Texting Fears :

8:00 – Typing message

Sent

Delivered

Seen

8: 01

8:02

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…….Why they hell is this person not replying me?

Oh God, trust me; it is the most irritating situation to be in. Have you ever been in a situation where two of you are chatting with each other, conversation is going smooth, but suddenly, the person you’re talking to stops replying your text & you’re like “WTH? Why is this person not replying me even though they’ve SEEN my message (blue ticks)

Ugh, I know, this type of situation is the worst one to experience.

When we’re caught up in this mess, there are many thoughts that keep coming in our mind. Here, listed below are some of them.

1. Why this person isn’t replying me?

First thought that comes to mind is, why the person stopped replying. Like seriously, everything was going so smooth, conversation was interesting etc, then why?

2. Am I that boring?

Even though we shouldn’t, we blame ourselves thinking “maybe this person got bored.” You know; it happens a lot, right? We have this bad habit of blaming ourselves.

3. Did this person dropped the phone?

Yeah, we say shit like this. I mean, deep down we know that nothing such happened but yet, to feed our mind with reasons, we always say this shit.

4. Should I text something interesting?

Yeah we FEEL that maybe sending an interesting text or maybe copy pasting a joke will turn the situation into better. Sometimes we do this thing & still the person doesn’t reply. What happens next? Oh God, we keep saying “I shouldn’t have done that because now the person will think I’m a despo.”

5. Maybe this person is busy on FB

Just to be sure, we open FB and then we check whether so & so person is online or not.

6. Maybe sleep ruined it all

AFTER 2 hours, we think maybe this person is sleeping. So yes, I’ll wait till morning.

7. Maybe *Whatsapp Calling* will help

Oh shit, I shouldn’t have done that. IF this person ask me “why was I calling?” I’ll reply “Oh it happened bymistakely.’”

8. THIS ISN’T FAIR

When it gets too much, we end up saying “Alright, this isn’t FAIR now.” “I’m not going to talk to this person ever again.”

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*New Message*

Oh it’s the same person

CONTINUES TALKING….like nothing happened at all.

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Dating Trends : Earlier, we talked about dating terms like “Ghosting, Benching, Textationship, and many more.” No doubt, experiencing these dating trends is a nightmare. For those who have been it’s victim will truly understand how scary it is.

Ghosting has been the worst of all.

Wait, actually no, Ghosting isn’t the worst. Why, you ask? Oh, it’s because there’s another dating term that’s here to give you nightmares. What term, you ask? It is, Roaching. Yes I know, that this terms sounds a lot like cockroach, but trust me; it’s the worst. Worse than ghosting? Oh yes, it really is.

Oh and also, this term was coined by AskMen.

Now back to your question, what does roaching really means? Roaching actually means that your partner is dating around and when you ask them “why” or “what was the need to do it”, they end up saying “Oh Calm down, there’s nothing wrong about dating.” According to AskMen, Roaching is a terms that comes from the idea that when you see one cockroach, there are many more around you which you can’t see, but that doesn’t mean that they aren’t there.” So when it comes to human relationships, it means, that the person you were seeing were also hiding bunch of crushes, dates etc.

Roaching is very serious, because at one point, you’re seeing this person and then you catch them with someone else. Instead of apologizing or saying “I’ll never do that again”, these people say “I never knew we were so serious about our relationship” or “It is all okay to see people.”

Experiencing roaching is nothing less than a nightmare and oh, it hurts. It’s pretty clear, that there are many who might be the victim of roaching, without even knowing. Thus, roachers IF you’re listening this, then it would be great IF you just let your partner know that you’re dating or you know; have a crush on somebody else.

Good conversation always helps a lot to keep the relationship going. Plus, it also helps each other to know when they should STOP seeing each other.

Dating Trends : Have you experienced roaching? IF yes, how did you handled it?

(Source: AskMen)

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Modern Dating Terms – I’m quite sure that you know the meaning behind the popular dating term “GHOSTING”. Well, you must’ve experienced it in your life as well. Or maybe, you must’ve ghosted someone. Ghosting, is considered to be a dangerous dating term and many people are it’s victim. Just in case you’re new to this term, let me explain it to you.
Ghosting means disappearing or ending a relationship with someone without giving any explanation to them. Now, do you think you’re a victim? Also, Zombieing is a dating term that is quite popular and it is equally dangerous as compared to Ghosting. For those who have no idea about the term, let me clear what it means. So, Zombieing means a person who disappears and stops interacting to you but then after months or years, appears again and brings back the relationship like nothing happened, at all.

Scary, right?

You know what; there are some modern dating terms that are equally dangerous. Read about ‘em and find out whether anyone ever did that to you etc.

Here we go –

1. BENCHING

I personally hate this one a lot and I’m sure you’ll do it too. Benching is something where a person continuously keeps talking to you but only on social media. Like, they’ll comment on your picture, they’ll DM you etc. But, when it comes to meeting them in person, they’ll always end up giving you reasons why they can’t come. It’s like, they’ll keep you hanging.

2. LAYBE

I know, you’ll be like “Did you wanted to say “Maybe”? Hehe! Sadly, I wanted to say “Laybe” only. Yes, Laybe is a weird dating term that exists and you cannot ignore it. So, Laybe is a term where a person who is already in a relationship will act like they’re unhappy and they want to come out of it. So, they’ll keep flirting with you and they’ll convince you that once they break-up, they’ll get in a relationship with you. It’s your choice –whether to wait or let go.

3. TUNING

This one is a simple dating term that sounds good but it is really heartbreaking. Why, you ask? Listen, tuning is a term where two people flirt with each other. Sounds good? Here’s the twist – It also means that one person is way more interested than the other one. Now, that’s kinda heartbreaking, right?

4. FADING

Slow Fading means two people are in a relationship with each other but slowly the love is disappearing and they’re talking fewer etc.

It’s like a relationship that is slowly dying.

5. MOONING

Last but not the least, Mooning is said to be the new Ghosting and I think you’ll relate to it’s reason. Mooning is basically a texting term that is considered to be annoying. Mooning is done when you find someone completely annoying because they keep on sending you messages. So, to avoid that, Mooning means putting them on the mute so that their texts don’t disturb you.

Have you done this to anyone?

This was all about the modern dating terms. 

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Signs He Is Breadcrumbing You –

What is Breadcrumbing? Breadcrumbing is actually 2017’s new phrase.

Yeah, and in this modernisation dating, you must be experiencing it too.

Breadcrumbing is getting quite popular now, and people (just like you) are still wondering “What the hell is that?” – So, let me tell you; that Breadcrumbing is a term used to describe this situation “The act of sending out flirtatious, but non-committal text messages (i.e. “breadcrumbs”) to members of the opposite sex in order to lure a sexual partner without expending much effort.”

These people are extremely smart and in today’s social media time, they will be give you like, and then they’ll automatically disappear. These people will not ghost you directly, but they will appear only when they want to, and they’ll make you feel like “Yeah, we can be one”, but in reality it’s the opposite.

So, to make it clearer, here are 6 Signs He Is Breadcrumbing You. – Piece by Piece, they make a Bread…Get it?

1. He texts you only when he is bored

We all have this pathetic kind of guy, right? I’m talking about the one who will text you when he is completely bored. Yeah, the midnight guy- you guessed it. I’ve dealt with such guys who will always text me at night when they are bored and then I’ve to keep talking and shit.

Such guys actually will text you thrice a week only.

2. He is expert in sending short texts

If you say “Hello”, he will say “Hi”. If you say “What are you doing”, he will say “Ssup”…The list of their short texts goes on and on. Even when you text something really important, they’ll send you something like “Oh Okay”, “Good to know”…Ladies, ditch them right now and trust me, you don’t need ‘em at all.

3. The temporary ghosters

Breadcrumbers are the one who will give you likes on Instagram and Facebook and then disappear like nothing happened. You know, they’ve a trick i.e. I’ll give her likes and then she’ll think at-least I saw her picture *Blah* *Blah*… So, these people need to be thrown out of your life because they are dangerous.

4. He don’t care

A guy who breadcrumbs you will act like “Nothing happened, let’s start again”. You know, on Monday, he will bombard with lovey-dovey text messages, but honestly, he is only trying to pass his time. So, ladies, don’t fall for it. Oh yeah, then again, they’ll be texting you on Saturday with a hot new topic that’ll interest you.

5. He always comes back when you stop thinking about him

Even though your friends make you understand that “Give up, he is not worth your love”, and then you agree by saying “I’ll not think about him” etc. When you really aren’t thinking, he appears again.

It’s like; he knows that you’ll get over him, so he appears so that he can keep you interested all the time. Smart, isn’t it?

6. Commitment is his phobia

He will flirt with you all the time, but when the commitment question pops in, he will either change the topic or will disappear. Yes, that’s what they do, so stop wasting your lovely words on them ladies. Understand that they’re only there to entertain themselves and nothing else.

Signs He Is Breadcrumbing You- Do you have anything to say? Let us know in the comment section below.

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“He Ghosted You”

This happens many times and this disappearing act is simply known as “Ghosting”.

It happened with me and (I’ll guess, maybe) it must’ve happened with you as well. And some of you must be wondering “where the hell did that person go”? Even though you met that person online or have been your friend since month-years whatever. Ghosting is ghosting and nothing changes that at all.

Like I mentioned, it happened with me and hell yeah, I started to think “why did that person behaved so stupidly”? Thinking about the “so-called-relationship” that I had, these reasons came into my mind.

Well, I’m listing ‘em here to help you stop thinking about why he ghosted you.

1. He was bored AF

Yep, this happens.

The boy must’ve felt that you’re too boring and simply “not his type”, so it is better to run away as quickly as possible. And finally, he did.

2. He was a player

Well… Well… you know the creepy ones who are always looking to drag the opposite sex.  (Picture that and end it) If you’ve met someone online and that person always flirted with you then I think girls can pretty much get what “kind of guy” he must be. And simply when he thought “he can’t play in your field”, he just disappeared.

Good for you ladies because you’re saved.

3. He thought you’re too “Goood”

Many guys can’t handle sweetness so maybe he was one of those. So if he has disappeared for this reason then he thought well about you.

4. He wanted to avoid “commitment”

You might think- “we were talking so good and it almost felt like we’ll get together in a relationship etc etc”.  But right when things started getting serious and he disappeared before that, than girls; he is running because he’s scared to get into “dating”.

So frankly, you’re better off without him.

5. He found somebody else

If you already knew he loved attention and was a flirtatious guy then such guys never stop at one place. Maybe he must’ve found somebody else to hook up with and that’s the reason he said bye-bye without saying.

6. His plans changed

Maybe you both made promises to be together and all that stuff. But, who cares? Now his life must’ve taken a turn and he changed all his plans. Changing plans simply doesn’t involve you so instead of telling he ghosted you.

These were the sure shot reasons that prove why he ghosted you. 

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