You two were inseparable; you two were two “do jism ek jaan”!

Yes I am talking about you and your bestie.

But suddenly, your bestie announces to you, rather ceremoniously, that she is in a relationship! She found a boyfriend. You are happy, you are sad, you are happy sad!

You always assumed that nothing is ever going to come in between you and your bestie, but this new found thing made you a third wheel!

And here are 10 most prominent things that you go through when your bestie has a boyfriend and you don’t! I am sorry for rubbing it in! I really am!

1. Your “Us Time” suddenly reduces to “Me Time” and you do not understand what to do with it! You can watch another season of “FRIENDS” maybe!

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Reaching the certain age of maturity, when half-hearted friendships are treated with disarray by us and we are on a spree of trimming the friends fat, we still keep these 10 kinds of friends because they are as essential as baking powder for a cake. Here’s giving the 10 examples you will completely agree with!

The opinionated one:

There is always a wise owl in your life and he is ready with life opinions of all sorts just when you need it. His wisdoms are old as the oak tree and he is the person you always turn to for seeing life from a different perspective. He reads Derrida, Foucault and Khalil Gibran for constant supply of wisdom.

The drinking buddy:

Well, every Barney Stinson needs a Ted Mosby, the point blank perfect wingman who not only is up for drinking even middle of the night but always helps you pick up hot girls at the pub with his wit and eloquence.

The Movie Buff:

We should all have that one friend who is an ardent devourer of movies with subtitles. Not only Bollywood movies but he will swear by the likes of Pedro Almodovar, Martin Scorcese, Majid Majidi, Christopher Nolan, Woody Allen and Wes Anderson, so that you can always turn to him for movie recommendation and borrow from his knowledge to impress girls.

The Fashion Fanatic:

The fashion junkie will be your unofficial shopping consultant who will know what suits you the best. He keeps and you updated on the runway fashion trends. He also saves you from fashion faux pas in the events by his valuable suggestions on your dressing.

The Rebel:

The Rebel Friend is always on the boil. His life thrives around questions and he is suspicious about everything happening around him. He teaches you to say NO, not to accept things and people as they come and question everything. He also helps you build your own reasoning power. That’s that.

The patient listener:

He is the male agony aunt who listens, that is to say absorbs all your rants. They are so solicitous than sometimes you think they should replace your parents in your life. They will always beam with the sympathetic smile just when you need it.

The Briny One:

Of course, as humans we run out of professional ideas sometime and need intellectual stimulation. Then there’s this friend who is a sucker for Economic Times and Sensex news, comes to your immediate rescue and builds your courage up again with their suggestion.

The Funny One:

He inhales life and exhales humour. Sense of humour is a way of life for him and he is the absolute joker in your group. You will never have a dull moment when he is around and presence of such people is always coveted in a party. He is witty AF and you can barely insult them!

The Encyclopaedia:

He is the walking talking encyclopaedia who you can actually call while from the hot seat of ‘Kaun Banega Crorepati’ for help.

The Poet:

He is T.S Eliott, Goethe, Lord Byron, Wordsworth, Haribansh Rai Bachhan, Rabindranath Tagore, Pablo Neruda rolled into one whose poetries restore your faith in life and humankind. Enough said.

These are the 10 types of friends who are like breath of fresh air in your life.

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Reasons Why Dogs Are Best Friends : There are couple of reasons why dogs are considered to be man’s best-friend. IF you’ve adopted any dog in your LiFe, then you’ll nod your head “yes” and will relate to everything that’s mentioned below.

Undoubtedly, to have a relationship with dog is the most safest & beautiful thing ever. Dogs are truly awesome and great friends. I would say “Best-friends.” You know; dogs can’t communicate using words but that doesn’t mean they don’t communicate, at all. IF you have a dog, then I’ll assume that you know “how” dogs communicate with humans. One thing about ‘em is, they’re considered to be man’s best-friend.

While growing up; you might’ve come across this saying, right? Ever wondered why they are considered to be BF? Yeah I know, you’ll say, it’s all because they’re good to you, they understand your emotions, they give you reasons to love, and many more.

You know what; you’re certainly right.

Here I’ve listed answers shared by Redditors where they explained Reasons Why Dogs Are Best Friends for LiFe.

Reasons Why Dogs Are Best Friends : 

1. My puppy is my best friend because I have Autism and depression. She helps me get out and play with her along with walking her. She also lets me hug her and licks my face when I am beginning to have a meltdown.
2. I work from home, so I’m with my dog pretty constantly minus the afternoon(s) each week I take her to daycare so she can romp around with other dogs. I’m pretty sure she thinks I’m crazy, but she loves me unconditionally – and I feel the same way about her. I honestly can’t pinpoint a specific reason why she’s my best friend, but she just is. She’s my little buddy, and I’m pretty sure I’d be lost without her little cute face tilting to the side that almost certainly means “human, you are batshit insane – you realize that, right?”
3. Sunny is my best friend, companion, and so on – she’s everything. I think the biggest reason is that dogs really do love unconditionally. She is always there for me, no matter what. At the end of those kinds of days where everything’s gone wrong, it feels like the entire world is against me and I’m all alone – Sunny is there, waggling and dancing with happiness just to see me and eager for cuddles. I can alwayscount on my dog, and she’s the most important thing in my world.
4. My dogs have always been my best friends because they’re soft, friendly and lovable. They’re just perfect companions because they make you feel good. Plus, Sander has really helped me get out of the house since graduating college, since we go on walks and to the dog park, so I’m not cooping myself up. Taking care of him helps me stay motivated to take care of myself as well.
5. I got my dog 3 years ago off Kijiji (Canadian Craigslist) off an ad saying “Need puppy gone, going on vacation”. At that time, I wasn’t prepared to get a dog what so ever. Always wanted one but wasn’t exactly ready for it. As soon as I saw the ad, I went to my dad and told him we need to adopt this dog. After a 1 hour debate/argument, I convinced him and we went to get the dog. I contacted the seller and she was asking 400$ for the dog but I ended up paying 50$ for him. Picked him up at the back of a hockey arena at 10pm… Shadiest meet up of my life but the best moment of my life as well because I got my best friend. Been a little over 3 years now since we got him, still don’t know for sure what breed he is but we’re guessing it’s an Airedale Terrier and Lab mix. Regardless of that, he’s been by my side for the last 3 years. Everyone that has met him absolutely loves him, energetic when I’m energetic, lazy whenever I’m lazy and sleeps on my bed every night even if I’m not home. Best part of that is going to bed with a huge wet spot or wet pillow because he was licking at it… Even though he can be a pain in the ass, he’s my best friend.
6. I came across this video on Reddit and it really touched my heart. I’m sure that it’s going to melt your heart as well.

This sums up why dogs are best-friends.

7. My dog has helped me a lot in my life and he has always been there to motivate me with his cute antics. I don’t have friends but I have a best friend and that’s roco.

Reasons Why Dogs Are Best Friends : Why do you think a dog is man’s best-friend? Let us know in the comment section below.

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Friends make life easier!

According to a survey, on an average a friendship lasts only seven years, but obviously there are exceptions to the rule and some last an entire lifetime! It takes a lot to build a friendship, but it can be broken in no time if you’re not careful.

If you want to keep your best friend in your life forever, don’t do the following things, ever!

1) Lying

Let’s accept we all lie at some point or the other for whatever reasons despite being taught since childhood to always say the truth. However, if you want to be with your best friend, lying is a big no-no!

2) Gossiping

Don’t ever gossip about your best friend behind his/her back. If you’re not happy about something they do, talk to them, but don’t make fun of them. You don’t want that happening to you, do you?

3) Sharing Secrets

Secrets are to be held on to and not to be shared! If your friend has shared their secret with you, keep it with you or else say buh-bye to your best friend in no time!

4) Receiving, But Not Giving

The world is a two way street! For any relation to work, a balanced give and take is required. If you are using a friend only to receive favours and gifts and what not without giving back in any manner, it is not possible for friendship to survive!

5) Not Happy For Them

You want your friends to be happy for you when you achieve something or when you have happy days. Same goes for your friend too. If you’re not happy for them during their moments of glory, don’t expect them to keep such negative friends around them.

6) Not Around During Hour of Need

You have to be around your friend when he/she needs you the most. In times of need, misery or sadness, we all seek our friends. If you’re only available to party and have fun, then it is not friendship, but a comfortable acquaintanceship!

7) No Sincerity

Friendship thrives on sincerity guys! Everyone wants a sincere, genuine dependable friend and if you’re not showing these traits, anyone will be able to look through you and then nothing can save your friendship.

8) Not Meeting Frequently

Okay, we all are busy in our lives, but then like everything else, friendship also needs time and commitment. If you’re using social media as your best hangout joint instead of meeting your best friends in real life, then you’re doing something absolutely wrong!

9) Too Much of Negativity

If your persona is negative, that is you live in self-pity and are always negative about almost everything happening in and around your life, trust us, no friend is going to stick around you for a long time. Have positive thoughts and spread positivity to attract people and make your friends die to be with you!

10) Conflicts Without Communication

Every relation has its own share of conflicts and disagreements. What matters is how you resolve them. Communication is the best answer. Instead of sulking and staying angry, just talk to your buddy and resolve matters.

Friends are a gift! Care for them and maintain them and they will make your life fulfilling and full of life!

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