Men In Abusive Relationship – When it comes to abusive relationships, some people always think that girls are the only victims in it. But, the recent Reddit post will certainly prove them wrong as it opens up about the other side of coin.

Men on Reddit opened up about their abusive GF who made their LIFE hell. They even revealed how they bravely escaped the relationship.

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1. Literally an “Are you in an unhealthy relationship?” poster in my office building. I walked by it every day, and eventually took it seriously.
2. I asked her to stop. She told me she has the right to beat me. I said that was it. Next morning, she started again. She was arrested and took a plea deal. I never looked back.
3. Was with a girl that turned out to be a hardcore alcoholic, and wasn’t even 21. Also did cocaine and pills. Would try and beat the fuck out of me when drunk. Was also emotionally abusive. She actually broke up with me because I was lame and complained when I found out she lied about being at parties and shit. She tried to get back with me and fucking stalked me, sought out my family members in public and harassed them. Waited in the parking lot for me to get out of the gym. It was fucking weird. I eventually moved away.
4. She was abusive of me financially. I stopped talking to her and moved out.
5. She was mentally ill and threatened suicide often, freaking out of I left her alone more than an hour. she was a student and I worked 9-5, so these freak outs were often, and if I was in a meeting the poor receptionist would get an earful. I carefully planned my exit for months and waited until she was out of town with family and did a midnight move.
6. I said I don’t want to be in a relationship where you hate me.
7. Finally accepted the help of my best friend who got me to break up with her.
8. Cut them off with the support of friends who also noticed the toxicity.
9. I moved states and blocked her on everything. After a few months she stopped trying to contact me.
10. I just had some really spectacular friends that saw I was in a lot of emotional pain and guided me in the right direction. I broke up with her over the phone, which some may think is disrespectful, but you know what? I think that’s all the respect she deserved from me.
11. It took her parents confronting me and telling me I need to get out. They saw how she treated me and politely suggested maybe I should break up with her. They were awesome people, and if it weren’t for their advice my young, dumb ass likely wouldn’t have gotten out.
12. I just told her I was done. Well, I had her friend tell her. She threatened to kill herself, and followed me around for a couple months. It was a shitty relationship.
13. Left the country.
14. It was rough, I started to distance myself from my friends and even family because she was manipulating me; just recently I’ve finally broke out of that relationship once and for all. I just cut her off cold turkey and watched her plead for me back, but was adamant on our break up. Now I have someone who’s a trillion times better to me :⁾
15. Broke up with her and told her how she was a really toxic person in my life, it was just before summer too, so the timing was perfect.

Men In Abusive Relationship – In the end, no matter what who you are, if you are in an abusive relationship and it gets to that point where you just can’t take it anymore, then leaving is certainly is the right thing to do.

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People In Abusive Relationship – It is not a secret that even today; many people decide to stay in a relationship that’s abusive. They decide not to leave a relationship because they’re blindly in love with their partner and they think that their partner will change. Plus, some stay because they feel they can’t go anywhere and no one will accept them.

There are many people who ditch their abusive relationship and decide to live a LIFE that doesn’t include any abuse. On the other end, there are some who decide to stay, no matter what happens.

On Reddit, there are many who revealed why they decided to stay in an abusive relationship.

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1. I stayed because I felt stuck. She was abusive in every way. And said she would tell the cops I abuse her. Show up at my house etc. Stalk my grandpa (who was sick with cancer) and things. I felt like I just had to stay in to prevent anything from blowing up.
2. Because I was sticking through my promises.
3. Because I was afraid of being alone. I thought I was happier with him and didn’t realize that I was slowly spiraling into a toxic relationship.
4. Because I was terrified of becoming homeless.
5. I needed the money.
6. I didn’t think I was good enough for anyone else. I felt lucky to have him, even if he was very harsh with me, I figured I had to be grateful that he wanted me.
7. I stayed for awhile because I was drugged out and convinced I was in love with him, I knew in the back of my mind that what he was doing wasn’t normal but I stuck with him for awhile until he went too far and I wanted to live without constantly being afraid.
8. I stayed with him because we were engaged and I thought he wanted to get married for the same reasons that I did but that wasn’t the case.
9. I stayed with him because I thought it was what I was supposed to do since I was in love with him. Later, we broke up and got back together many times. Finally I decided I was done.
10. I was in an emotionally abusive relationship and stayed several years. I kept pushing for him to get treatment, go to therapy, see a psychiatrist and he refused, until he realized that his problems were hurting his ability to work. He was diagnosed with a mental illness and started taking medication. He was completely transformed, became sweet, loving, and supportive. Until he stopped seeing a therapist. Medication alone is helpful only to some degree. Some of his abusive qualities returned and I realized that this is something I would have to live with for the rest of my life if I stay. So I left.
11. It’s been my experience that people rarely change, and it usually requires a profound life-altering event for it to happen.
12. Because she was really attractive.
13. Fear of change.

People In Abusive Relationship – No one deserves to stay in an abusive relationship. Whether you’re a male or a female, abusive relationship where your partner keeps on hurting you and treats you like nothing, is something that should be left behind. Would you like to add some points on “why a person shouldn’t stay in an abusive relationship?”

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