Breezing – A generation that is so dislodged from patience, will enjoy the emotional highs and lows, take risks, sign up for heartbreaks, and end up frustrated.

The byzantine traits of modern day dating leading an entire generation astray and we sit here as mute spectators. Like you, I too am done with it.

Wait, this doesn’t stop here, after meeting a guy you apparently ‘like’ or bumped into in an online dating app only to be ‘ghosted’ or ‘catfished’ later is none too tranquil.

We can parade you with names of some more dating trends such as ‘love bombing’ and ‘stealthing’ that infuse life into the obnoxious predicaments in the aftermath.

Even not being done with one, we get sucked into another chaos and it takes myriad heartbreaks to learn to use that chaos as ladder. So we are short of logic as to what to do next? To put a complete pause on dating or keep tossing the heart for takers?

It involves risk, all sorts of dating for that matter. You don’t understand the internet dating lingo, the terminologies, you are outcast but when you start to indulge, run after hedonistic pleasure, you are wrung dry of your sanity.

Well, we have some good news waiting round the corner for you still. All hail the lord! So, if you have impeccably high standards and unapologetic about it, here are some easy-peasy tips for smooth sailing into the world of mind games and playing hard to get, ‘Breezing’ stands distinguished with its own merits.

What is Breezing?

While ghosting is abruptly ceasing to communicate with the person you were apparently dating online, catfishing is using fake pictures to hide their true identity, Breezing is stopping to care. No, it’s not how you think, it is not caring about the stereotypes, like a man would message first or make the first move. Or, that is to say, sticking to a rulebook as to how to talk to people. It’s about letting yourself float along the flow and being yourself.

Things that you need to do:

You need to relax and yet fidget. You can do a lot of things without doing anything which is the main draw here. Just that, the rules have to be ruled out first.

If you like a guy and want to text him first, you can go ahead and do that. Don’t come across as too strong or too passionate, just behave in a cool way.

There is nothing more fun than playing mind games because it leaves you anxious and hence wanting to hone your skills. Your weaponry should be living in the moment. Yes, you heard it right.

This is called Breezing dating – Let the unimportant things go and focus on the important ones. If you two are likely to match, you will.

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Dating Terms – It is 21^st century and you should know about the slangs that are making noise in the modern day romantic weather. You might know about “BAE”, “GHOSTING”, and “CUFFING”, “IRL.” But hey, do you know dating slangs like “MONKEYING”, “Q”, “YODO” and many more? I’ll assume that you have no idea what these slangs actually stand for.

If you do, that’s pretty cool. But if you don’t, then that’s cool too. Why, you ask? Oh because, today you’ll come to know about these slangs & woof, you won’t have a question mark on your forehead.

Starting with –

Dating Terms: 

• YODO

I’m sure you’ve heard the term “YOLO” which means “You Only Live Once”. Well, YODO is slightly different as it means “You Only Dump Once.” It means, once you break up with your partner, you won’t go back to them, no matter what happens. It’s like, once the damage is done, it is DONE.

• Q

Q is a dating term that means “cool.” So whenever you’re describing a girl/boy you’re dating & is pretty cool, you say something like this “The person I’m currently committed to is pretty Q in a way.”

• MONKEYING

Monkeying happens when a person breaks up & few days later they’re back in the dating game acting like nothing happened days ago. Person who is always ready to mingle & can’t imagine themselves staying single.

• JELLY

When someone is going through that jealously situation. Have you ever heard people say “I’m so jealous because my best-friend is dating my crush.” In this scenario, one can also say “I’m so jelly because so & so is dating so & so.”

Jelly sounds good, right?

• NON-DATE DATE

I know it does sound confusing, right? To be honest, it really is. It is when a person call you up & say “Hey, let’s have a non-date date.” Though the date includes flirting, drinks & little stuff like these, it is considered as confusing.

• R-BOMBED

I have been a victim of this & I’m sure many out there too. It actually means when your love interest reads your message but doesn’t reply.

• FBO

This one is actually pretty common & used by many. It is when someone makes their relationship “Facebook Official.” Single -> Committed.

• DTR

It stands for “Define the Relationship.” Urban dictionary says “DTR means when two people discuss their mutual understanding of a romantic relationship.”

Dating Terms: Do you have any more terms to add? Let us know in the comment section below.

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