Valentine’s day is just round the corner and lovers are gearing up to paint the town red. While brainstorming about thought gifts that will buck up their loved ones, the one side lovers too are rolling up the sleeve to finally bare their hearts out. Love is in the air and we are feeling butterflies in the stomach already!

Well, if you are running out of ideas as to how to propose your lover this Valentine’s day, here are some suggestions that might make you go ‘A-ha’!!

Gift her a pet:

Not any girl can resist having a pet as a gift. The furry buddies look exceptionally cute and it will melt her heart in no time!  Tie a romantic message under the little bundle of joy’s collar and wait for the magic to happen!

How about a treasure hunt?

If she is game for adventures, then hide cute messages around the house and ask her to find out! The prize? well, love of course.

Make THE moment immortal:

It will be really special if you capture the moment when you propose. May be take her to a photobooth or hire a photographer. You will treasure the memories for the rest of your life!

Invite her family for a dinner:

What’s more heart-charming than a family dinner. To show your unending love for her, invite her family and friends to a dinner and win their heart.

Take a walk down the memory lane:

Take her to a casual evening walk in a romantic place and propose suddenly. Well, she will already get the hint as you ask her out for a walk in the special day. You can then effortlessly charm her heart!

Pen down a poem for her:

Ever fancied yourself as a poet or an artist? then why not pen down something really romantic for her or may be attempt to sketch her portrait? Translate your proposal into a piece of art and they can’t resist it!

Sing a song from the heart:

There is nothing that music can’t do! if you are not the creative sort, then you can definitely learn her favourite song and sing it to her to leave her surprised. Don’t only focus on leaving the perfect impression. Instead, make sure that your feelings are well conveyed!

Take her on a surprise vacay!

Give the spring on your feet a chance and it will never disappoint you. Plan a romantic trip together and it will work wonders.

One for the books:

If she is a book-worm, your work is half-done! You can probably buy one masterpiece from her favourite author and hide the engagement ring therein. Oh, also don’t forget to click her picture when she beams with joy on finding the ring!

Puzzle it up:

If she loves to solve puzzles then may be customise a puzzle that hides your special message. Ask her to solve it and see her turn crimson with the end product!

These are the cutest ways in which you can confess to her that you see her with heart-eyes!

All the best!

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Fall in Love – Sometimes we achieve in love, sometimes end up in complete fiasco but love is a learning experience nonetheless.

It has been also inspirational to the literary legends who penned down poems and sonnets in praise of their beloved. There is no greater pain than love falling afoul of misunderstandings and no greater joy than making people jealous with your coupledom.

In the world of ephemeral pleasures, the forever kind of love is dying a speedy death but then there are still lovers who diligently believe in happily-ever-afters and do strange things when they fall in love. It’s not always them but the ‘love hormones’ they develop in their bodies, make them do these.

We will take you to a ride into the experiences you too may have had when you Fall in Love but never noticed. Read on below:

1 – You gain weight or lose it:

Psychology has a popular expression called ‘love pounds’ which makes many couple gain weight while in the nascent stage of the relationship. Of course, being in love exhausts a lot of calorie out of your body and while your attempt to overcompensate that, you eat to avoid the pressure of being rejected hence the weight gain. On the other hand , the Oxytocin developed in body also causes weight loss of other lots.

2 – Their voices change:

In a distinguished study, it has been scientifically proven that people tend to understand from the lover’s voice itself when they are making a phonecall that whether they are talking to the friend or the date. That study proved that women’s voices become lower and men’s voices become lower.

3 – Being in love becomes an addiction for you:

Being in love is the most beautiful feeling in the world and even after break-up, you keep thinking about the person you were in love with. It hence becomes an addiction to be in love and you put yourself through a series of dating. It is as same as a cocaine addiction, some scientists say.

4 – People can’t fall asleep:

People are usually sleep eluded when they are in love because they can’t help thinking about their significant other. According to a scientific study, people in love sleep an hour less during the night without waking up tired. That is the magic of love, really!

5 – Heart tends to jump out of their chests:

The pumps like a railway engine at the merest glimpse of the loved one. It happens because someone makes you blush and you can’t help being drawn towards him.

6 – The non-poets start writing poetries:

Because love accelerates the aesthetic side in the lovers, so they turn into poets to impress their loved ones. Probably writing poems are the most thoughtful gifts one could give to their loved ones.

7 – They are seldom afflicted by diseases:

There is a strange connection between romantic feelings and pain perception. The people in love are torn off from the external world and immersed into each other.

Love really sweeps you off your feet and people in love are ready to have a face-off with any challenge. It brings changes in you thereby leaving you amazed.

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Undersexed Moments – Come monsoon and all the couples can’t wait to snuggle with each other in the bed and have a rocking sex while pitter-patter outside create the sweet symphony to sultry up things some more.

Guys egg-on their girls to join them in their empty houses for a roller-coaster carnal experience and girls nudge along too because ‘Ye mausam ka jadoo hai mitwa, na ab dil pe kaboo hai mitwa’.

Well erm! But then we have those bummed potatoes too who would not want to exhaust calories by making love, but intake some by eating pizza together because sex can wait but food can’t. After all, true soulmate is the person with whom you can share your food, right?

So, if you too fall in the latter lazy category, here are some superfun undersexed moments that you can really enjoy with each other:

Undersexed moments –

1 – Spend an at home spa-day:

Include massages, foot rubs, a pedicure and manicure to pamper each other. You can show some serious love to him or her by doing this. Just make them sit back and enjoy, feel more rejuvenated and look at you with love-struck eyes afterwards.

2 – Try out a board game:

Yes, we are a fan of Maya Sarabhai, and you guessed it right, we will opine for Scramble which will not only be fun but also boost your vocabulary. Your guy will always love the challenge and enjoy the intelligent comebacks from you.

3 – Go on a movie marathon:

Put together the movies that keep both of you on the hook. If you too are soulmates, then we gather your taste for movies will be similar too. Just vow to watch at least three movies back to back with a bowl of popcorn that you can fight over. No matter if you fall asleep during one of them, it will be fun anyway.

4 – Do a cooking competition:

This might sound bizarre to you girl but take note, this is going to help you in the long run *wink*. Just chalk out a competition and keep a referee to decide who is the best cook while you both dish out the culinary geniuses in succession. You two might end up with a messed up kitchen but who cares, you have had enjoyed the entire experience whatsoever.

5 – Tell each other ghost stories:

You need to do some homework before this, watch a few horror movies and revisit those garish shhh..koi hai episodes for inspiration, you will nonetheless have an awesome experience hearing bone-chilling ghost stories from each other all through the night. Meanwhile, you are allowed to embrace each other in fear which might lead to a steamy sex, but of course, it’s always your choice.

6 – Play video game all night:

Be butt-heads with each other at the video game championship. Decide a reward for the winner which the loser has to give him, put the PS3 on and go on having fun all night.

So you see, sex is not always the key, having fun together is makes relationships prosper.

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Unrequited love – There is a person whose beauty, elegance and intelligence has charmed you and she tug at your heartstrings effortlessly.

You feel so drawn towards her and her presence leaves you groggy and lovesick.

All your thoughts wallow around her and you can’t wait to profess your love to her. She is the person who has a spring-fed heart and her vibes nibble at your darkness step by step like the maple painting the otherwise gloomy town red. If you meet such a person, you don’t think twice to devote all your life to her, watch what graceful changes age brings to her no matter if she doesn’t belong to you.

But no matter how much you calm down the tides of affection towards her, your spirit is always wrecked to see her smiling coquettishly in another man’s arms. But little did you know, unrequited love changes you into a better person, makes you understand the nuanced life better.

Here are the ways how we validate our statement:

Unrequited love teaches us :-

1 – You learn to deal with rejections:

She chose someone else over you and decided to remain faithful towards him. You respect her sincerity and devotion but at the same time the rejection shatters your heart to thousand pieces. But no matter how much you fume in anger in beginning, the anger settles down eventually and you learn that rejection too is a part of life and you learn to put yourself together again.

2 – You stop expecting too much from people:

No one was put on this earth to fulfil your expectation, you have to make your own bridge over the troubled waters to reach your goal. You loved her with all your heart but could not expect her to love you back, because she was never meant to be yours.

3 – You learn to make amends with that permanent aching:

The aching heart is an ugly thing to bear with but time is a healing drive. When things become normal and the pain settles down, you come up as a stronger person so to speak.

4 – You stop walking at someone else’s shoes:

And stop trying to become someone else, the like she apparently chose for herself. You start being happy in your own skin and stop pressing her for her attention.

5 – You don’t feign happiness any longer:

Initially, you were solicitous towards her boyfriend and pretended you are happy whilst pain eaten your heart like worms inside. Keeping mum and watching their relationship prosper and taking next to next leaps always incited jealously in you but you have finally learned to stop feigning what you don’t pathologically feel. You always are now honest of your feelings about her when she is around and she too starts respecting it.

6 – You don’t hate yourself now for missing the chances:

Luck may have ushered you into chances that you could make her yours forever but you had your eyes shut then. You always hated yourself for doing so but now you don’t because you know there is no use hating yourself because life never stops.

Yes, things were rocky at the start when you fell for her and saw her going away with someone else, but you are no longer reproachful towards yourself because you have changed as a person, that to say revolved in her love.

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Serious efforts to achieve you -You have been playing court to the guy for quite some time and the relationship is all set to take a new leap.

You went all easy-does-it lately but the matters of the heart have now gone out of hand and the distance seems really trying. You can’t wait to be announced man and wife and set up your love nest.

But getting there is not always easy for the lovers especially when their families haven’t many things in common and they raise resistance against your marriage. But you know that the guy will hang in there to move heaven and earth to achieve you.

Here are the clear signs that he is a keeper and putting serious efforts to make you his institutionally:

Serious efforts to achieve you –

1 – He handles all your mood swings:

It is really a blessing to have a guy like this who can handle your mood swings really responsibly. After all, if he doesn’t handle you in your worse, he definitely doesn’t deserve you in your best.

2 – He persuades you to introduce him to your family:

He is a gentleman and doesn’t approve of the idea to hurt sentiments for your own gain. He knows that your family is very dear to you and hence he wants to be introduced to your family and charm hearts.

3 – He makes you comfortable again when you lose hope:

He is hell bent on achieving you and pretty serious about you. So, he makes indefatigable efforts to make you comfortable and look at the brighter side again. He knows that you don’t lose when you don’t achieve, you lose when you lose all hopes to achieve.

4 – He makes plans for your future together:

He doesn’t shy away from making plans. He makes life plans and shows serious concerns to make them come true. No matter if parents are not yet ready, in his mind there is a clear image about your honeymoon is going to look already.

5 – He proudly flaunts you in public:

Of course he is proud of you as you are his trophy girlfriend and makes no qualms in flaunting that in public. He introduces you to his family and friends and never stops gushing over you before them. The clear sign that he is never going to give up on you is that he makes his friends secondary while making you the primary concern in his life.

6 – He lets you be, you:

Every distance seems small like a grasshopper before compatibility. If you two are compatible, there’s nothing that will make things crumble. He knows that you need breathing space too, so makes no effort to change you and loves you as the person you are.

7 – He is always honest with you:

He doesn’t beat around the bush and tells you upfront what he thinks about life because he is comfortable with you and he knows that you will not judge but stand by him as a rock.

These are the signs that he is putting Serious efforts to achieve you –  So, if you already have a guy like this, you are one lucky girl.

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Jagjit Singh ghazals – Jagjit Singh is the Ghazal maestro whose songs are still the earworms like they have been during our teenage years.

Jagjit Singh by all means charmed our hearts with his soulful voice and the lyrics levered a monumental shift in consciousness about love.

His songs are imbued with feelings that create ripples in the imagination. While certain contemporary love songs lack character, the old souls feel an intrinsic urge to leaf through Jagjit Singh marvels that bring eternal spring to the mind.

There is a saying, ‘love like a poet’ and his love songs are nothing but poetry smeared with soul-stirring music. Here are some Jagjit Singh ghazals suggestions for you in case you are head over heels in love with someone.

Jagjit Singh ghazals –

1 – Tum ko dekha to yeh khayal aya:

‘Zindagi dhoop tum Ghana saaya’ – This song ticks all the right boxes for the lovers there. When someone is in love, he seeks peaceful adobe in his lover. If the rest of the world puts you through judgments, the special someone will always soothe your wounds.

2 – Pyar Mujhse Jo Kiya Tumne:

Love doesn’t come with conditions, financial constraints can’t deter lovers to meet. If there is love, the rest of the world can be conquered. One mustn’t seek gain out of love, love is the supreme gain itself.

3 – Kiska Chehra Ab Main Dekhu:

When your heart knows who it belongs to, your eyes stop to philander. No one looks as appealing to your eyes as your lover and that’s the charisma of love.

4 – Hothon se Chhulo tum:

If your lips touch my song, it will be immortalized. Could there be anything more thoughtful to say to your lover? I guess now. An artist’s muse is his lover and he always devotes his creation to that special someone.

5 – Hoshwalon Ko Khabar Kya:

The pragmatic world will never have the idea why lovers are torn from reality. They are so smitten by each other that the rest of the world blurs for them.

6 – Tum Itna Jo Muskura Rahe Ho:

What makes you smile so bright? Is there any pain that you are hiding? The strongest of hearts are seared with scars and smiling is the external resistance barrier to cover that pain which is the heart silently weeps for. This song is beautiful to no limits, it sounds even more beautiful because the lyrics are so thoughtful.

These are some hand-picked Jagjit Singh ghazals for you if you are in love with someone.

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