Many parts of the country perform the rituals when the groom kidnaps or runs away with his bride. It is an old tradition, or sometimes they run, get married, and return back for the consent of their parents. Different countries vary in culture related to marriages but elopements of the bride with the groom are a fun ritual that the society enjoys. In other words, the bride kidnaps their grooms before marriage and takes her to his location.

The Philippines is the country where the fun of being eloped is experienced by the girl and the boy. Mostly at the night, the girl runs away with her man with who she decides to spend her life. No, doubt none of the parents will like to see their daughter running away, the first thing that grabs their mind is about the kind and nature of the boy who took her away.

This ritual before marriage is termed as “Tapan” from the Filipino culture, it is one of the ancient practices that still continues among them.

In India, it is in the northeastern part of the country, Manipur who practices the elopement marriage culture. Even in modern times, about 90 percent of the Manipuri follow the rituals of kidnapping or eloping with their mate with her consent to spend life together. It is known as “Nupi-Chenba”, and at the age of the marriage, both genders are free to perform the practices. This traditional culture to run before marriages ensures that they are in love with each other and want to get married.

Indonesia also has the ritual of kidnapping the bride before their marriage takes place and it is known as Kawin Lari. It is a rare practice when the parents of both bride and groom do not allow them to get married to each other.

But sometimes it worsens if the groom is not convinced

Kidnapping has always been a crime rather than a tradition, but as days have overcome the rituals of bride kidnapping are customized to be fun instead of establishing it as a crime in many countries. The main purpose of the men and women is to get married and so it is a part of their tradition that couples take the consent of their parents after they both agree to get married.

Countries like Kyrgyzstan have the practice of forcibly dragging or take away women to their place. His family members continuously pressurize her unless she says yes to marry the person. Generally, forcing a girl to get married to a man is his aim, she is not released until married unless she says yes to the marriages. It is has been from the ancient times when the men would pull her woman on the horse and flee away. 

The practice is less as a showcase of love to their partner more likely to show off the masculinity to society.  Perhaps a woman does not agree to marry him she will be at the gunpoint. Though it is illegal no one is penalized or accused by the government.

Some rituals from different countries before marriages are signs of freedom to choose their partner while few are highly depressing and painful that the feminine have to suffer life long.

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Thoughts On Arranged Marriage – There are still many people out there, who are having arranged marriage.

There’s certainly nothing wrong about it.

You know, there are so many people who are living happily. Yeah, some experienced heart-break as well. But c’mon, it happens in love marriages as well, right? In the end, it all depends on the “FOREVER PERSON” that you’re choosing.

On Reddit, some people shared how their “arranged marriage” turned out to be – Keep reading.

Thoughts On Arranged Marriage – 

1. I am 27 my wife is 26 we are both doctors and we had an arranged marriage. I may be biased but I think at least for me this has worked out better. I had many social issues and a really low self worth. I got matched to a really lively girl. I panicked when it started and I nearly ended the engagement because I thought we were so different how this could ever work. What I was not expecting was how much I would fall in love with her. She awakened my sleeping lively side. Now our life is looking up as I just got a residency and I tend to think that is due to the luck brought to me by her.
2. My parents had an arranged marriage; they get along great, they rarely disagree, and I expect myself to go into an arranged marriage, too.
3. We are in an arranged marriage and have been happily married for the last seven years. It was definitely scary at first but both of our parents supported us a lot. What made it stronger was that we both shared a strong common base, being our faith and the way we grew up.
4. I had one. Divorced. Never again.
5. Been arranged married since ’95 and going strong ever since. Love my wife and will always love her.Bottom of Form
6. Best decision I ever made, and, yes, one of the scariest. Brought up Hindu in the West. Parents put ad in the paper (hinting at how old I am) Fifteen minutes of actual face to face time before the wedding. That was 20 years and 3 kids ago. She is my rock.
7. From Turkish living in Germany and getting arranged with girls from Turkey it is really random and a matter of luck.
8. I had an arranged marriage at the age of 16…it was horrible, everything about him was horrible. My parents didn’t care, obviously I got a divorce but with great difficulty at age 24. Glad I am not with him anymore but sad over the years I lost and the hardship that I had to go through.
9. Arranged marriage here, Been 16 years and 4 beautiful children later and were falling in love deeper every year. She is my auntie’s daughter.

Some people shared about their parents who had an arranged marriage.

10. My parents are Indian and have been married for nearly 30 years. I’m really surprised that my mom married my dad because he was some villager who had nothing going for him at the time, while she is educated and grew up in a semi wealthy family.
11. My parents are in an arranged marriage. Lots of fighting due to in-laws occurred and now they just find anything to fight about. They’ve gotten better but I had times when I’d wish they just divorced.
12. My parents are in an arranged marriage and they only just celebrated their 22nd anniversary. They don’t exactly like each other; Its as if they’re being forced to live.

Thoughts On Arranged Marriage – This was all about it. Do you have any story to add? Comment below.

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Many love stories of some celebs have tragic endings.

Many celebs after their heart breaks didn’t dare to fall in with and left on fate to decide about their love life.

Some of them never married after their failed love and some simply settled for arrange marriage. And these celebs also restored the faith in arrange marriages.

Click on the slider to know about the celebs who settled for arrange marriages and not love marriage after their break up.

1. Shahid Kapoor

Shahid Kapoor recently tied knot to Mira in a grand affair. After his failed love life he thought for settling down with Mira. Shahid was deeply madly in love with Kareena Kapoor. But due to some issues they had to split. This apparently left Shahid heartbroken and now he has sought solace in the arms of Mira.

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