This open letter is from all girls to their loving boyfriends and not-so-loving ones too.

I urge all the men who have beautiful women in their lives, to read this.

My Darling Boyfriend,

When we met, it was a start to a beautiful life, stars in eyes and dreams at night. I fell in love with you, the complete you, because I know that I need you forever. And I surely want to be the girl who makes your days better, and the one who makes you say “My life has changed since I met her”.

I want you to need me always, need me for these good reasons, just like the Sun needs Sun Rays:

1. To Cheer Away All Your Blues – You Need Me

When you feel the day is too hard and tough is the ride, I’d stand by you like a pillar and make you stride. I’ll make you remember the dreams you painted with wide open eyes, I shall inspire you to catch them before you even realize.

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Everyone wants to get into a relationship but no one wants to get into a fight especially when its your girlfriend on the other side.

That’s why they say ‘Rishta Banana Nahi’ but ‘Nibhana Mushkil Hai’.

So here is your way to avoid relationship problems and live ‘Happily Ever After’, well that’s what we hope!

1.  Don’t threaten your relationship

Never ever say the ‘B’ word i.e. breakup in a relationship just for the sake of it. If you do this then you will be demeaning your own relationship.

2.  Don’t avoid your anger

If you are feeling angry about something then let your partner know about it in advance. This way they would not be the victim of your anger but instead help you lighten up your mood.

3.  Use humor

Laughter is the best medicine not only for illness but also for resolving issues. Biggest of the mistakes and fights can be solved in minutes by using some witty lines at the right time.

4.  Remain silent and lovingly disengage

If you feel that your partner is not ready to get convinced over some topic then just stay calm and politely suggest them to have this conversation some other time.

5.  Don’t stockpile

Small things have a big impact. Don’t let those small irritating habits of each other go unnoticed or un-talked. This way you can resolve the issues even before they rise.

6.  Abuse is NEVER allowed

Never ever say the ‘F’ word or any other word that is abusive & disrespectful. Because insults last long and it gives the relationship a very bitter taste.

7.  Create a process for resolving problems without anger

Now this is up to you and your creativity as to how creatively you can come up with a way to solve your problems. E.g. A couple used to talk about their problems in a form of a song. So every time they did this they would burst into laughter and forget about the real problem.

8.  Don’t raise your voice

Raising your voice not only creates a lot of tension between you & your partner but also kind of pulls you away from each other emotionally. It is very embarrassing for both if done in public.

9.  Listen attentively

You must actually listen to each & every word she says and especially the ones she does not say i.e. her silence, her actions & her expressions. If you are able to do this, then your life is set.

10.  Be Honest

It’s the toughest but it’s the best. Because if you are being honest to her then you don’t have to hide anything from her or lie to her which eventually is the root cause of many problems. So as they say ‘Honesty is the best Policy’.

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Every boyfriend wants to keep her girl happy and show her that how much he loves her.

But sometimes we run out of ideas to express our love and make them feel special.

So here are the top ten Awesome Date Ideas that will surely make your girlfriend fall in love with you! AGAIN!!

1.  Take Her Down The Memory Lane

Do a little research about her childhood & make a plan to visit those places that she used to visit in her childhood.

2.  Make Her A Star..!!

Be it a theme park or a movie theater or a club; make her the star of the event, bring the spot light to her by publicly highlighting her good qualities and say how you are proud of her.

3.  Embarrass Her But In A Good Way!

By doing an impromptu dance or by dedicating a song to her in front of her friends, she will surely be embarrassed but will always hold this gesture close to her heart.

4.  Collective Surprise!!

A collection of your photographs together from day one or a sum of her favorite dialogues or movies or chocolates. She’ll love it 🙂

5.  Go For A Treasure Hunt

One fun activity that she’ll always remember and what you’ll find at the end of the hunt would be probably the treasure of your love.

6.  Be The Cook For The Day

Girls like men who cook, less work for them in future!!

7.  Invite Her Friends

Nothing is more important to her than the company of her friends.

8.  Spend A Night Beneath The Starry Sky!

You would be able to see the twinkle of a star in her eyes!!

9.  Build A House Of Sand

Make the house of your dreams with the girl of your dreams!!

10.  Finally A Quiet Walk!

Just walk & talk! Holding hands & sharing the silence, trying to understand the unsaid words!

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Do you think your girl is telling you everything and is being completely honest with you? Think again!!

Here is a list of things that your girlfriend might be hiding from you:

1.  Ex Boyfriends

She would not like to talk about her Ex boyfriend because of the fear of comparison between the past & the present relationship. And also in the fear of that you might think she was the reason for their breakup.

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If you are in constant need of attention that means you have no life-goals and just want someone else to take lead of your life. Respect is something a woman has to earn and vying for attention all the time makes you appear shallow. Your desperation is suffocating for the boyfriend which equally hinders you from blossoming into the woman you are meant to be deep down. A relationship has to be fulfilling, enriching, securing and everything positive. If you feel insecure, lost or scarcity of attention that you have to fight for, there is something wrong with it.

So, here’s how you can stop being clingy and let silence do the emotional healing.

Ask yourself:

Sit in solitude and ask yourself why are you becoming gooey? What is it that bothers you or makes you insecure? Do you fear losing him? Do you fear you can’t get over the memories once he is gone? Do you think there is no other one like him in the whole wide world? Figure out why your precious life seems meaningless without your boyfriend first.

Give him a breather:

He may be in fear to be your only source of life. He has his vulnerabilities too. Why will he be the only one to fill your emotional needs? After all, you have your own life apart from him, your girl squad, your job, shopping etc that can make you feel alive.

Don’t disturb when he is working:

One needs to concentrate while working. Just place yourself in his shoes, would not it be annoying if he pestered you for attention while you are trying to concentrate in an important elsewhere? After all, encouraging each other to achieve better careers has to be the goal of your relationship.

Nurture your hobbies, passion and interests:

If like gardening and have been meaning to grow some seasonal plants in the backyard, go for it. Similarly, if you always wanted to start your fashion blog, just dig it. Remember, he may be lost in the labyrinth of time but your success will stay with you. It may sound mean, but it’s the way of life.

 Find security in yourself:

Because an independent person doesn’t live on the approval of others and a lioness doesn’t concern herself about what sheep think. Go for a makeover, pamper yourself, and remind yourself that you came in the world for a reason. One rule you must follow in life, that is take control of your life and lift others up, this is how people will come to you for emotional support and you will feel secure in yourself helping them out. Be the wise owl!

Don’t be available all the time:

Secure this wisdom with your life. People who you give importance to will never understand you are not FREE, you make yourself AVAILABLE just to see them smile and eventually they take you for granted. Make them miss you to know your true worth.

Don’t get physically intimate all the time:

I know you desperately want to, but getting physically intimate all the time takes away the passion. You don’t have to touch someone to make them love you, it’s not the kiss, it’s about the times you don’t kiss.

Give them their own sweet time:

When your boyfriend is in a bad mood, give their own time to become normal again. Your counsel may not be something that he wanted right then so wait patiently until he comes back to talking term.

Don’t always die for their opinion:

Of course asking opinion from someone makes them feel important and loved but making your life revolve around their opinion is not the way to perpetuate a relationship for long.

Stop trying to control him:

This one applies to your life also. Don’t let him control your life. Even if you are in a relationship, try to envision your life without any boyfriend, understand the self-worth, build yourself, stay glamorous!

These are the ways you can right away stop being clingy and demanding.

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Dear men, have you tried everything, but failed at winning an argument or shall we say any argument with women?

Are you distressed at the thought of next argument brewing up somewhere in her mind ready to blow off?

Are you trying out everything in the book or outside the book of rules to find some way to win, at least once in this lifetime, an argument with your partner?

If the answer to above questions is a clear yes, then do not worry! We have found a few novel ways to help you regain the ground you have been bitterly losing since the beginning of time!

Here are the things to do or ways to follow when in an argument with your girlfriend:

1) Topic Change

As soon as she starts blowing heat, try to change the topic with a superfluous subject like what happened at work or how one of your friend did something funny etc. it just might make her go off balance and might just cool off things! But be careful, if she gets more furious, bring her back to current topic and don’t let her talk about past issues unrelated to current point of disagreement!

2) Relax- NO!

Never ask a girl who is super angry to relax! The moment you utter the word, a thousand volcanoes will burst simultaneously! Just listen to her and instead try to compliment her with as much genuineness and sincerity you can! Not the usual you’re pretty kinds, but something specific based on how much you know her. Watch her calm down!

3) Don’t blame her

No blame games Mister! If she is blaming you for something, it doesn’t mean you have to blame her for her mistakes. Instead, act mature, and try to talk things out without her feeling that you are making her look wrong in the current situation.

4) Agree, but don’t agree!

Sounds complicated? In other words, agree to disagree. Just tell her simply that since you both are adults, you guys can agree to disagree on something tricky out there. If you have a rational girlfriend, she might understand your point of view!

5) Laughter

Oh no, don’t laugh at her, but make her laugh. You know what tickles her funny bone, hit it hard. Laughter makes one let go of high defences and if played your cards correctly, even in the middle of the most hyper argument, you can make your partner laugh.

6) Talk softly

No matter how loud she is shouting, if you talk soft and keep your volume under control, she will come around and soon the argument will convert into a debate. Mind you guys, debates can be won!

7) Don’t lose temper

No matter if she is wrong or how trivial the matter is that is blown out of proportion, decide that you won’t get angry or lose your temper. If you stay calm and composed, she will eventually come around and get tired of her own anger! Once she is calm and has given up, put your point across!

8) Do something wild

Here you have to bring out your creative best! In the middle of a heavy duty argument, do something unusual, out of character. Like sing her favourite song or help her do the dishes. Just something that you don’t do usually and her mind will be diverted. That’s when you can get her to talk sensibly and put your point across.

9) End in bed

Yes, the best thing is to end it with love, warmth and compassion. Make sure you make the move to bring her to love from the point of anger and hatred! It is not easy, but since you know her intimately, you will know her trigger points, use them wisely!

10) Don’t start the argument

It is easier said than done, but here is the secret. If you have accidently initiated a topic that’s going to get her angry, drop it like hot potato and jump to something else. If there is something that has suddenly ignited her anger, politely ask for more time to think about it so you guys can discuss it later! She would have to agree and there won’t be any argument to begin with!

Hope you guys win some points! If there are more ways you have discovered, share with us! Surely many men are looking for a guiding force!

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Public Display of Affection, whether to engage in it or not is a major dilemma faced by couples of the modern era.

With moral policing and wandering eyes following them everywhere, a couple really needs to be strong when it comes to retaliation of the searching eyes.

Nevertheless, many couples do practice PDA which, at times, makes other people around uncomfortable.

If you are single and witness one such activity in public, there are certain thoughts that are bound to cross your mind. Here is a list of those few notions –

“Are they allowed to do that?”

You wonder if PDA is legal

Since many people consider PDA unethical, judging by the Indian culture, this is usually the first deliberation that comes to you naturally.

“What more can they do?”

You wonder if they can up the stakes of their affection display

It might be just a hug or a peck on the cheek, but sometimes, you just want to see how ballsy the couple is and whether or not they can take it up a notch.

“Can I discreetly get a picture?”

You think if it is possible for you to click their picture discreetly

The thought of getting a quick picture of the couple showing affection to one another can be freakishly weird…and not to mention risky. If the thought crosses your mind, control the urge.

“Somebody kill me”

Watching public display of affection brings back memories

When you are single (or have had a failed relationship), watching a couple together can bring back memories. Though you may not oppose their act, you just want them to stop.

“Yeah…I could take him”

You begin to think if it’s possible for you beat the guy via physical contact

One such thought crosses your mind when you have a scornful personality. If the girl is pretty, you tend to compare her with the guy’s personality and eventually this thought runs across.

“If I take him down, would she go out with me?”

You even go to lengths thinking if the girl would pick you ahead of the guy

This is the next stage of the thought process of the contemptuous attitude. You don’t only want to embarrass the man, but want to win the girl’s heart, too. In the real world, that will never happen.

“What does she see in him?”

You see the male as physically inferior to the woman in regards with appearance

This is usually the ‘langoor ke haath mein angoor’ sort of situation. You judge both personalities and eventually come to terms that the girl is too good to be with the guy.

“I’m gonna die alone”

The thought of dying alone freaks you out

This does not insinuate lost hope, but just a momentary lapse of judgement. Singlehood is something that you are tired of and the thought of being alone for the rest of your life creeps you out.

“Where are the moral police?”

You hope for the moral police to show up

The modern times is no stranger to moral policing and you just wonder if the couple would get beat up if a group of moral police shows up.

“Wish their parents see this”

You even hope the couple’s parents catch them in the act

This is where the sadist part inside you takes over. The PDA apparently has become so torturous that you wish the couple’s parents or a relative catches them in the act and creates a ruckus.

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