Breezing – A generation that is so dislodged from patience, will enjoy the emotional highs and lows, take risks, sign up for heartbreaks, and end up frustrated.

The byzantine traits of modern day dating leading an entire generation astray and we sit here as mute spectators. Like you, I too am done with it.

Wait, this doesn’t stop here, after meeting a guy you apparently ‘like’ or bumped into in an online dating app only to be ‘ghosted’ or ‘catfished’ later is none too tranquil.

We can parade you with names of some more dating trends such as ‘love bombing’ and ‘stealthing’ that infuse life into the obnoxious predicaments in the aftermath.

Even not being done with one, we get sucked into another chaos and it takes myriad heartbreaks to learn to use that chaos as ladder. So we are short of logic as to what to do next? To put a complete pause on dating or keep tossing the heart for takers?

It involves risk, all sorts of dating for that matter. You don’t understand the internet dating lingo, the terminologies, you are outcast but when you start to indulge, run after hedonistic pleasure, you are wrung dry of your sanity.

Well, we have some good news waiting round the corner for you still. All hail the lord! So, if you have impeccably high standards and unapologetic about it, here are some easy-peasy tips for smooth sailing into the world of mind games and playing hard to get, ‘Breezing’ stands distinguished with its own merits.

What is Breezing?

While ghosting is abruptly ceasing to communicate with the person you were apparently dating online, catfishing is using fake pictures to hide their true identity, Breezing is stopping to care. No, it’s not how you think, it is not caring about the stereotypes, like a man would message first or make the first move. Or, that is to say, sticking to a rulebook as to how to talk to people. It’s about letting yourself float along the flow and being yourself.

Things that you need to do:

You need to relax and yet fidget. You can do a lot of things without doing anything which is the main draw here. Just that, the rules have to be ruled out first.

If you like a guy and want to text him first, you can go ahead and do that. Don’t come across as too strong or too passionate, just behave in a cool way.

There is nothing more fun than playing mind games because it leaves you anxious and hence wanting to hone your skills. Your weaponry should be living in the moment. Yes, you heard it right.

This is called Breezing dating – Let the unimportant things go and focus on the important ones. If you two are likely to match, you will.

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Gone are the days when lovers used to be each other’s mainstay for years together, may be until eternity. Young generation today are spoilt for choices amid the rising popularity of social media and is quite repelled to the idea of trying to correct each other’s flaws, the instead choose to switch over a better potential interest through Facebook, Tinder, Whatsapp no matter how limited information they have about each other’s lives. In fact, surfing Tinder has become a recreational activity for the young guns after their daily toils. So whether a man claims himself to be ‘Sapiosexual’ or ‘Fitness/Gym freak’ , women are definitely digging them for transitory happiness.

It is the realm of virtual that is outwitting the real and we don’t bat an eyelid. Metaphorically, it’s like a dog peeing and passing on something they are tired of and that’s that.

People who still hold on to the old-school romanticism, have utter contempt for this morale- wrecking practise which trims our chances to find the everlasting love. We also roll our eyes at the fact how people are losing their mind over this one swipe and forgetting everything that love once stood for. The particular dating app is manipulative where people are rated by the merits of their appearance. In that virtual jungle, people having a precision of looking better and on the prowl for fast-paced association showing nostalgia the door.

Seems like we are well past the time when dating someone would make our parents to weigh each other’s marital compatibility and the same parents frowning upon dating if we haven’t reached a certain ‘age’ at that very point of time. Of course, today’s generation is constantly in the pursuit of trying to subscribe to the ‘benchmark’ lifestyle standards for ‘hooking up’ for a just few days!

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