Friends are our second family after our real family!

The best buddies, the partners in crime, the emotional pillow to snuggle on in times of need and what not! However, only a few friendships survive the test of time and most wither away due to circumstances, personal priorities and unavoidable situations of life.

Can you trust them?

Yes you can, but for how long and how many of them, no one can say! That is why even in friendships, there should be a line drawn when it comes to sharing your intimate details. These details, especially of a sexual nature may initially sound fun or totally harmless, but in the long run they might turn to be your worst nightmares.

Let me explain, in detail, the pitfalls of sharing your sexual secrets with your friends:

1) You Become An Easy Gossip Target

Unless it is your very close friend or buddy, and sometimes not even them, sharing your sexual life is only going to become part of the gossip machine! Sex is something that is still taboo in our country and for good or bad, it is still one of the most talked about things even if in hush-hush tones. To avoid being the centre of attraction for what you did inside a closed room, it is better to leave it there only!

2) You Are Providing Object Of Fun Served On The Plate

Not all your friends are going to help you with suggestions about how to improve your sex-life or solve your sex-related issues, but for sure it is going to be a topic of immense interest for them. No wonder, you’ll soon be an object of fun behind your back for people in your circle and even outside! You never know, they would start sharing dirty jokes with your name on them.

3) Ridiculed For Something That The Whole World Does

Opening about your sexual activities also makes you an easy target of fun and ridicule. Not only it does a character assassination, it also paints a biased and distorted image of you in front of the whole world. Sex, instead of becoming an act of pleasure, becomes a torture when you’re being targeted for something that everyone does, but hardly share!

4) Blackmail Comes Easy Your Way

This is true especially for girls who trust their friends way too much by sharing intimate and explicit details about their sex life, just to boast about it or to get an opinion. Such friends might take advantage by blackmailing about leaking that information or any texts or pictures that you may have shared. The social stigma associated with it is very hard to ignore or to live with given how the society functions in our country. It may be an orthodox way of thinking, but one can’t change the thinking of an entire society overnight, so it is better to mend your own ways!

5) Job Hazards

Your friends at work or otherwise who are privy to such intimate details, might use is against you. Also, if employers come to know of this, it can adversely affect your job, as the employers may not trust you with keeping secrets. Also, with the advancement in technology, whatever you text or share online, will always remain available for those trying to access it! Nothing is deleted permanently, ever!

6) Your Social Standing Is Affected Adversly

Societal pressures can make it difficult not only for you, but also for your family as well. Unless you and your entire family is immune to such things, and that is a big exception, such secrets coming out in public can literally cause a lot of embarrassment and have an impact on your relations in and out of the family.

Having sex related discussions are harmless, but when it comes to sharing your sex-life, it is advisable to be very careful!

Why to spoil the fun and make sex difficult?

Keep it to yourself and your partner!

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Bragging about sex dates back to the time of sex’s origin probably. We are always driven towards sharing our stories about new sex positions we have tried last night, of course to a closest pal. We also derive pride from telling our enduring capacity. You will see boys bragging about their last one night stand and hooking up with the hottest women around a lot. They will be seen sharing tips over how they made the cut. But then, there is a thin line between sounding fun and cheesy. Women, on the contrary, will be seen getting away with laughing about a blowjob-gone-bad. That’s the way it rolls.

In short, sex brags are perpetuating and omnipresent since time immemorial. Talking about sex is fun and sassy to everyone, regardless of gender. But we side eye a man a lot and he goes under character examination if he brags about sex a lot and obviously, that doesn’t extend to women. No body likes a man to peacock about his sex life because it gives us creeps!

We will here justify men talking about sex antagonizing with what the headline suggests. We rather find them to be poor chaps who have weigh the situation a lot before baring his heart. Come on, admit it, talking about sex is fairly rejuvenating and the locker-room conversations about how desperately a man wants to get laid spell fresh life in his confidence. It’s really frustrating for a man who has high sex drive to not talk about sex at all, or forced to shy away from talking about it. ‘A male virgin’ is a punchline in itself and their dismal sex lives will be a laughing stock to people more often than not.

Women, in the same light are judged way too much to talk about their sex lives. Even there are memes likening pussies with roast beef shaming the women who are unapologetic about having high sex drive. Roast beef because men feel that having too much sex makes women loose down there. Does it really seem slutty for a woman to have sex with multiple men? that question is a soaring one. To some of us though, it is really refreshing to hear a woman talking nonchalantly about her crazy and superfun sex life. It gives always a guilty pleasure to go against the norms, to tell you.

But then, men sometimes go overboard while bragging about their sex lives too. For example, they would tell you in a weekend party that they have banged a woman who was a cross between Emma Roberts and Emma Stone. Or they will also brag about banging those Victoria’s Secret supermodel wannabes. We buy those lies with straight face because men are too exhausted with their daily toils and if not sex, spinning a yarn about it rids them of the professional fatigue. Probably, men lie in order to look good but there should be a line drawn in the sand.

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So guys!

You tell your friends everything about your relationship?

You share the Bedroom Secrets with your closest ones! Smallest to the extent of colours of heaven last  time you visited it? Do you?

How often do you talk about sex with your pals?

Do you discuss the favourite positions and pleasure points of the players involved?

Do you rate your sexual escapades with your partner, in front of your friends?

If your answers are yes to all, then I would say, enjoy mate, you sure love your friends way too much!

But you know what they say . . . love them all but trust none!

No matter how close you are to a friend, it’s a bad idea to share all the details of your relationship with your partner.

For a woman, telling the girls about the man’s footlong, or how he takes his time during foreplay is a bad idea.

For a man, sizing up your girlfriend’s cups to boast in front of your dude mates is a foul play!

Guess what? Your friends will want to have a taste of the pleasures you experience with your partner, and where does this lead?

Every woman wishes for a man who takes his time between the sheets. No woman wants a one-minute man who will rush, come quickly and leave her high and dry. Every man wants a girl who has something worth his time between the sheets!

So when you are painting a super luscious picture of the meal you are having, you are inviting them over for dinner too – a dinner that you won’t be attending!

And yes, we are not bringing the commitment issues in the picture here! That is a different subject all together and we are saving it for some other time!

Another scenario could be, if at all, you are NOT satisfied in bed with your partner, and you keep cribbing about it to your friends, it may come across, as if you are fishing for sympathy and sex as the consolation! Are you?

Also, it absolutely, totally disrespectful of your partner if you dish them out to your friends in your casual conversations! Would you feel good if they talk about your sizes and favourite positions so openly in a group, or to anybody for that matter?

If your partner doesn’t like you doing it, and finds out from a friend that you are actually messing it up, just imagine, what disaster your relationship would land in!

Now, it’s absolutely your call how you show and how much you show!

Your love life and Bedroom Secrets are the precious possessions of your relationship meant for you both!

It’s not a free show for all to get some nasty entertainment out of it!

Keep it like that!

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