the sting of happy memories. You will cry, obviously you will after break-up, feeling paralyzed is normal too. So cry your heart out, surround yourself with people who give you positivity.

2 – Don’t blame yourself:

The only way you can deal with a heartbreak perfectly is to stop blaming yourself for whatever happened because no relationship is perfect and you both had your fair share of mistakes. Don’t wallow in self –pity and don’t pretend that you don’t love him anymore. But since you have no option other than forgetting, let it be.

3 – Feeling angry is okay:

Anger will be taken over by hatred later in some point of time so relax. His deceitful face will no longer bother you someday and you will feel apathy. Feeling nothing for him will be the worst revenge executed.

4 – Be the better version of yourself:

Plotting worst revenge on the person will be solely your waste of time and energy. With time, the answers will unfold as to why did he cheat on you. You will get your answers but not by spewing venom on him but keeping your utmost cool.

5 – Enter the next relationship with an open mind:

So what if your boyfriend has betrayed you, things did not turn out the way you expected but don’t keep comparing every potential partner with your ex. Also, if you talk a lot about your ex to the current partner, you might just scare them off. Stop dwelling on the past and meet new people with open mind.

These are the ways you can deal with your worst break-up and start things afresh. All the best!

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Hilarious blind dates – There were earth shattering experiences we all have come across in our blind dates.

We met different kinds of people, there were people one brick less of a full load, some made us roll up our eyes in awe, some rather evoked our disdain with their gooey niceties, some seemed to  leap at the first opportunity to sleep with us and we are still on an disseminating pursuit to score with at least one guy for the love of God!

Ah, cut the crap, what will be will be, but here are some tear-inducingly Hilarious blind dates we have bumped into so far:

Hilarious blind dates –

1. The muscle-flexer:

Go by the literal meaning, the muscle-flexing blind date will brag about how they wake up in the wee hours of the morning leaving the blanket’s comfort, how they turn the beast mode on in the gym and how they survive on protein shake and bananas. Dude! Did it take all these efforts to look like this meat-shop?

2. The walking-talking Britannica:

He is a general knowledge ninja. He will give you insights into why Nicholas Cage bought a pet Octopus (apparently because he thought it would help him act better) and why a female ferret will die if she does not have sex for a year. Put that fake smile on, ladies!

3. The Don Quixote:

For your knowledge, Don Quixote is a character from the Spanish novel by Miguel De Cerventes whose hopeless romanticism costed him his sanity. This guy hence will be a knight in disguise, dreamy eyed with a signature beard telling you superficial things while you stare out of the window yawning.

4. The Shayar:

He is the kind that takes Ghalib and Rumi for breakfast with some Gulzar sprinkled in. His template pick-up line is- “ Yeh ishq nahi assan itna samajh lijiye, ek aag ka dariya hai aur doob ke jaana hai”.

5. The mommy’s boy:

Girls, even if you discard him later, make sure you ask about the classy saree boutiques he accompanies his mommy to. Ting!

6. The foodie:

You will like this kind, actually. What’s in a relationship if you can’t enjoy your food together?

7. The Fake Contact Lens Wearer:

He will pretend to have descended down an India-bound private jet from Musha Kay, Bahamas, and everything about him will be too pretentious for your bearance, ranging from his accent to his eye-colour, which obviously comes from fake contact lenses worn. Eeks!

8. The Poet:

He would have internalized T.S Eliot and Lord Byron and half of his words will go tangent from your head so you will focus on his food instead.

9. The poop-talker:

He will be spitting image of Amitabh Bachhan in Piku. Shit is his bae and poop-talk his reason for existence. Keep the vomit-bag handy, girls!

10. The horny dude:

He will say ‘My hand is tired’ which is a horny man lingo hinting at he wants to get into your pants. That sickening honesty will pique you in the crazy lengths!

11. The bi-sexual:

Swap left already!

12. The celebrity doppelganger:

There are many Salman Khans and Shah Rukh Khans fancy-freeing around so why won’t  you want to settle for Tom Cruise? I mean it’s legit. *wink*

13. The Rowdy Rathode:

Dare any guy passes lewd comments on you, he will roll up his sleeved and jump to your rescue, but did you ask for the rescue operation in the first place? Argh!

14 – The one with American dreams:

He carries his passport, may be wears it as a pendant. You never know when chance arrives, one must seize it no matter what!

These are the Hilarious blind dates – Stomach’s aching? We knew it! Glee.

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A person who is newly fallen in love, sees the world through rose-tinted glasses, it is exhilarating and ecstatic to pass through the primordial stage of love. We all have, in some point in our lives, vied for someone’s attention, looked forwards to talk to them and worshipped them for sweeping us off our feet. It is an involuntary reflex and we fall in love without even knowing it. The new love life consumes a huge part of your energy, occupies your mind as you try to chalk out new ways to impress the significant someone. You can’t stop thinking over them, gushing over them to your BFF, your heart skips a beat when their pictures pop-up in your newsfeed and you are all dreamy-eyed trying to picture your future with them.

Here are some quotes that all the new lovers can relate to:

Because heart is a small entity:

When we fall in love, we want to make the world know about how we feel for each other, love drives us that much crazy only.

We can’t stay without each other:

We constantly check our phones for their messages; do our best to impress them and the thought of losing them in the labyrinth of time sends the chill down the spine.

They settle and unsettle us:

Their sight calms the thumping heart. There is a sweet pain in waiting for them.

Then there are challenges:

Love brings along a lot of challenges but one has to believe in the bond to make it prosper and to set example.

They rule our dreams:

They leave their footprints in our dreams too. The first thing we think about when waking up is them!

Power of love:
There is no greater power than love. When you are loved, you are able to conquer the world because deep down you know you have found your comfort zone in her however cruel the outer world is.

Cause’ we are diamonds in the sky:

When two stars collide, only two of them feel the warmth it generates. When two lovers meet, things between them heat up in the same manner.

Because he is the ONE:

His love is as soothing as running barefoot in the grass, he appreciates your madness and leaves you wild.

Because there is more to US than what meets the eye:

We become each other’s strength by sharing our weaknesses with each other. It’s like Moon soothing the Sun for few minutes after its daily toil, we soothe each other.

You will completely relate to these lines if you feel he is the answer to all your prayers and you see a future with him.

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If you are in constant need of attention that means you have no life-goals and just want someone else to take lead of your life. Respect is something a woman has to earn and vying for attention all the time makes you appear shallow. Your desperation is suffocating for the boyfriend which equally hinders you from blossoming into the woman you are meant to be deep down. A relationship has to be fulfilling, enriching, securing and everything positive. If you feel insecure, lost or scarcity of attention that you have to fight for, there is something wrong with it.

So, here’s how you can stop being clingy and let silence do the emotional healing.

Ask yourself:

Sit in solitude and ask yourself why are you becoming gooey? What is it that bothers you or makes you insecure? Do you fear losing him? Do you fear you can’t get over the memories once he is gone? Do you think there is no other one like him in the whole wide world? Figure out why your precious life seems meaningless without your boyfriend first.

Give him a breather:

He may be in fear to be your only source of life. He has his vulnerabilities too. Why will he be the only one to fill your emotional needs? After all, you have your own life apart from him, your girl squad, your job, shopping etc that can make you feel alive.

Don’t disturb when he is working:

One needs to concentrate while working. Just place yourself in his shoes, would not it be annoying if he pestered you for attention while you are trying to concentrate in an important elsewhere? After all, encouraging each other to achieve better careers has to be the goal of your relationship.

Nurture your hobbies, passion and interests:

If like gardening and have been meaning to grow some seasonal plants in the backyard, go for it. Similarly, if you always wanted to start your fashion blog, just dig it. Remember, he may be lost in the labyrinth of time but your success will stay with you. It may sound mean, but it’s the way of life.

 Find security in yourself:

Because an independent person doesn’t live on the approval of others and a lioness doesn’t concern herself about what sheep think. Go for a makeover, pamper yourself, and remind yourself that you came in the world for a reason. One rule you must follow in life, that is take control of your life and lift others up, this is how people will come to you for emotional support and you will feel secure in yourself helping them out. Be the wise owl!

Don’t be available all the time:

Secure this wisdom with your life. People who you give importance to will never understand you are not FREE, you make yourself AVAILABLE just to see them smile and eventually they take you for granted. Make them miss you to know your true worth.

Don’t get physically intimate all the time:

I know you desperately want to, but getting physically intimate all the time takes away the passion. You don’t have to touch someone to make them love you, it’s not the kiss, it’s about the times you don’t kiss.

Give them their own sweet time:

When your boyfriend is in a bad mood, give their own time to become normal again. Your counsel may not be something that he wanted right then so wait patiently until he comes back to talking term.

Don’t always die for their opinion:

Of course asking opinion from someone makes them feel important and loved but making your life revolve around their opinion is not the way to perpetuate a relationship for long.

Stop trying to control him:

This one applies to your life also. Don’t let him control your life. Even if you are in a relationship, try to envision your life without any boyfriend, understand the self-worth, build yourself, stay glamorous!

These are the ways you can right away stop being clingy and demanding.

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Draking – When I first heard this new term called “Draking”, I thought it’s a term invented by DRAKE. Later I came to realize, that even though it’s not coined by him, it is related to him in many, many ways.

Firstly, let me tell you, that it’s an old dating term but people are catching its fever once again. So what exactly is Draking? Is drake involved? Let’s find out – Draking actually means, “things a person experience when he/she breaks up.” You know, it’s like, crying & drowning in our own tears because the opposite person decided to leave you alone in relationship. In simple words, Draking popularly means wallowing in sadness caused by romantic failures.

Many after their relationships break, put statuses like “I want your hot love & emotion endlessly” or “It’s hard to do these things alone” etc, this proves that they’re in the “Draking” situation. In short, Draking is when a heartbroken person after breakup starts updating their social media by posting “sad quotes, sad songs lyrics or sad poetry verse or anything sad that proves they’re currently in the heartbroken zone.”

Draking doesn’t stop there, as there are many things a person do to express their sadness. It includes, having a conversation with people and indirectly saying something “sad” so that they ask you to explain things & then you tell them about your heartbreaking situation.” OR simply sending your friends sad quotes & telling them how you think your LIFE is pointless at this moment & stuff.

It’s like, these people celebrate sadness in a sad way.

“Drakers” want others to calm them down but even though people come with wise words, Drakers go back home & drown in their sadness all over again.

So now whatever you feel post break up, there’s a name for it. All the DRAKERS out there, even drake is aware of this term & when asked about what he thinks, he said “it’s great.”

Draking : Well, have you ever experienced Draking?

(Source: MensXP)

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According to a research, seven out of ten employees believe that dating a co-worker is bad career move as it can hurt job security or promotion and can cause conflicts and distraction.

Many feel it’s a danger zone as it becomes very difficult to balance work and personal life.

Below are some reasons why should not date your colleague

1. It may be good for personal life but bad for your professional life

Of course your personal and professional lines are blurred and this can create problems between couples. And sometimes professional life goes for a toss altogether as many times couple take everything on a personal note.

2. Love life will soon become boring

There will hardly be any space between you two. Plus your personal life will be endangered as your partner will be with you most of the time and this feel make you feel suffocated. Everything will be routine as there will hardly any new thing and chances.

3. You Can LOSE Job

Many companies have policies that prohibit dating. So if you do not adhere to the rules then your boss might show you the door. So think twice before you say yes to your colleague.

4. One has to bear the brunt of negative treatment from other co-workers

Your changed behaviour would not be accepted by some other co-workers. People may consider this step of yours in other ways. Rumours and office grapevine related your relationship will fly everywhere. Due to this your image also gets damaged and again this can jeopardise your career.

5. No focus work

Agree or not if you are dating your colleague then it’s quite likely that it will influence your work place performance. The constant pressure to keep relationship under wraps, fight with your partner and tension over incessant negative behaviour by co-workers will of course reflects in work. People tend to spend most of the time with partner then again this will reduce productivity.

6. Worst Thing- Break Up

Break ups are worst and break up with colleague bring set of challenges. After the bitter end of relationship it will be very tough for anybody to face each other in office. Also other problem of image, work concentration and ambitions goes for a toss.

If you think your love is important and you must take it ahead, there’s no problem but one should also be aware that there are endless problems attached to it as mentioned above.

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It started off with casual dating.

You felt that you had finally found your dream man.

But then suddenly, you realise that his sole intention is to get you into bed.

Did it happen earlier than predicted? Is it coz he is the ultimate Adonis on the college campus?

You almost want to succumb to his subtle hints of ‘how much I love you babes’. But then you fathom all the tricks he’s playing to con you into giving in…and landing on his bed.

Here’s the list of tricks guys resort to get their girl to have sex with them.

SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS A MUST

My earlier non-committal boyfriends tried the same stunt. The last one made it very clear after two casual dates that he sought sexual compatibility to get to know me better. When I quizzed if all the girls he had earlier dated had slept with him, he replied in the affirmative. Probing deeper, I asked him. ‘What went wrong?’

All I got was a condescending reply, “She wasn’t good in bed”. Wow, so do you think it is worth being the next item number to impress this guy with your sexual prowess. No ways. Walking out of the relationship was a major kick to my second boyfriend’s inflated ego.

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We all have has those days where we sat at a corner and stared endlessly at the guy we crush on!

His smile, his swag, his style – they have made you fall on your face.

You have wished deep inside that you were dating him, but never had the guts to go up and ask him out!

Well, let’s discuss some simple ways how to date your crush even without asking!

Let your style do the talking:

Why do you need to dress down and make yourself look nervous? Get some fashion magazines, find out the latest trends and try on new styles that suit you and makes you comfortable! Let your clothes do the talking! Dress to impress. The guy is bound to notice you for sure!

Let your friends do the talking:

Who said only men have wingman? Even women are allowed the same! But make sure you pick the right friend who wouldn’t end up dating him (haha) or one that would go to any extent to spill out the best about you to him! Best is to use a friend of the opposite sex- that way you’re safe in all manner!

Get his number:

No, don’t get it slyly and text him – it will creep him out! Make sure he has noticed you or find some reason to text him – a reason that could help you to be in conversation with him properly and then develop it from there. Do not show off during your texts and neither should you act like a shy cat. Be yourself and continue your conversation with him!

Let him like you for who you are!

It is super hard to ask out someone when you know you are the shy type! But it is even worse, when you don’t ask them out and they end up with someone else – your love story reaches a sad ending.

Why let such an instance happen in your life?

Go ahead and create your own easy way to ask out your crush!

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You love him but aren’t sure if he is the one for you.

You are doubtful if he is really the right guy for you or if you’re you dating the wrong guy? Sometimes if you think something is not right, you must follow your instincts. It is not very tough to decide if you are dating the wrong guy or not.

Let’s take a look at some of the warning signs you are dating the wrong guy.

He doesn’t let you express

When you are sad or feeling lonely, you need someone to share your emotions but if your partner is never bothered about your feeling or emotions, it simply mean he doesn’t care. He is never there to listen to you or if you are sharing something, he would just be bothered about other things than your mood. You need to make a choice. If you can’t even share your sadness or thoughts with your partner, how will you share your life? Give it a thought!

He makes you feel unworthy

If a guy truly loves you, he will never disrespect you or your abilities. Respect and trust is very much important in a relationship and if any one of these isn’t there, it’s not worth it. If your partner doesn’t know your worth, be wise to know your worth and move out of that relation. I know it’s never easy to move on but remember if he doesn’t respect your existence in his life, you’re just wasting your time and energy being with him.

He makes you feel suffocated

Do you feel emotionally or mentally drained when you’re with him? Or do you feel suffocated since the time you guys are dating? Girl if he makes you feel suffocated, trust me he doesn’t deserve you in his life. If being in a relationship makes you feel like you’re trapped or in a cage, then there is something going totally wrong in your relationship. This is one of the most horrible feeling. True love will never make you feel that way so you need to find someone who lets you speak or lets you do things you want and respect your choices rather than forcing his choices on you.

He gets extremely angry during tough conversations

Everything is not rosy when you’re in love. There’s bound to be arguments and fights but not to a point that you don’t even feel like discussing things with your partner. There are always some issues that needs to be addressed in a relationship if you see your future with your partner, but if difficult conversation leaves him angry every time, then again there’s a problem. There has to be some understanding that make it easy for you to talk about anything and everything in your relationship but if it’s vice versa, you are with a wrong guy.

He doesn’t fit in your future plans

You gotta admit it honestly to yourself, if you can’t even imagine him in your future, then there’s no way he is the one for you. You love him but you find it difficult that you can stay with him forever. You don’t have to compromise with your life and end up being with someone who isn’t good for you. So if he isn’t a part of your future plan, just drop him.

If you smile less and cry more being with him, then you’re definitely dating a wrong guy.

You enter into a relationship to share your happiness, sadness, and to feel loved and to love but if you feel lonely even when you’re in a relationship, then there is no point being in a meaningless relationship.

Love yourself enough to move out of a relationship if you don’t feel loved or respected.

Breaking relationship is tough but there are some decisions that has to be taken for your sanity and for your own betterment.

Be wise to choose who deserves to be in your life and who don’t.

So how many of these signs you see in your partner?

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Are you vying the attention of the woman who is out of league?

Or want to go on a date with a beautiful woman who already has a bunch of guy friends?

Then do not worry or feel low about it, just simply follow these steps and get to know How To Make Any Woman Obsess Over You!

1. Be a ladies’ man- Understand Girls

The very first thing is one has to deeply understand girls. Best idea is to be friendly, share your ideas, goals, and build up that trust factor as well. Be polite, chivalrous, Be protective of her when you’re around, take care of her needs and this will make her believe that you are the right one for her.

2. Be Your Self- Be Confident- Be Bold

Do not fake out at all, being true is the key. Also showcase your ballsy side and she would love it incredibly. Show off how you are bold enough for exciting and adventurous things.  Do some exciting things along with her, go for on adventurous trips like hiking or trekking, exploring the unexplored. This will impress her how you are confident in all zones.

3. Give her your time and attention:

Long chat and calls are actually loved by girls so try to catch up with each other often. But also too much of attention too can get a girl bored of you really soon. This will make her know how she is always in your thoughts and that’s an important way to become irresistible to women.

4. Show off your skills

Let her know what you like, what are you good at it. Make her know how amazing you are at that thing and make her woo by showing your skills. If you can play some cool instrument or sing or have any some talent which you can showcase then this could be a biggest turn for girls.

5.      Learn the art of flirt and Master it

Start flirting in a naughty and friendly way.  Soon both of you would be flirting with each other (if you ask and flirt in the right way.)

6.     Make Her Laugh- Showoff your sense of humor.

If you have ability to make her laugh then you can easily attract women.  This also helps guys to connect with his lady love emotionally and intellectually.

7.     Ask her out: Go for a Date!

Don’t feel hesitant to ask her out. Go on date, make her feel comfortable, treat her like your girlfriend is the idea here.

Put these full proof golden rules in action and  win her!

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Dating is fun or is it a nightmare?

Well, for most of the people, first date is worse than a nightmare with butterflies in the stomach, excitement shooting through the roof and the urge to impress the opposite sex skyrocketing! Yes, we all think that may be this date will turn out to be the first in a series of many more and eventually might turn into something called love! It is like the entire life depends on this first date and the fear of failure might affect the courage quotient for any such future endeavours.

We bring to you the worst 12 First Date Fears you encounter during your first date and ways to handle them to make your date super successful!

1) What to wear?

Yes, this is not only the concern of girls, but also of the guys! Obviously your dressing sense is going to make a mighty impression on your date, but getting overly anxious or finicky will not help. Simple solution: wear what you’re comfortable in and it will show in your body language. It will definitely make a good first impression!

2) How to greet?

There is always this awkwardness about how to greet. A good hug or just shake hands or may be just a nod of head with the guy pulling out the chair for the lady to sit? Well, don’t fret about it so much. Don’t prepare, go with the flow and meet as casually as possible. Your date is a human being, not someone from an outer planet, so relax!

3) What to talk?

This question perplexes most of us as we don’t know our date that well and feel awkward to initiate a conversation. Best thing is to start discussing common things like weather and casual stuff about work and traffic etc. slowly you’ll find your groove and based on the answers, you can gauge what your date wants to talk about!

4) Nothing in common!

What if there is nothing in common? Yes, in that case you can’t be staring at the walls and getting embarrassed! In such a scenario, just probe and let the other person talk. And then talk about yourself in a way that is not boastful or arrogant, but just to make the other person comfortable. Mind you, your date will be as nervous as you are!

5) Choice of food

This is again a big dilemma. You ask your date to order as per his/her choice and then repent the food they order. It could be spicy or bland and may be not of your liking! Well, don’t be so formal; ask for another dish without embarrassing them that their choice was wrong. Just say that you know another dish that the said restaurant is good at and you want your date to taste it too!

6) Table Manners

Yeah, not all of us are well trained as far as table manners are concerned. That shouldn’t be the stumbling block though! Make sure you eat like a civilized human being without creating a mess, unlike you eat at home with legs on the table and using your fingers! Rest should be alright!

7) Where to focus!

Yes, for some people food is such a priority that they forget the world around them while eating. If you’re one of those, practice to balance your focus on your date and food simultaneously. It might be so easy, but with time you’ll master the art! You don’t want to be found in a situation where you’re only focusing on food or only on your date making them embarrassed!

8) Bill Payment

With women being equal partners, it does become tricky when you see your date ordering and your thoughts are on how much money you have in your wallet! Well, best thing is to be open and ask to dutch! This way, even if date is a failure, you can maintain dignity.

9) Crazy ideas

Your date may have crazy ideas of adventure like bungee jumping or paragliding which scare the crap out of you. Worry not; just say that you’re ready for different things, but only one step at a time. See, you’re not saying a no, but not even a yes!

10) Meeting your ex!

This could be straight from a Bollywood movie, but you never know. May be circumstances are so unfavourable for your new love-life to being that you bump into your ex! Here, simple thing is to meet them cordially and don’t get excited or nervous or angry about the situation. Show maturity that you have moved past your ex and are ready for a new beginning!

11) Goodbye time

This is weird situation. Movies show us that the date ends with a kiss, in some extreme situations you might also get space to make out. Reality is entirely different! Just go with your gut feeling, after analyzing how your entire evening went and do the best! You won’t regret it!

12) Bad hugs

Yeah this is another fear we all have! Trying to hug or kiss and end up hugging sideways as if we met long distance acquaintance in a public place! Again, just go by what your heart says and follow the leads by your date’s body language! You’ll be fine!

Drive away your fears and enjoy your date! First dates are important yet they bring with memories to cherish for a long time. Don’t let fears overpower you!

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For a woman, it is of utmost importance to know, if she is giving her heart to the right person or not.

Whether the man she is getting into a relationship with, is a good man or not.

Dating and relationships are very sensitive subjects and if not dealt at the right time, with the right perspective, can bring a lot of destruction to our lives.

I think a big part of the problem is that many people aren’t even quite sure what a healthy relationship looks like these days or how a “good man” (or woman) should act towards their partner.

To help understand, we have put together this list of how a good man should act while in a relationship.

1. A Good Man Will Never Shy Away From Expressing His Love

Having an unhealthy and loveless relationship is becoming the norm of the day. Women are often found complaining that the man in their lives does not make them feel loved and wanted. If you are with a good man, no matter how old or new your relationship is, he will never let go of a moment to tell you how much he loves you and will appreciate your presence in his life.

2. A Good Man Will Always Make You Feel Like A Beautiful Treasure

If he is floored by your charming appearance and beautiful persona, a good man will not be hesitant to tell this to you. He will make you feel beautiful through his words and gestures. He would remind you of the days you wore a particular colour and looked stunning, he would surprise you with your favourite flowers. He would appreciate your beauty in many ways he finds, even when you are in your sweatpants.

3. A Good Man Will Make You Feel Safe

I have always said that I believe one of the best compliments a woman can give her partner is telling him that she feels safe around him and with him. It’s not about a woman being a weaker sex and a man being stronger, it’s all about the security of one’s presence that matters. Regardless of how attracted she is to you or how funny she thinks you are or how much money you have, if a woman cannot sleep in peace by your side at night, none of it matters.

4. A Good Man Will Have A Supporting Attitude In Your Endeavours

You want to have an ice-cream parlour, or you want to start a marketing business, or you want to go back to your education to pursue your masters degree! Be it anything that brings you satisfaction and a smile, a good man will always be supportive of your actions just because they bring you happiness. He will never discourage you or make you feel as though you can’t do what you set out to do. He will be beside you every step of the way, cheering on your victories and comforting you during your defeats.

5. A Good Man Will Be An Inspirational Energy For You

It takes a lot to inspire someone. Partners in relationships are the closest to each other and they can inspire each other in various ways. It sure takes a lot of effort to inspire. But a good man will do that subtly through the way he lives his own life, his actions, and sometimes his conversations with you. A good man’s drive and ambition will rub off on you as he pursues his own passions.

6. A Good Man Will Put Efforts To Retain Your Trust

A good man will want you to be comfortable and confident in your relationship. The very ground of comfort is being able to trust someone, and he will definitely realize that. Without trust, there is no foundation for love or respect. He will put deliberate efforts to keep your trust intact. He will understand that trust is not just handed over to someone, it has to be earned, and then it has to be kept.

7. A Good Man Will Do Small Things To Enliven The Days

It’s your friend’s birthday and you don’t have time to buy flowers, and he goes out to do that for you? Did you mention an art exhibit coming to town and he made plans to take you to see it? Regardless of how small certain things seem, he will understand they are really the big things that matter most, and will do them without making any fuss about them.

8. A Good Man Knows The Lines In And Out of Relationship

It is natural to have disagreements and even arguments in a relationship, but there is no reason to make things personal, become insulting and never, ever to become abusive. A good man will give priority to a woman’s respect and will never put it at stake.

9. A Good Man Will Always Be Working On Self To Improve

Whether it be learning new things, developing a new skill set, reading a new book or watching a documentary, a good man who prides himself on continuous self improvement will always be intellectually challenging you and keeping your attention. He will be doing these things for himself, but the added benefit will be the positive impact it has on your relationship. You will be exploring new horizons of relationship with him.

10. A Good Man Will Focus On Actions, Rather Than Words

Having the right man in your life will make you understand that people who make empty promises do not deserve your respect. People who keep their word, deserve your respect, and he will be one of them. He will know how deserving you are of each promise he made to you and will try to fulfil them, for a happy relationship.

11. A Good Man Will Be An Open Book To You

It can be difficult for some people to express their emotions, fears and even innermost desires, but having the right person in our lives often helps to open those doors. A good man, while understanding of course that some things are to be kept private, will not hide things from you or bottle up his feelings, knowing that doing so will cause tensions and frustration and will harm the relationship. He will open up and share himself with you.

12. A Good Man Will Keep The Honesty And Integrity On

When building a foundation for a happy, healthy relationship, a good man will always keep an honest foot forward. He will know that lies and deceits will kill the love and the bond that you share. Integrity strengthens love and security in a relationship.

13. A Good Man Will Create A Comfort Zone For You To Be Honest With Him

Comfort in a relationship (the good kind, not the kind that makes you stop trying) comes from the ability to be open and honest with your partner, and the ability to do this comes from knowing that you will never be judged. A good man will encourage you to open up and share your feelings with him. There should never be any fear of him flying off the handle or overreacting if you share something with him. This means being able to be the most genuine, uncensored version of yourself around him. And he would love and respect that.

14. A Good Man Will Never Be In Charge of You

Perhaps the most important point of all. Whether it be mentally, emotionally or physically, a good man will never even think about being in charge or superior of you. He will not let you feel that you are his property and you have to abide by what he says. He will let you have your freedom, within the respectable boundaries of a loving relationship and will nurture your personality.

15. A Good Man Finds Verbal, Mental And Physical Abuse As Utter Sins

Abusing, hitting, and subjecting the woman to mental torture are the signs of a weak person. A good man will never take resort in them. In case of disagreements or extreme fights, he would choose to call it quits peacefully, rather than making it a filthy affair.

Any man can be by your side on the sunny days. The real test of character is whether or not he will hold the umbrella over you during the stormy days.

Remember, if the person you are with puts in the effort to be this person for you, please let him know how much you appreciate him and love him. It is for you to make him feel special too.

There is no emptier feeling than being with a wrong person in a relationship. Identify it, and cure it at the earliest.

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Our lives will be incomplete without all those amazing apps we keep downloading on our smart phones these days- music apps, dating apps, shopping apps, movie apps, TV apps and whatnot!

But, these apps are not deciding the flow of our lives. They undeniably add colour, zing, excitement in our lives, and that’s about it.

What rules everything in our lives is: The Politics!

It is politics and politicians who make the rules and regulations. How we live, what we eat, see, talk, drink; practically anything and everything that we do with our lives, is controlled by our politicians, directly or indirectly!

Then why don’t we have an app to control this dominating species, which most of the times MISRULE?

The servants-turned-rulers must be shown their place the moment they do a ghotala! How nice and easy it would be to have an app which can help us decide which politician to vote for and which one to avoid. Or better still, once they are in power, how to keep a check on them!

Why not have a POLITICS APP!

For example, a minister watching porn in Parliament is highlighted on the app across the nation, the app users pick and vote, and immediately he gets suspended from power and debarred from politics for next 50 years!

Sounds too cool!!

Or better still, when a minister is trying to explain how having more children is good in an over-populated country, his credentials and whereabouts are immediately flashed on the Politics App, and we can choose a punishment for that politician through the app only! He can be made to stand on his chair in the Parliament holding his ears and told to learn the basic lessons of economics which he flunked!

*I am in love with this app already*

Or an illiterate goon politician trying to draft education policy for the country can be spanked through the app, at free will till he becomes a better person.

Can you imagine the possibilities? This public humiliation of actual politicians in a mobile app will be real fun and may be, just may be, an indication for the erring ones to mend their ways and come on the right track!

Through the app, we can ensure only the best candidates get to serve us. We can mark the ones in politics who are on the seats just because their father, grandfather and his grandfather was in politics, and can be just kicked out, unless he/she really deserves to be a part of the system. The app must have a button which connects all and takes consensus on such issues. And APPS VERDICT MUST BE COMPLIED TO!

Also, there can be an age limit for those trying to govern. Technically sound app should calculate the age of al the ruling ministers. After all, how can you expect a person to have a vision when he himself can’t see properly or hear properly or even breathe properly! We are a young nation and need the power of youth to bring change with expert guidance from the experienced souls. No point in handing out power to those living past their expiry date!

BRING THE APP THAT TELLS THE CORRECT AGE OF ALL THOSE POLITICIANS!

So who is going to work on such Politics Apps?

Surely, they will be massive hits in the market.

Just waiting eagerly for this innovation, aren’t you too?

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To most people, life is empty without romance and I am not even talking about the hopelessly romantic population.

Factually, every person on earth finds romance (except for the ones, who have sworn celibacy) at some point in life; where some individuals find it before marriage, others find after.

Now the way couples in both scenarios behave is quite different from one another. The lovey-dovey personality exists, but the circumstance is varied.

Here’s how dating romance is quite different from honeymoon romance –

Keeping the Affair Discreet

dating couples prefer keeping their relationship discreet

A dating couple, usually, is not exclusive forcing them to be discreet. A honeymooning couple is married and they can do whatever the hell they want. So, marriage is not that bad after all.

Location

Locations for honeymooning couples is classy

Where honeymooning couples visit fancy destinations, dating couples usually have to settle for the local attractions.

Expenditure

Dating couples need to be wary of their expenditure

Dating couples, more often than not, do not have a stable job, for their romance usually begins in college. This forces them to not spend lavishly expect on special occasions such as Valentine,s Day or their beau’s birthday. Honeymooning couples are already in a fancy location and religiously spend money to not miss the local attractions and buy items they would otherwise not find in their hometown.

Sex

Sex is a part of honeymoon and comes easy to couples

On the downside for dating couples, sex becomes an issue. The fear of that person being the ideal one keeps them gripped. Romancing couples, however, are not sceptical, as they know that their partner is ‘the one’.

Photographs/Selfies

Singles usually post pictures that are not worth checking out

The photographs that dating couples click mostly involves a large group (who they do not want in the picture). Besides that, most photos they click are taken around college campus. For honeymooning couples, it is usually the other way around, as their photo locations are scenic locations with a lot of colours and attractions that are worth commending (and commenting when posted on social media).

Language

Dating couples call one another by cute names

Dating couples prefer calling one another by adorable names like honey, sweetheart and whatnot. Honeymooning couples think of that phase as a saturated one and prefer referring to one another by their first names. (No, they are still in love).

Bed & Breakfast

Bed & breakfast is an advantage for honeymooning couples

Where dating couples eat breakfast at their reapevtive houses, under the surveillance of their parents, couples in their honeymoon usually get breakfast in bed, provided their hotel offers that service.

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