Worst Date Stories : You’re lucky IF you haven’t experienced a worst date. I’m convinced that once you’re done reading these below mentioned “worst dates”, you’re going to say “Thank God. Something like this never happened with me on a date.” For those who’ve experienced it, I can only say “Hope you’re doing well now” and oh, you’re not the only in the mess, so relax.

On Reddit, a wise person asked “what is the worst date you’ve ever been on?” and oh God, many shared their story and it hurts tbh. Here are some of the worst date stories that’ll make you go, “Damn, this person really had it worst.”

Here we go –

Worst Date Stories: 

1. We were eating at a fast food joint when a random kid comes up and pours a cup of water all over me. Takes off running and laughing with his friends in what I assume must have been a bet. I was too startled to even run after them and was just incredibly embarrassed, not to mention soaking wet in the city in the middle of winter.
2. We spent most of the date going shopping for clothes for another date she had later that week.
3. Went on a date with a guy I’d met through a mutual friend. Things seemed pretty normal until we were sitting and waiting for the movie to start. He got his phone out and started showing me pictures of two of his ex-girlfriends. Both women were completely naked.
4. I went out with a guy that I had met on Tinder. The entire time, we argued. Either he didn’t agree with me, or I didn’t agree with him, on ANYTHING. Normally, I don’t argue with someone just because I don’t agree with them, but this guy was so arrogant. After leaving the bar, he somehow thought it would be a good idea to ask me to come up to his place. Saying “no”,was the last time I spoke to him. RIP Tinder app
5. My worst first date was also my first date ever. I was about 14 or 15. The girl I liked asked me if I wanted to go on a date, I was over the moon. She told me to meet her at the park. When I got there she was there with her friends and they all laughed at me for thinking she would ever want to date a loser like me.
6. I was making out with a girl on a cold evening on her unlit front porch. I just thought my runny nose was from the cold. But when we turned on the lights I realized I had a bloody nose. Her face was COVERED IN BLOOD.
7. When I was 24 (29 now), a guy took me home to meet his mother on our first date. I thought we were going for coffee. We did… At his mother’s. When I walked in, his dog greeted us very enthusiastically and proceeded to pee on my shoes.
8. Went to dinner. Only got one word answers the entire time “yeah” “cool” “fun”. What made it the most confusing is that she asked me to dinner.

Do you have any worst date stories to add? Let us know in the comment section below.

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“Things Girls Must Avoid On The First Date”

There are many quotes on First date but one which is quite popular is “First dates are always awkward”, right? Do you really think that it is true? Look, I know that you meet a person for the first time and sometimes when you’ve completely zero idea about how that person will be, a lot of thoughts starts creeping in mind.

It genuinely happens with each and every person.

On the other side, ladies, you can easily point out things that annoy you the most about a guy on the first date. But trust me, that same guy can find you annoying as well.

So, to stop that and give your best, I’ve listed points revealed by the guys on Reddit that’ll help you get an idea about what are the actual things girls must avoid on the first date.

1. Constantly being on the phone

Yes, many girls have the habit of using phone in the middle of a conversation. I mean, look ladies it really looks very insulting and dumb at the same time. If you wanted to be on your phone then why did you call him up or said yes for a date? You know, these questions starts bothering him and you certainly fail to impress him. So, avoid doing it.

2. Bringing past relationships

Trust me; no guy is hanging out with you to listen to your sad/lovely past relationship. He is not your counselor and to be honest, no matter how many times he gives a smile and nod his head, the truth is he is not at all interested to know how bad or good your relationships were.

Well, at-least not on a first date.

3. Don’t ask about “How much money you make” in detail

If you’re asking about how much money you make, which brand do you follow and from where do you purchase this and that, then you’re acting like a hungry woman for money.

4. Cancelling the plan when it’s too LATE

Ugh, this one is undeniably disgusting thing to do. Many guys on Reddit revealed that a woman texted saying she can’t come when he already got there. (Planned place) You know, it just ruins the impression of yours and don’t expect him to call you back. PLEASE!!

5. Expecting him to keep the conversation going

Firstly, if you’re a shy woman and you think that you can’t talk in front of a guy then you better don’t take a risk of meeting him. Look, he might definitely get upset and 100% bored. Conversations should always be from both the sides, so please prepare yourself with this.

6. Avoid asking INTERVIEW questions

Many guys on Reddit dealt with such women in their life who continuously was asking them about “where do you see yourself in 5 years” or “What are your strengths” etc etc. Seriously!! For God’s sake, understand that he is there to spend some good time and not on an interview.

7. Avoid inviting your Good-Friend

Many guys revealed that the girls they went on a date with brought her good-best-friend along with her. It gives a bad signal and no wonder; the guy will surely not want to see you again.

So, strictly avoid bringing your friend with you.

8. Don’t always expect the guy to pay the BILL

A guy expects you to at-least say “Oh, should we pay it 50-50”. You know, it sounds good too. He might later say “Oh no no…I’ll pay it” So, then that’s cool but don’t sit with an attitude as in only he has to pay the bill.

These were the things girls must avoid on the first date. Guys, do you have anything to add? Let us know in a comment below.

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Dating is fun or is it a nightmare?

Well, for most of the people, first date is worse than a nightmare with butterflies in the stomach, excitement shooting through the roof and the urge to impress the opposite sex skyrocketing! Yes, we all think that may be this date will turn out to be the first in a series of many more and eventually might turn into something called love! It is like the entire life depends on this first date and the fear of failure might affect the courage quotient for any such future endeavours.

We bring to you the worst 12 First Date Fears you encounter during your first date and ways to handle them to make your date super successful!

1) What to wear?

Yes, this is not only the concern of girls, but also of the guys! Obviously your dressing sense is going to make a mighty impression on your date, but getting overly anxious or finicky will not help. Simple solution: wear what you’re comfortable in and it will show in your body language. It will definitely make a good first impression!

2) How to greet?

There is always this awkwardness about how to greet. A good hug or just shake hands or may be just a nod of head with the guy pulling out the chair for the lady to sit? Well, don’t fret about it so much. Don’t prepare, go with the flow and meet as casually as possible. Your date is a human being, not someone from an outer planet, so relax!

3) What to talk?

This question perplexes most of us as we don’t know our date that well and feel awkward to initiate a conversation. Best thing is to start discussing common things like weather and casual stuff about work and traffic etc. slowly you’ll find your groove and based on the answers, you can gauge what your date wants to talk about!

4) Nothing in common!

What if there is nothing in common? Yes, in that case you can’t be staring at the walls and getting embarrassed! In such a scenario, just probe and let the other person talk. And then talk about yourself in a way that is not boastful or arrogant, but just to make the other person comfortable. Mind you, your date will be as nervous as you are!

5) Choice of food

This is again a big dilemma. You ask your date to order as per his/her choice and then repent the food they order. It could be spicy or bland and may be not of your liking! Well, don’t be so formal; ask for another dish without embarrassing them that their choice was wrong. Just say that you know another dish that the said restaurant is good at and you want your date to taste it too!

6) Table Manners

Yeah, not all of us are well trained as far as table manners are concerned. That shouldn’t be the stumbling block though! Make sure you eat like a civilized human being without creating a mess, unlike you eat at home with legs on the table and using your fingers! Rest should be alright!

7) Where to focus!

Yes, for some people food is such a priority that they forget the world around them while eating. If you’re one of those, practice to balance your focus on your date and food simultaneously. It might be so easy, but with time you’ll master the art! You don’t want to be found in a situation where you’re only focusing on food or only on your date making them embarrassed!

8) Bill Payment

With women being equal partners, it does become tricky when you see your date ordering and your thoughts are on how much money you have in your wallet! Well, best thing is to be open and ask to dutch! This way, even if date is a failure, you can maintain dignity.

9) Crazy ideas

Your date may have crazy ideas of adventure like bungee jumping or paragliding which scare the crap out of you. Worry not; just say that you’re ready for different things, but only one step at a time. See, you’re not saying a no, but not even a yes!

10) Meeting your ex!

This could be straight from a Bollywood movie, but you never know. May be circumstances are so unfavourable for your new love-life to being that you bump into your ex! Here, simple thing is to meet them cordially and don’t get excited or nervous or angry about the situation. Show maturity that you have moved past your ex and are ready for a new beginning!

11) Goodbye time

This is weird situation. Movies show us that the date ends with a kiss, in some extreme situations you might also get space to make out. Reality is entirely different! Just go with your gut feeling, after analyzing how your entire evening went and do the best! You won’t regret it!

12) Bad hugs

Yeah this is another fear we all have! Trying to hug or kiss and end up hugging sideways as if we met long distance acquaintance in a public place! Again, just go by what your heart says and follow the leads by your date’s body language! You’ll be fine!

Drive away your fears and enjoy your date! First dates are important yet they bring with memories to cherish for a long time. Don’t let fears overpower you!

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Are you eyeing at someone since a while?

Do you want to take the first step?

Go for it is what we say.

A coffee date is the most convincing meeting that you can set up with someone whom you really want to know better and a have a liking for.

We bring to you a quick guide that you can glance through which will help you on your special day…

Decide on a cafe where you have been before

It is always safe if you set up the first ever one on one meeting at a known place. Choose a cafe where you have been before and most importantly which makes you comfortable.  In no ways the ambience should be too cluttered or very cosy. Avoid cafes that play loud music, remember you need to listen to each other. Hurting your voice chord might make you look a little funny.

Be kind and help your date to choose his/her order

As it is said, the first impression is always the last impression; during a coffee date make sure you don’t miss out on any chance of getting these impressions right. In a state of confusion help your date to decide on what he/she can call for. Ask his/ her taste and then order. Don’t end up making a fool out of yourself by ordering anything that it not palatable.

Never experiment of anything new on the menu

These days a lot of popular coffee shops are coming up with interesting offers. Impressive marketing tricks but avoid falling for it. You can impress your date with some other smart moves. Many people get attracted with the person across the table not only with his/her long talks but also with the person’s taste when it comes to choosing the right thing from the menu. So, focus on getting that right.

If you have taken the efforts to make the date happen – Pay the bill too

After days of stalking/chasing you actually impressed someone to come out with you over coffee. Don’t just treat yourself for that effort, be generous and pay for both. Never spilt the bill. This action doesn’t mean you are trying to prove that you have extra bucks but it is just being nice. Probably, it is just a reason to meet your date again and give him/her a chance to treat you back.

Write a message on a tissue & give it to you date – Sweet memories, you see!

Cliché! But this is a cute gesture that you can end up giving your date. Write a witty line or something that will make your date giggle whenever he or she reads it. Make sure you don’t end up penning down on a used tissue. That might directly end up going into the thrash box.

So what are you waiting for? Buckle up and ask that special person out for brewing some lovely conversations.

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