It is very important to note one thing in life – You shouldn’t always depend on your partner once you get into a relationship.
It is not completely wrong to depend on your partner for certain things but doing it every time and for everything is overall a big fat mistake. No matter if you are in love but don’t blindfold yourself for everything that belongs to you.
As the saying with a truthful message go- “You come into this world alone and leave it in the exact same way”.
Well, before you start getting dependent on others including your partner; do know the reasons why you shouldn’t do that and give it a full stop.
- No self-independency
The very first thing about being dependent on your partner is; it makes you leave your-self independency. Being independent is a must in this world and if you’re losing it all then it’ll be a tough life to deal with.
- No space for your decision making
Each and every person must be a decision maker at least for their own needs. But, if you’re too keen into relying on your partner to make a decision for your things then it is a blunder.
- Stuck in situations
At times, if your partner isn’t around to deal a certain situation then all responsibility will be on you. But, only because of his missing presence if you fail to fix it right then it’ll be because of you.
- Lazy bump
You might find this a little funny but trust me it can be a reason too.
If your partner is doing the work you should do then trust me you’ll lack energy and will be a lazy bump.
- Money won’t take you far
If you are too dependent on your partner’s money then you’re on a wrong track. It’s quite possible that your partner won’t be there every time you need him/her to spend on you. Right? Think about it.
You need to be independent to earn for yourself because a relationship might end sooner or later.
- “Good for nothing”
No matter how good your partner is, only because you’re dependent will mark a tag that you are “good for nothing”. Your partner might not say it directly but if a relationship ends later then it’ll also go on like- you owe your partner a lot for the things he/she did for you.
These points denotes why you shouldn’t always depend on your partner.
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