Dating Trends : Earlier, we talked about dating terms like “Ghosting, Benching, Textationship, and many more.” No doubt, experiencing these dating trends is a nightmare. For those who have been it’s victim will truly understand how scary it is.

Ghosting has been the worst of all.

Wait, actually no, Ghosting isn’t the worst. Why, you ask? Oh, it’s because there’s another dating term that’s here to give you nightmares. What term, you ask? It is, Roaching. Yes I know, that this terms sounds a lot like cockroach, but trust me; it’s the worst. Worse than ghosting? Oh yes, it really is.

Oh and also, this term was coined by AskMen.

Now back to your question, what does roaching really means? Roaching actually means that your partner is dating around and when you ask them “why” or “what was the need to do it”, they end up saying “Oh Calm down, there’s nothing wrong about dating.” According to AskMen, Roaching is a terms that comes from the idea that when you see one cockroach, there are many more around you which you can’t see, but that doesn’t mean that they aren’t there.” So when it comes to human relationships, it means, that the person you were seeing were also hiding bunch of crushes, dates etc.

Roaching is very serious, because at one point, you’re seeing this person and then you catch them with someone else. Instead of apologizing or saying “I’ll never do that again”, these people say “I never knew we were so serious about our relationship” or “It is all okay to see people.”

Experiencing roaching is nothing less than a nightmare and oh, it hurts. It’s pretty clear, that there are many who might be the victim of roaching, without even knowing. Thus, roachers IF you’re listening this, then it would be great IF you just let your partner know that you’re dating or you know; have a crush on somebody else.

Good conversation always helps a lot to keep the relationship going. Plus, it also helps each other to know when they should STOP seeing each other.

Dating Trends : Have you experienced roaching? IF yes, how did you handled it?

(Source: AskMen)

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If you’re not living in a dreamy world, then I’ll guess that you’re aware with the term “ghosting”, and what exactly does it mean.

Just in case you’ve no idea, let me tell you, that ghosting is an act where a person you’re in contact with suddenly disappears from your life (no calls, no texts) without letting you know that “yes, I’m disappearing”.

I’m pretty sure that many of you must’ve experienced this situation, agree?

Ghosting keeps on happening, and no one’s going to stop doing that (for obvious reasons) Well, we thought only “ghosting” is dangerous. But I guess, we were completely wrong.

Ghosting Ka Baap is here. Can you guess it? Oh well, yes, I’m talking about “Benching“. Trust me, this new dating trend is way more dangerous than ghosting. To be honest, benching is seriously very dangerous. I mean, you might be a victim of it. Once you get to know what “benching” is, I’m sure that you’ll be like “oh, people do that to me all the time“, and some will be like “Yeah, I do that too.”

Let’s begin –

What is “Benching”? Unlike Ghosting, in Benching, your date or the person you’re talking to will not disappear in the thin air. According to the New York Magazine, Benching is when someone you’re interested or head over heels (one-sided) in love with stops hanging out with you, whenever you say “So, when are we meeting?” or “Should we meet here?” They are people who’ll always be in contact through texting, snapchatting etc. They’ll even like and tweet the things that you share on instagram, twitter etc, but they’ll always give a big “NO” when it comes down to hanging out together.

Is there something like going on in your life?

I feel extremely sorry for you. Anyways, are you benching someone? There’s always a possibility.. So.. Just be careful. Honestly, if you’re experiencing benching in your life, then let me tell you, in a sweet and short way “it is a slow trick of dumping a person later.”

The common example that is used everywhere to define this “Benching” term is, “In a game, when you’re benched, you’re not playing that game, but indirectly you’re a part of it, right?” That’s how it goes in relationships as well. The worst thing about “benching” and why it’s so dangerous is because, you’re always confused about whether to move on or keep going. You know, you think that they’re texting and talking, so there are chances to take things further. And then, you also keep thinking that “maybe one day” the opposite person will come and meet. In reality, things are pretty bad. You know, benching is actually a way to keep people interested in you, and talk to them whenever you’re bored AF.

Like I already told you, Benching is dangerous than Ghosting. Have you ever benched someone? Or do you think someone is playing this trick on you? Let us know in the comment section below.

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