The entire foundation of love is based on trust!

In the initial days of a developing relationship, one spends most of the time knowing and understanding their partner, but as love deepens the urge to be 100% sure that your partner is not cheating or keeping secrets from you takes a high.

For a woman it is even more crucial to ascertain the integrity of her man in the relationship, as she is the more sensitive and vulnerable participant in the bond.

Don’t worry though!

Here are signs tell you that your guy can not be trusted

Just have your observation skills handy!

1) Secret Calls

The first sign of something fishy going on is if he doesn’t take all phone calls in front of you or even if he picks up a call, he goes to a different room or a bit away from you to talk. If he is in a committed relationship with you, he need not hide anything from you or keep any secrets!

2) General Texting

We are an internet based generation and all the young and even not so young brigade are found stuck on their cell phones day in and day out! Texting, Whatsapp and Facebooking are the most common forms of communication. If you see him hooked to texting all the time, but you are not at the receiving end of his messages that frequently, trust me, those messages are going to someone else.

3) Late Replies

Only if your boyfriend is working for the defence forces or some secret government organization, will he take time to reply to your messages. If he is living a regular guy’s life and still doesn’t reply soon enough, it means you have slipped from his priority list!

4) Time Away From You

If he says he loves you, but keeps finding some or the other excuse of either work or some hobby or some stupid reason to avoid you, consider it done that he is cheating on you or not interested in you anymore. Dig deep, find real reasons and move on before he dumps you!

5) Stranger To His Friends

You might know about his friends, but for them you’re more or less a stranger. This normally happens when a guy is in a habit of introducing too many girls to his friends and they hardly care! If after meeting his friends, you always get a feeling that they are trying to remember you, it is a sure-shot sign that your guy is fooling around behind your back!

6) Gifts

Yes, he does give you gifts, but does he goofs-up more often than not? Is he consistently sending you birthday or dating anniversary gifts on the wrong date? This means he is two-timing or maybe even more!

7) Other Girls

If you find him flirting or going touchy  with other girls and still saying that he is just being friendly with them, it is a red signal for you! If he is in a serious relationship with you, he just can’t do that or else he is not serious about you at all!

These are just some signs and if you’ll observe more clearly, you’ll find much more about him, his body language and his lifestyle, to help you get a better insight.

Love your guy with all your heart, but sometimes use your head as well to avoid getting hurt!

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Worst Flirting Stories – Flirting, sometimes, can be cute and sometimes, it can be cheap.

Have you ever flirted? Or is there anyone who tried to flirt with you? You know; the world is big and FLIRTING is common these days. Some have experienced it as cute whereas others experienced it to be the worst. You know; even while flirting, you should not cross the line. I mean; the pickup lines shouldn’t be cheap or abusive (You know what I mean) On Reddit, women shared the worst thing a man told them while flirting. IF you have already been in that scenario, then these will surely make you remember yours.

Worst Flirting Stories –

1. A guy told me he was done going out with attractive women and now just wanted to date someone nice instead.
2. “I know we don’t know each other well so let’s play a little game! Imagine I’m a tiny man that lives in your shoe. Tell me what I’d do. Go!”
3. I had a guy tell me “you were a lot more interesting before you started talking” and then continue to flirt with me.
4. “It must be hard for a guy to flirt with you considering he can’t get you drunk and stupid.”
5. We met on tinder. Our first date, he picks me up in his car and as he’s pulling out of the lot, make a joke about raping and murdering me.
6. I was working the bar with a friend of mine a few years back. This older guy walked up to her and in front of everyone told her that he “wants to murder her v***na.”
7. I love how athletic you are – you have a really nice body – but you would look much better with implants. WTF, man?
8. “Honestly, for a Black chick you’re pretty hot. Are you sure you aren’t mixed?”
9. “Damn, girl. You shit with that ass?!”
10. “I wouldn’t mind planting a seed in you and watching it grow.” It creeped me out so much.
11. “[Your friend] is the kind of girl a man marries. You’re the kind of girl a man keeps in his bed while his wife is at work.”
12. “I named my dog after you”
13. I work in retail and once and a while this Pepsi vendor guy will come in and deliver our stock for the week. He always tells me how beautiful I am and comments on my physique. Anyway, a few months ago he comes in early in the morning and does his thing in the back. As he gets to leaving he stops in front of the registers and says: “Girl, you lucky you ain’t out in the parking lot or I would of thrown you in the back of my truck“. And then winks. It was so creepy.
14. You’re not THAT old….
15. “You’re lucky I like girls with extra meat on their bones….I’m not like other guys…..I love how thick you are.” Basically calling me fat while simultaneously trying to get in my pants.
16. “If you lost weight you’d be a ten.”

Worst Flirting Stories – You can continue reading some more here.

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There comes a time in relationships, when all that use to blaze you up, starts to pour ice on the flame!

Yes, it happens and it happens too soon these days, with loads of expectations from few months of relationships! That is the time when you need to bring in a little spice, to heat up the bedroom scene along with the romance on the go!

And what better idea to sex up the things other than SEXTING!

Here we are going to talk about sexy texts. Sexy text messages are very self-explanatory. They must mean a lot of sexciting and churn a fire down under!

So, It’s time to take your sexting game to the next level. And here’s how you master the art of sexting and play the higher levels of it:

1. Discover Your Hidden Instincts And Use Them

In the initial days of the relationship, the most exciting part is the freshness and unpredictability. Which tends to fade away as the time goes. This element of fresh and unpredictable must be used overtly while you are sexting. Be creative, explore, invent and voice it out in your sexts! Most important is, DO NOT HOLD BACK your wild instincts while sexting.

2. Do Not Overload

If you send your partner a sext every day, then it’s going to lose its charm and excitement to turn them on and arouse quickly. A much better strategy is to send your the sexy text messages in moderation, just say about 1 or 2 per week, at completely different times. This way, each message they receive will be a real sexy surprise.

3. Mix It Up – Be The Sugar And Spice

Just like in my previous point about varying when you send your partner a sexy text message, you also need to vary the content of your message. Some texts you send should be very explicit and detailed (I mean really dirty) about how you are feeling or what you are going to do to them later, while others should be more romantic and less suggestive. When you mix it up, they will never know what to expect. There will be a lot of anticipation, which is perfect for keeping the spark alive in your relationship.

And now, here are some sexting samples you have been dying to read!

1. “Just saw something really hot that made me think of you.”
2. “What would you like me to wear to bed tonight?”
3. “Would you be mad if I made out with a girl in front of you?”
4. “When you get home, let’s watch some porn, seriously.”
5. “I loved sleeping with you last night.”
6. “I don’t know if this is normal, but my legs get weak when you kiss me. Can you do this to me again?”
7. “I wish you were here right now. I’m too dam horny!”
8. “Tonight, I’m going to wear the shortest skirt I have!”
9. “What’s the hottest thing I can do for you when I see you?”
10. “I really miss your lips doing naughty things to me! I wish we were together right now.”
11. “I just had the dirtiest thought about you ever. Too dirty to text — wow, I’ll tell about it later.”
12. “What would you say if I suggested we spent all day Saturday in bed?”
13. “Can’t wait to kiss you later.”
14. “The way you hold me is so hot.”

So, here’s the complete menu to take cook your sexy sexting meal and serve it to your partner. You can thank me later for the crazy nights and stimulating days you are going to experience after these super scrumptious and drool-worthy sexting meals.

Happy sexting to you :*

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An average Indian male is always in a confused state of mind!

Who to listen to? To his heart that wants adventure, excitement and fun or to his mummy ji, who only wants a sober, decent, homely life for him? Unable to select between the two due to his conditioning from the stone-age era, he makes poor decisions and suffers his whole life with a life partner not fit for him!

Are you able to find your own life’s story in this?

I can understand as we all are in the same boat, well almost!

Look, nobody has seen heaven or hell, all that we have is our life on earth and it has to be spent happily while enjoying and having fun!

However, what most of us men do when it comes to selecting a girlfriend is we go for the so-called ‘bad’ girl of the society. Now how do you define ‘bad’? As per the double standards of our society, any girl who smokes, drinks, wears clothes that hardly cover her body and talks to boys or flirts with them is a bad girl! Simple! Now you must be wondering almost all men of our country do these things so are we all ‘bad’? Nah, these stupid rules are only for women, we men are the direct prasad of God to rule the planet! Hah!!

Anyways, so we men basically choose these girls as our girlfriends because we connect with them, we have a good time with them and somehow our sensibilities match. In short, we connect! You would think this is what is required in a life partner, that connection that will help to sail through the ups and lows of life, right? Wrong! This is not what our society teaches us! It says; go for the girls who despite seeking fun are domesticated by their over-zealous and over-protective parents, those girls who are only taught to grow up to be wives and mothers and servants of a family instead of becoming individuals and living an independent life! Can they give you fun? Yes, definitely, but not the kind of fun you may seek. You may want to travel the world; she may just want to raise the kids! You may have certain dreams and ambitions, her goal might only be to get the best out of her maid!

It is not that good girls don’t have bad aspects about their personalities or bad girls are like a black spot on the society. The whole thing is that this whole definition of good and bad is outdated, hypocritical and nauseating to the core! Goodness and badness of a human being are to be judged by the purity of their heart and soul, by their honesty, loyalty and such other ethics that make humans different from animals!

Therefore, stop being such an ass and classifying girls as good or bad! Girls are girls and should be loved, respected and treated equally as human beings, nothing more, nothing less! Choose the one who completes you and who you can complete and then take the most important decision of your life. It’s only one life, after all, right?

Live it on!

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