With life highly depending on chat applications today, it is extremely important to keep few things in mind while starting a conversation. Especially if it is someone you are eyeing on. Here are must follow rules while texting someone you like…
No Smartphone is complete without chat applications (apps) these days. These apps are not only easy on pockets but also quite interactive. This is the reason why you end up asking phone numbers or app pins of the person you like on the first go. While girls find this creepy, boys find it absolutely cool.
To be honest, texting has made lives easy. One can be more expressive (with emoticons for all the moods) and stress free. Life these days highly depends on chat applications and it is extremely important to keep few things in mind while starting a conversation. Especially if it is someone you are eyeing on. Here are must follow rules while texting someone you like…
The first ping has to come from the boy
It is a fact that girls have more expectations from a boy who shows interest in her. If you have feelings for her, be the first one to drop her a message.
“Wassup?” – Doesn’t sound cool anymore
Girls and boys in high school too don’t use the word wassup anymore. You need to be really smart to come up with an interesting talk at the first go.
“K” kills a conversation
It might take couple of more seconds to try the work, “Okay”. Take that time out and never send a single letter that will end a chat then and there.
Intelligence is sexy
You don’t have to know world history to be intelligent but you have to be impressive with your words. Intelligence is sexy. If your text can brighten up someone’s face you have done it well.
One word reply is a major turn off
If you are someone who cannot be very expressive with words then start refereeing to thesaurus everyday. Learn a new word but make sure you use in the right context.
Use the right emoticon at the right time
Expressions speak a lot. Emoticons are supposed to extremely sweet feature of chat applications but be very careful while using it. If you end up entering wrong emoticons at the wrong time you might surely end up getting blocked.
Don’t ask for minute to minute updates
Remember you cannot be so possessive about the person you just like. Okay, even if you are do, don’t show it while texting the person. Don’t ask for constant updates and annoy the person at the other end.
Always address the other person by his/her name
Don’t be very comfy at the initial days and keep names for the person. Make sure if he/she is okay with you to address him/ her while texting.
Asking for pictures will definitely push the conversation a little too much
Remember you are just getting to know the person. Don’t freak the person and control your emotions.
Never ever strike a conversation at odd hours
If you think that odd hour conversations could be sizzling then you are wrong. Texting someone you are interesting in at odd hours can be highly irritating.
If you are looking at connecting with someone over texts keep , my ‘anmol vachan’ in mind and happy texting!