Broken heart – Most of us have fallen in love and have got our hearts broken at some point in our lives.

There is no doubt that getting your heart broken is a terrible feeling and given a choice, none of us would like to be in that situation. But, if you do get yourself caught in such a situation, you must find a way to deal with it.

Pondering over the situation and what the other person did to you, will only lead you towards depression. Youcannotundo something that happened in the past but you can surely not let that affect your present in a negative way.

Here are 5 effective ways to get over a broken heart:

Broken heart – 

1. Spend more time at work

While people go on vacations or mini-getaways to take a break from work, work can actually be very therapeutic when you are going through a personal problem. After putting all your energies in work, you will have no time to dwell on your personal issues. Working more does not necessarily mean spending extra hours in the office. You can take up a part-time job or engage in something that makes you happy.

2. Meet new people

A lot of people make the dangerous mistake of shutting themselves off from the world after they have had a break-up. That only ends up increasing your problems. Getting isolated from the world will put you in a far more dark space. Instead of looking some time alone, you must go out and meet some new people. You do not have to necessarily look for a romantic partner; just meeting new people will bring a fresh and vibrant energy in your life.

3. Spend time with your parents

As cliché as it may sound, your parents are your best friends. They will be with you through thin and thin and will love you regardless of the mistakes and blunders you commit in life. You must not hide anything from them and should open up about your problems. As they have seen a great deal of life, they will be able to give you much better advice than your friends.

4. Travel

Travelling does not only give you an opportunity to explore new places, it opens your eyes to different cultures, beliefs and world-view. It will transport you to a different world altogether and broaden your understanding of the world. If you want to escape from your present surroundings, then you might as well do something that is productive.

5. Take a break from social media

Instead of avoiding your friends and family members, take a break from social media and interact with people on a personal level. Social media is a great tool to meet and reconnect with friends but the experience of talking to a friend over a cup of coffee is something that cannot be replicated.

Broken heart – A bad relationship experience should not make you bitter about love. In fact, you could remember the lessons you learnt from it, so that you do not repeat these mistakes in the future. Heal your broken heart and find love again.

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Sad Songs – Love is not always bed of roses.

There are many discernments life tasks us with when it comes to choosing the perfect partner. In college, however, we are still in our tender years so oscillate between many options and finally settle down for something that we should not have in the first place.

We end up getting our heart broken in the bargain but there is nothing much one could do about it apart from whiling away some time alone listening to sad songs, wallowing around old memories, read ’10 ways to beat your break-up woes’ and listen to some sad songs.

No, we are not suggesting the ones from the Mukesh’s time, they will look pre-historic to you now, obviously, so if you are really looking to shed a tear cuz’ you are missing him, these are the sad songs from Bollywood that will give your heart some requisite warmth.

1. Tanhayi, Dil Chahta Hai:

Dil Chahta Hai was a movie directed by Farhan Akhtar and starred by Saif Ali Khan, Amir Khan and Akshay Kumar. The story revolved around the lives of three young men and their tryst with the matters of heart. This song is a famous ear-worm from the movie, a sad number.

2. O Priya O Priya, Kahin Pyar Na Ho Jaye:

Well, the lyrics are a tad done to death clichéd but you will resonate with the song completely if your love is going away and you can’t be upfront about your emotions before them. This movie was starred by Rani Mukherjee and Salman Khan.

3. Naraz Savera, Sangharsh:

I am getting goosebumps at the merest mention of the song’s name. The movie was an adaptation from the Silence of the Lamb and starred by Akshay Kumar with Priety Zinta. This song has an arresting strangeness about it, it depicts someone’s longing to be free, to meet life again.

4. Tujhe Bhula Diya, Anjana Anjanee:

The film was starred by Priyanka Chopra and Ranbeer Kapoor and the son became quite famous between the youngsters after its release. The song is a gooey sad number and of course it will mend your broken heart all right. Give it a shot.

5. Zinda, Lootera:

A soulful rendition from the Amit Trivedi club, this number is for those who overthink. This song has a captivating charm and definitely not for the shallow-witted ones having been overlapped with astute aesthetics. ‘Zinda hoon main. Kafi hai” –the lyrics speak volumes.

6. Pal Bhar Theher Jao, Tamasha:

This song is our personal favorite. We still marvel at how adeptly the lyricist weaved the pain of a broken heart in words like a true wordsmith. ‘Bin Bole Batein Tumse Karu, Agar Tum Sath Ho’ , Oh my! such heightened emotions in simplest of words.

So, these are the sad songs that you completely reckon to if you have a broken heart.

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