This open letter is from all girls to their loving boyfriends and not-so-loving ones too.

I urge all the men who have beautiful women in their lives, to read this.

My Darling Boyfriend,

When we met, it was a start to a beautiful life, stars in eyes and dreams at night. I fell in love with you, the complete you, because I know that I need you forever. And I surely want to be the girl who makes your days better, and the one who makes you say “My life has changed since I met her”.

I want you to need me always, need me for these good reasons, just like the Sun needs Sun Rays:

1. To Cheer Away All Your Blues – You Need Me

When you feel the day is too hard and tough is the ride, I’d stand by you like a pillar and make you stride. I’ll make you remember the dreams you painted with wide open eyes, I shall inspire you to catch them before you even realize.

The post Dear Boyfriend! Let Me Give You 6 Good Reasons That You Need Me – Sincerely, The Girl In Your Life! appeared first on Youngisthan.in.

You two were inseparable; you two were two “do jism ek jaan”!

Yes I am talking about you and your bestie.

But suddenly, your bestie announces to you, rather ceremoniously, that she is in a relationship! She found a boyfriend. You are happy, you are sad, you are happy sad!

You always assumed that nothing is ever going to come in between you and your bestie, but this new found thing made you a third wheel!

And here are 10 most prominent things that you go through when your bestie has a boyfriend and you don’t! I am sorry for rubbing it in! I really am!

1. Your “Us Time” suddenly reduces to “Me Time” and you do not understand what to do with it! You can watch another season of “FRIENDS” maybe!

The post 10 Things You Go Through When Your Bestie Has A Boyfriend And You Don’t! appeared first on Youngisthan.in.

Bearded Boyfriend – Not everyone is as lucky as Anushka Sharma to nail Virat Kohli, he is a national sensation and his merest glimpse makes our hearts thump like a railway engine.

However, this is a common fad between guys to sport a bearded look which brings out the machoism in them all right. Beard has a draw within who are pathologically driven towards bearded men. Men too are wary of the fact hence the sales of beard oils are notching up.

The concept of having bearded boyfriend is loved and lusted by women and here are the supefun benefits of having one:

1 – Kissing becomes more fun:

When the beard strokes against your cheeks it gives you a ticklish feeling which boosts your excitement to another level. You feel an intrinsic urge to make out right then. There is nothing sexier than kissing a bearded man. Ask them who has a bearded boyfriend.

2 – Your man has a distinguished sex appeal:

Growing beard accelerates the sex appeal of your man and he looks more masculine. The rugged look is in, look at Hrithik Roshan, Virat Kohli, R Madhavan and their likes of hot men who rob you off your sleep. Women who are Jangli billis will definitely kill for having a bearded boyfriend.

3 – Your bearded boyfriend is healthier than others:

Beard creates a protective layer on the skin which helps it avoid direct contact to the sun’s harful rays thereby keeping him healthy. He averts the risk of cancer and his ageing is decelerated. Study says, bearded men are healthier so you won’t have to invest much on Saffola cooking oil after marriage.

4 – They have a wiser look:

No matter if they are wise owls per se, but they look like one nonetheless. It is commonplace between authors and scholars to have beard because it is symbolic of punditry and erudition. Bear has a deep bearing on bringing out his witty side, take note.

5 – Bearded boyfriends are more patient:

And caring too, at that. He will be your homebody to do cute things for you and build their universe around you. Come on what’s more cuter than that? Also, bearded men tend to be mysterious so he will probably never bore you down to death.

6 – He looks best when he is all dressed up:

When your bearded man is dressed to the nines, we bet you can’t keep your eyes off him. With that burly bit of facial hair he will look a pastorally sexy woodcutter in branded outfit, totally complimenting his sex appeal. Your man will appear more confident in a beard too. He will be the arm candy you have always dreamt of.

7 – You can’t keep your hands off him:

Err..off his cheeks. Guys love to be pampered and stroked like puppies, all men do. When you boo wants to be cuddled, all you need to do is to stroke his beard and he will be all lovesick for you.

While our mothers had a thing for clean-shaven, financially secured look in men, we love to be flanked by these independent and sexy looking bearded men. They are more motivated than what meets the eye.

The post These Are The Superfun Benefits of Having A Bearded Boyfriend appeared first on Youngisthan.in.

If you are in constant need of attention that means you have no life-goals and just want someone else to take lead of your life. Respect is something a woman has to earn and vying for attention all the time makes you appear shallow. Your desperation is suffocating for the boyfriend which equally hinders you from blossoming into the woman you are meant to be deep down. A relationship has to be fulfilling, enriching, securing and everything positive. If you feel insecure, lost or scarcity of attention that you have to fight for, there is something wrong with it.

So, here’s how you can stop being clingy and let silence do the emotional healing.

Ask yourself:

Sit in solitude and ask yourself why are you becoming gooey? What is it that bothers you or makes you insecure? Do you fear losing him? Do you fear you can’t get over the memories once he is gone? Do you think there is no other one like him in the whole wide world? Figure out why your precious life seems meaningless without your boyfriend first.

Give him a breather:

He may be in fear to be your only source of life. He has his vulnerabilities too. Why will he be the only one to fill your emotional needs? After all, you have your own life apart from him, your girl squad, your job, shopping etc that can make you feel alive.

Don’t disturb when he is working:

One needs to concentrate while working. Just place yourself in his shoes, would not it be annoying if he pestered you for attention while you are trying to concentrate in an important elsewhere? After all, encouraging each other to achieve better careers has to be the goal of your relationship.

Nurture your hobbies, passion and interests:

If like gardening and have been meaning to grow some seasonal plants in the backyard, go for it. Similarly, if you always wanted to start your fashion blog, just dig it. Remember, he may be lost in the labyrinth of time but your success will stay with you. It may sound mean, but it’s the way of life.

 Find security in yourself:

Because an independent person doesn’t live on the approval of others and a lioness doesn’t concern herself about what sheep think. Go for a makeover, pamper yourself, and remind yourself that you came in the world for a reason. One rule you must follow in life, that is take control of your life and lift others up, this is how people will come to you for emotional support and you will feel secure in yourself helping them out. Be the wise owl!

Don’t be available all the time:

Secure this wisdom with your life. People who you give importance to will never understand you are not FREE, you make yourself AVAILABLE just to see them smile and eventually they take you for granted. Make them miss you to know your true worth.

Don’t get physically intimate all the time:

I know you desperately want to, but getting physically intimate all the time takes away the passion. You don’t have to touch someone to make them love you, it’s not the kiss, it’s about the times you don’t kiss.

Give them their own sweet time:

When your boyfriend is in a bad mood, give their own time to become normal again. Your counsel may not be something that he wanted right then so wait patiently until he comes back to talking term.

Don’t always die for their opinion:

Of course asking opinion from someone makes them feel important and loved but making your life revolve around their opinion is not the way to perpetuate a relationship for long.

Stop trying to control him:

This one applies to your life also. Don’t let him control your life. Even if you are in a relationship, try to envision your life without any boyfriend, understand the self-worth, build yourself, stay glamorous!

These are the ways you can right away stop being clingy and demanding.

The post How Not To Seem Clingy To Your Boyfriend in A Relationship? appeared first on Youngisthan.in.

Being in love in the beautiful feeling ever but being in love with a fault-finding someone is equally draining. Not necessarily your boyfriend is as fussy about everything else or a perfectionist, it’s just that he wants to patronize the ways you lead your life. No, don’t lose heart already, we are not signalling that he doesn’t love you; maybe he is over protective or has least respect for your reasoning skills. Just that, his ways are a little bossy, snooty and interfering which demands your personal space. So, here are some tell-tale signs you have a control freak boyfriend:

He scoffs at your ‘girls’ night out’ plans:

He always has an issue with hanging out with your girl squad because he thinks they might brainwash you against him. Thinking the extreme comes to him instinctively because he will overly possessive about you and thinks he deserves more attention than you give your girlfriends.

He is like a human satellite to you:

He always keeps himself updated on your plans and cross-questions every time to find you fumble. He constantly checks on you, even when you are at work and he knows it, much to your annoyance.

His decisions reign supreme:

He is bossy in nature so he likes to decide everything around or related to you. He decides your clothes, food, and even the quantity of time you will devote to your mother. That’s eerie!

You can’t even stare at other boys:

You never share a story of how you drooled over a hot boy you saw at the morning commute or how someone really classy buzzed you in the social media. He will see red from the merest mention of other boys from your mouth because he things you ONLY belong to him.

You are constantly in fear:

Forget being social, you can’t even be yourself with him around. You are always behaving like someone you are not and there is no breathing space in the relationship. Worse, you are a different person with your friends and your behaviour changes remarkably when he bursts into scene.

He misbehaves with your friends:

He has a rulebook set for you and friends are always coaxing you to stay longer. To make his rules persist, he can even misbehave with your friends and never apologize.

He is chronically critical:

He is always critical about everything you do and never seems to boosts your morale when you are down as he is under the belief that it might lower his status in your eyes and you can just start taking him for granted.

His care is conditional:

He only adores you when you adhere to his rules like a good girl. He doesn’t cotton to the rebel version of you and when that side of you emerges, he completely withdraws or picks up an ugly duel.

He is a mobile log-book of events:

He keeps track of every bad emotional interaction, fights, and arguments in your relationship and uses them against you in the opportune moment.

He is hyper jealous:

His jealousy and possessiveness about you can be flattering at the beginning but it starts to suffocate you gradually until you decide to call it quits finally. It becomes scary when he is violently possessive and starts viewing even friendly gestures of your to others as flirtatious.

These are the 10 things you are bound to notice in your boyfriend if he is control freak.

The post 10 Signs That You Have a Control Freak Boyfriend appeared first on Youngisthan.in.

It started off with casual dating.

You felt that you had finally found your dream man.

But then suddenly, you realise that his sole intention is to get you into bed.

Did it happen earlier than predicted? Is it coz he is the ultimate Adonis on the college campus?

You almost want to succumb to his subtle hints of ‘how much I love you babes’. But then you fathom all the tricks he’s playing to con you into giving in…and landing on his bed.

Here’s the list of tricks guys resort to get their girl to have sex with them.

SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS A MUST

My earlier non-committal boyfriends tried the same stunt. The last one made it very clear after two casual dates that he sought sexual compatibility to get to know me better. When I quizzed if all the girls he had earlier dated had slept with him, he replied in the affirmative. Probing deeper, I asked him. ‘What went wrong?’

All I got was a condescending reply, “She wasn’t good in bed”. Wow, so do you think it is worth being the next item number to impress this guy with your sexual prowess. No ways. Walking out of the relationship was a major kick to my second boyfriend’s inflated ego.

The post Is Your Boyfriend Pushing You For SEX? appeared first on Youngisthan.in.

True love is durable fire,
In the mind ever burning,
Never sick, never dead, never cold,
From itself never turning.
– William Shakespeare.

One can understand how much your partner misses you when you stay away from them. It’s not always that girls long for their boyfriends, it also the other way round. Today we have rounded some signs that will help you to understand when your boyfriend is missing you.

1. He talks less while calling and you can feel it in his voice as well.

Guys’ emotions reflect in the way they speak and one can gauge that from their voice tone as well. This change in voice tone indicates heavy heart and choke of throat that shows.

2. He suddenly calls you or asks you to talk or chat for more time at odd times.

Guys are impulsive in dealing in emotions. And it’s direct sign when you have missed calls in double digits on how much he misses you. He will keep on saying and even mundane things just to get you talk to him. He will involve you in his stuffs and find more excuses to talk to your over phone or chat.

3. He gets nostalgic.

He gets nostalgic and keeps bringing up memories about old days you have spent. He takes you deep down the memory lane. They will start gazing old pictures and presents gifted by you.

4. He plans to meet you and tells you about his plans.

He goes on with his insane plans for the next time he plans to see you. He will tell about his fantasies and plans that he thinks and how he would like to spend the day which is right now most anticipated one.

5. He asks you for your pictures and constantly asks you for meeting you soon.

He would ask you to send pictures of you right away. It’s better to give them the pictures right away to subside their pain missing you. He will deliberately dig up reasons inured to meet you often.

6. He irritates and gets mad at you for no reason.

He is annoying you but he is not doing that purposely sometimes he is missing you and he gets at mad at you so that he can less miss you. This sounds weird and senseless but yes they do.

7. He brings up I-will-always-love-you conversations.

Frequent calls ad chats which leads you these conversations is common sign that shows how much he is missing you.

If your boyfriend too shows these signs then stay assured that you boyfriend loves you from the core of his heart.

The post 7 Signs That Your Boyfriend Is Missing You appeared first on Youngisthan.in.

Public Display of Affection, whether to engage in it or not is a major dilemma faced by couples of the modern era.

With moral policing and wandering eyes following them everywhere, a couple really needs to be strong when it comes to retaliation of the searching eyes.

Nevertheless, many couples do practice PDA which, at times, makes other people around uncomfortable.

If you are single and witness one such activity in public, there are certain thoughts that are bound to cross your mind. Here is a list of those few notions –

“Are they allowed to do that?”

You wonder if PDA is legal

Since many people consider PDA unethical, judging by the Indian culture, this is usually the first deliberation that comes to you naturally.

“What more can they do?”

You wonder if they can up the stakes of their affection display

It might be just a hug or a peck on the cheek, but sometimes, you just want to see how ballsy the couple is and whether or not they can take it up a notch.

“Can I discreetly get a picture?”

You think if it is possible for you to click their picture discreetly

The thought of getting a quick picture of the couple showing affection to one another can be freakishly weird…and not to mention risky. If the thought crosses your mind, control the urge.

“Somebody kill me”

Watching public display of affection brings back memories

When you are single (or have had a failed relationship), watching a couple together can bring back memories. Though you may not oppose their act, you just want them to stop.

“Yeah…I could take him”

You begin to think if it’s possible for you beat the guy via physical contact

One such thought crosses your mind when you have a scornful personality. If the girl is pretty, you tend to compare her with the guy’s personality and eventually this thought runs across.

“If I take him down, would she go out with me?”

You even go to lengths thinking if the girl would pick you ahead of the guy

This is the next stage of the thought process of the contemptuous attitude. You don’t only want to embarrass the man, but want to win the girl’s heart, too. In the real world, that will never happen.

“What does she see in him?”

You see the male as physically inferior to the woman in regards with appearance

This is usually the ‘langoor ke haath mein angoor’ sort of situation. You judge both personalities and eventually come to terms that the girl is too good to be with the guy.

“I’m gonna die alone”

The thought of dying alone freaks you out

This does not insinuate lost hope, but just a momentary lapse of judgement. Singlehood is something that you are tired of and the thought of being alone for the rest of your life creeps you out.

“Where are the moral police?”

You hope for the moral police to show up

The modern times is no stranger to moral policing and you just wonder if the couple would get beat up if a group of moral police shows up.

“Wish their parents see this”

You even hope the couple’s parents catch them in the act

This is where the sadist part inside you takes over. The PDA apparently has become so torturous that you wish the couple’s parents or a relative catches them in the act and creates a ruckus.

The post That Moment When You Witness PDA appeared first on Youngisthan.in.