Friends are our second family after our real family!

The best buddies, the partners in crime, the emotional pillow to snuggle on in times of need and what not! However, only a few friendships survive the test of time and most wither away due to circumstances, personal priorities and unavoidable situations of life.

Can you trust them?

Yes you can, but for how long and how many of them, no one can say! That is why even in friendships, there should be a line drawn when it comes to sharing your intimate details. These details, especially of a sexual nature may initially sound fun or totally harmless, but in the long run they might turn to be your worst nightmares.

Let me explain, in detail, the pitfalls of sharing your sexual secrets with your friends:

1) You Become An Easy Gossip Target

Unless it is your very close friend or buddy, and sometimes not even them, sharing your sexual life is only going to become part of the gossip machine! Sex is something that is still taboo in our country and for good or bad, it is still one of the most talked about things even if in hush-hush tones. To avoid being the centre of attraction for what you did inside a closed room, it is better to leave it there only!

2) You Are Providing Object Of Fun Served On The Plate

Not all your friends are going to help you with suggestions about how to improve your sex-life or solve your sex-related issues, but for sure it is going to be a topic of immense interest for them. No wonder, you’ll soon be an object of fun behind your back for people in your circle and even outside! You never know, they would start sharing dirty jokes with your name on them.

3) Ridiculed For Something That The Whole World Does

Opening about your sexual activities also makes you an easy target of fun and ridicule. Not only it does a character assassination, it also paints a biased and distorted image of you in front of the whole world. Sex, instead of becoming an act of pleasure, becomes a torture when you’re being targeted for something that everyone does, but hardly share!

4) Blackmail Comes Easy Your Way

This is true especially for girls who trust their friends way too much by sharing intimate and explicit details about their sex life, just to boast about it or to get an opinion. Such friends might take advantage by blackmailing about leaking that information or any texts or pictures that you may have shared. The social stigma associated with it is very hard to ignore or to live with given how the society functions in our country. It may be an orthodox way of thinking, but one can’t change the thinking of an entire society overnight, so it is better to mend your own ways!

5) Job Hazards

Your friends at work or otherwise who are privy to such intimate details, might use is against you. Also, if employers come to know of this, it can adversely affect your job, as the employers may not trust you with keeping secrets. Also, with the advancement in technology, whatever you text or share online, will always remain available for those trying to access it! Nothing is deleted permanently, ever!

6) Your Social Standing Is Affected Adversly

Societal pressures can make it difficult not only for you, but also for your family as well. Unless you and your entire family is immune to such things, and that is a big exception, such secrets coming out in public can literally cause a lot of embarrassment and have an impact on your relations in and out of the family.

Having sex related discussions are harmless, but when it comes to sharing your sex-life, it is advisable to be very careful!

Why to spoil the fun and make sex difficult?

Keep it to yourself and your partner!

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Communal riots based on different religious ideologies have been prevalent in our country for many decades now.

Religious Riots is also one issue being exploited by politicians and various other religious groups for their vested interests. However, to turn a sexual harassment issue, which is a ghastly act, into an even more horrifyingly scary communal riots issue can only be an act of extremely twisted and sick minds.

This is exactly what happened in 2013 when in Kaval, two brothers allegedly killed an accused that was charged with molesting their sister.

This triggered a series of events that eventually resulted in mass violence taking the shape of communal riots and killing as many as 60 people while displacing more than 50,000 out of their homes!

Keeping this is mind to avoid anything of this nature from happening in future, a district magistrate in western Uttar Pradesh has recently ordered for bringing to shame such anti-social elements who indulge in eve-teasing women. According to reports, police has been ordered to create ‘Majnu Pinjaras’ or Romeo Cages for public shaming of such culprits.

This may or may not be legal, but if we keep legality aside for a moment, this sounds like a good idea for lechers to mind their own business and think a hundred times before trying to rob a girl of her dignity. It doesn’t matter what part of the world one is living in, the bottom line to be considered is that nobody has a right to consider women as objects for sexual gratification. It is also absolutely a crime to eve-tease or cross the line with any girl without her consent. And in case one lives in an area popularly known for such incidents, which can be manipulated easily to give a communal colour, people should be extra cautious! If they are not, administration has to put its foot down and come up with innovative and harsh steps to teach these goons a lesson.

Having plain-clothed policemen and women around girls’ schools and colleges to catch hold of such lecherous men is a good start and if somehow these ‘Majnu Pinjaras’ are allowed and become a success, it would go a long way in bringing some law and order in the society. This will definitely prove to be a detriment for men to stay within limits and have a hold over their libido!

Girls are not there to be used at one’s will, but political and religious groups won’t leave any opportunity to pursue their agenda of divide and rule in a country of illiterates and a growing tribe of educated illiterates! Also, the police force has to be sensitised enough to file and pursue such sexual harassment cases to bring the culprits to justice so that things don’t go out of hand with various groups trying to fish in troubled waters.

The nation already has enough troubles, let’s not twist and turn one problem into making it another monster that goes out of control!

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