Intelligent and strong people do not want to waste time in suffering and survive around raising problems. The reason is when one starts to suffer from problems believing it is as a destiny this will never help them to move further or progress in life. So, invest time in solving problems instead of making a habit of surviving to suffer.
Progress and mental strength are inter-related; so taking any hard or tough times, it may be self-created or may be created by any means will never build rather destruct. Hereby some of the basic ways to invest time in reducing problems including denying to further suffer are as follows:
Why is the problem?
Problems are always interfering in all aspects of life, few are able to overcome while few retain wondering about will happen instead of thinking about the solutions. In order to get rid of the miserable times, it is important to trace the kind of issues. Tracing from the initial to the cause and the upcoming should always be clear to the mind.
A person with a clear image of the entire issue will help in finding a better solution. Once stop imagining the cause and result, the only thing one has to suffer long during hard times.
Is it self created or not?
Invest time for solving issues, whenever there is an opportunity. It may be a common or rare issue in life but as it is a main reason for the obstructions, so learn about it perhaps, it is self-created or suddenly fallen in an unwanted situation. If it is a matter of love and marriage then the complication may be self-created; when forcible pulled into a complication arising in the workplace.
In both the situation, the reason may be different while solution is necessary to overcome and lead to progress.
Is it temporary or long term?
Remember, self-created problems are easy to overcome when the intention and intelligence to solve works together. It is necessary to come out from such conditions or else a person may be stuck as well feel manipulated at one stage or other.
Long term, needs more patients when few are solved over time which demands good mental strength and intelligence to handle problems carefully. So, depending on both temporary or long term the issues should be cleared off.
What should you do?
Finally, after the entire observation, it becomes important to know that either a person will survive like a suffer or leader. One can wait for a good time to come without doing anything, it will place them to no better position. But once, the time invests in inclined to solving it will ensure a faster relief to the mind from unwanted thoughts.
Being a problem solver or trying to solve will enable me to invest time in success or progress in life building confidence and grooming to become a stronger person. Deal with the reality and handle any hard times at any stage!