Chocolates, wine, roses and your sweetheart – well there’s nothing more a romantic heart could ask for.

Romance is a beautiful emotion that spreads like plague and engulfs one and all and fills people’s hearts with love, warmth, passion and content.

While the world celebrates love in the form of Valentine ’s Day or by way of Romeo and Juliet, here are the top 8 most romantic countries in the world and most romantic people. Take a look –

1. Italy

Romance – the word actually comes from Rome and which typically means ‘from Rome’. Thus, it is inevitable to put Rome on top of this list. The country spells romance in its architecture, culture, history and the good looks of its people. The fantastic food and wine add the touch of perfection to their way of loving.

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I love you – Roses are available in different colours and sizes.

Biologically the pigments are responsible for the colour of the roses known as anthocyanins are responsible for the red colour of the rose. Roses of different colours symbolize different things and specifically, red roses symbolize “love”.

But when it arrives at a romantic situation, the blue sky explains the feeling of pleasure and happiness to be in love or to fall in love. Red roses and the blue sky together exhibits a stronger value to the way you honestly describe your feeling for falling in love.

Reasons for Sky being blue in love.

A clear blue sky is always a symbol of happiness no sadness. Dark sky makes you feel sad while the vice versa in the blue sky, the sun shines to make a sunny and glowing day.

But when I say “I Love You”

Sunny day and your roses are dried

Did this ever happen to you or not? You purchase a bouquet of flowers but before reaching to your partner the roses are almost dry. Roses turn to dark to darker shades of maroon instead of red. So sometimes this quote may stand wrong might be you just end saying “The sky is blue, with a bouquet of roses I say “I love you”

First Date but no flower market around

This is very often that first-day couples decide to date and while they meet, no flowers or bouquets to greet each other or propose each other. But it becomes useless to search around as no flower shops or markets are around.

No! There will be no alternative way to spice up the situation, the miracle that a single red rose can do hard to express your feelings find even in an expensive materialistic gift.

Thought of Dating on a Sunny Day but ends up to become a Rainy day.

Monsoon when romance is one of its kind, thinking of meeting up when the sun is around but what if  suddenly the raindrops begin. Nothing can be more romantic when you have the red roses in your hand simply to say “Roses are red and I love you.”

Rain itself expresses love and passion with the droplets creating a calm and romantic atmosphere, do you will find yourself lucky when together in the rain of monsoon.

Summer at 40 Degrees.

Nasty is summer, so no one will like to wait for someone with red roses to come sweating in the sunny bright day nor you neither your partner will admire the idea of being proposed on a clear blue sky at 40 degrees of temperature. Romance in such situations is better in the air-conditioned restaurant to pre-book a table for lunch with a decorated red rose flower vase table.

Sit comfortably and propose your partner saying “Roses are red and the sky is blue. When I say “I love you”!

Romance vary from person to person but the motive is to love each other with passion and dedication. But in a few situations turn exceptional as discussed above through the reason is to express their intensity of love.

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Friendzoned – It’s always nightmarish getting friendzoned by the person you hold a torch for. You want to have her in your arms but she always sees through you and your emotions alike.

You still can’t serve your emotions in a platter before them in the fear of rejection or worse, losing their friendship. Sometimes, the other person intentionally hangs you there irrespective of being wary of your soft corner for them. The place may seem dark and dingy but if you accustom yourself to stay there, all hopes will be lost.

Hence we are jotting down here some reasons why you are being friendzoned always so that you can come out of the closet and tell her that you love her.

1 – You are easily accessible:

We are not saying that you should not be there when she gives you a call in the midnight but always paying her all your attention makes her take you for granted. Besides, agreeing to whatever she says also shallows your personality. Don’t be afraid to differ with her. Build your own identity and opinions, she will notice you.

2 – You let her come to you when she needs you:

It’s all about balance, baby! Don’t always lend a shoulder whenever she fights with her boyfriend. If she complains way too much, cut her short and say you are sleepy. May be you can listen to her problem later but not always in that situation. Remember, not always!

3 – You are a coward of sorts:

Show your flirty side to her. There is a thin line there however that you need not cross but start complimenting her on her beauty, stop pulling her leg. High time now!

4 – You are a vending machine of advices:

Of course she needs betterments, we all do, but that doesn’t mean you need to smother her with advices. Keep it short and simple, leave a room for guessing.

5 – Have a spine:

You are not helping yourself and letting this friendzone get into your skin. Stop building castle in the air and fight for your rights.

6 – You are boring:

You talk about stars and poetry a lot but shay away from talking sex. Have a good sense of humour and talk naughty with her sometimes too. Let yourself lose, she will like it, every girl sneakily does.

7 – You are always available:

You are the first option she turns to when her boyfriend stands her up and she cancels on him. No wonder, she takes you for granted.

8 – Stop being grouchy and start putting efforts:

No one, not even god will come to your rescue if you don’t do hard work. Being a friend, you already know her likes and dislikes so start pampering her by virtue of that.

Man and woman using smart phones at table.

9 – Establish physical intimacy:

Hold her hand, act naughty if she allows. You will get ample opportunities, but just have to shed your shield of shame.

10 – Make mistakes but don’t seem stupid:

You are her partner-in-crime all right but don’t seem stupid when you are getting romantically closer. You can meanwhile make mistakes but learn to rest not quit.

Turn on the go-getter self of yours. All the best!

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Sam Smith And Brandon Flynn – All I know is, Brandon Flynn & Sam Smith are extremely cute together.

Trust me, their Instagram PDA will certainly make you go “AWWWW, they’re so freaking cuteeee.”

Before we get there, let’s talk about Sam Smith & Brandon Flynn. They might NOT have made their relationship OFFICIAL by talking about their romantic relationship, but you cannot ignore the fact that they enjoy each other’s company a lot.

The news that they both are dating started heating up when they were spotted together in New York. They were walking arm in arm & kissing in public as well.

No doubt, their pictures created a buzz in the Hollywood industry.

Few days later when Sam Smith was questioned about his dating LIFE, he revealed “Yes. I am really happy but it’s always important for me to keep my private life private.” He is happy in his new relationship with 13 reasons why star “Brandon Flynn” but he doesn’t want to talk about it at-least for now. FANS are undeniably shipping their relationship. Many wants them to open up & hang out more together. (I want that too) It seems, that it’ll take some time. But hey, as of now, their Instagram PDA is enough to make ourselves happy.

Here are the Instagram PDA and yes, they’ll make you say “AWWWW.”

HEARTS!!

SLAY BABY!!

CUTEST!!

SO CUTE!!

AWWWW!!

OMG!

ZADDY!!

Sam Smith And Brandon Flynn: Aren’t they cute?

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Love in Bollywood has always been glorified, glamorized and been part of innumerable controversies.

Love marriages, extra-marital affairs and one-night stands have ruled the roost and we, as fans, have lapped up any and every gossip coming out of the world’s largest gossip factory!

Times are changing though!

The new generation of actors and stars are re-defining love and how it needs to be handled. For a change, it is a refreshing sight and reflects the changing ideologies of a nation as well.

After all, reel life is always inspired by real life and vice-versa, isn’t it? However, they have a different definition of love!

Let me be more specific.

Talking about new age actors like Alia Bhatt, Varun Dhawan, Sidhharth Malhotra, Shraddha Kapoor and many more like them, one can notice that no matter how much media tries to link them and spread stories about their romance, when you see them on screen during interviews and film promotions, it gets clear that these guys have strong bonds of friendship rather than love! These guys are on backslapping terms and are fully aware that these linkups are just a part of PR machinery more than anything else.

Taking a step further are the upcoming stars, Athiya Shetty and Sooraj Pancholi! These guys have already declared that they love each other like crazy, but the way you love a friend, a human being, a near and dear one instead of the typical love we see in a couple! That’s how a lot of us are in real life, aren’t we? We all have that one close friend with whom we bond, connect and love to hang around with, without having any romantic or sexual ideas! Just pure soulful love!

This is actually refreshing to see youngsters being open about their love preferences, love lives and knowing how to love one another without being classified as lovers! Such a relationship is most liberating and actually helps one to understand love in a new manner.

It is not that yesteryear stars were not right about their definitions of love, but they belonged to a totally different generation. Someone as young as Shahid Kapoor was also a part of many of those so called love-affairs instead of friendly love this new generation exhibits! A part of the credit goes to the globalization and the exposure we all have got from the western culture where relations are defined in a different manner. It is a culture where it is perfectly acceptable to consider a girl and a guy as friends and nothing more! That’s the real change happening in our society and being reflected in Bollywood stars as well!

Even though I would love to see many of these good looking guys and girls fall in love, if they are friends and want to find love elsewhere, good luck to them!

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LOVE – a four letter word that actually makes the world function!

It is also the same word that keeps everyone on their toes, gives them goose bumps, butterflies in the stomach, makes them jump with joy, make everyone go crazy and makes life tad more interesting than it is!

With the passage of time, especially in India with liberals allowing and accepting that love is a way of life, everyone has joined the bandwagon of getting into a relationship.

By the time one turns into an adult, they have had at least one relationship to boast of.

And mind you, they are past their serious love affair and have come out mature to face the world, so they say!

Is it a reality though?

Actually, far from it! If you look closely, love is more of a fad these days, just to show off the way one shows off their latest gadget or party scene or dresses etc. The urge to be counted amongst those who have a boyfriend/girlfriend and to be able to boast that one is in love is much stronger than actually feeling the urge to love and be loved!

Now this is not a lecture about morals and ethics and what one should or shouldn’t do, but just trying to decipher what actually goes in today’s generation’s mind when they talk about love. Seriously speaking, most have watched rom-com cinema of Hollywood and it’s desi adaptation, read all of Chetan Bhagat’s candy floss surface level love stories and followed the lovey-dovey posts of couples on social media like Facebook, Twitter etc. and now want to emulate all of that in their life as well. Nothing bad in that if one can derive some pleasure by such activities, but it actually doesn’t help in the long term!

The reason why one gets in and out of love within a matter of days and love-marriages are heading for divorce so very often is that one associates the feeling of being in love with actually being in love! It is not easy to differentiate for most people and therefore they become super happy with the fact that they are in love rather than actually digesting the feeling of love, which comes with its own share of pain, longing, adjustments, compromises, sacrifices and what not! All one wants in love-life is to be happy, to be able to party, to spend time together doing fun things and be able to boast about it in their social circle. Love is much more than this and beyond all this!

Another way of looking at it is if someone doesn’t even realize the difference and yet is immensely happy, then no point in bursting the bubble! At least something is making the person happy, even if on a surface level, temporarily given the fact that otherwise life is full of stress and complications. As they say, ignorance is sometimes really bliss!

Well, whether you are in love or with the feeling of being in love, as long as you are happy and not hurting anyone, carry on! However, once in your lifetime, try to find the difference and actually try to live the experience of being really in deep true love. Your life will change and it will become more meaningless!

Till then, just love!

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