Live in relationships are subjective in nature and very common than we think.

The urban India is becoming broad minded and the obviously there is western influence. Teenagers want an independent life and are moving out of their homes at early age because they want to live with their partners or alone.

But is it really a good idea?

Early stage of life living with your partner? Well, everything in this world has positive and negative impact. So as live in relationships.

Complications are involved in every relationship whether it is marriage or live-in. the difference between both is; in marriage you are bound to your partner but in live-in you can be relationship as long as you want.

But, the main problem of a live-in relationship is that they are not socially acceptable in India. And if you are living with a person of opposite sex outside of marriage, things are even more difficult or not accepted in the society.

Live in relationships are very personal and subjective matter which might be work for one person and not for others.

Here are some 5 real life experiences shared by women that reveal the truth behind the live in relationship.

1. “I was in live in relationship throughout my college life of 5-6 years. We lived together laughed together share each and everything with each other and it was beautiful. 6 years later, he is my lawfully weeded husband and the father of my children’s.”

2. “Two years in a live-in relationship I realized that he was anti social and super boring! I dumped him and have no regret…”

3. “We had to lie to all our house owners because live-in equal devil worship…”

4. “I lived in with my boyfriend for 8 years without his parent’s knowledge. During the 8 year, his parents began to hunt for girls. He couldn’t build up courage to tell them about us and we end up. I was initially shattered, but when I look back, I feel like I was saved from a spineless man!”

5. “There are days when he gets on every nerve of mine, but we make it up with amazing sex in every corner of our messed up home.”

These are Live in relationships experiences – If you are thinking of moving on with our partner before that keeps all this negatives and positive points in your mind.

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When we talk about live in relationship, it all sounds so cool, right?

Well, it could be the perfect scenario to live with the person you love and have no complications of marriage in life.

But have you ever wondered that how can something be so perfect without any problem. Yes, you may have heard a lot of people advocating live in relationship but at the same time, there are a lot of reasons supporting the fact that you should not get into a live in relationship.

Here are some of them why you should not get into a live in relationship:

Live In Relationship –

1. You start expecting more

When you live with the person while being in a relationship, you start expecting more from them in terms of time, attention and sometimes, love too. Somehow, you start to feel like you both own each other’s time and now you are obliged to do more things for each other.

2. You take each other for granted

This happens in every situation because the person you start living with, becomes a part of your life and that’s the reason you take each other for granted. After all, you don’t have to plan any meeting dates anymore or think of excuses to each other, which makes you think that you don’t need to put any more efforts. Hence, you take each other for granted.

3. You fight on every other issue

It’s human nature because the more time you spend with someone, the more you fight over silly issues. In a live-in relationship, fights become an everyday thing and it’s a never ending war between two people who don’t even realize what they fight for.

4. It’s difficult to walk out

At times, when you feel things are not working out, it becomes difficult for you to walk out because there are so many strings attached. This is why being in a live in relationship or getting into live in relationship is a risky choice to make.

5. Marrying won’t be as much exciting

Once you’ve been in a live in relationship, marrying each other will become just a ritual for you. So, if you are one of those who’ve been crazy for marriage since childhood, you might want to give a thought to your live in relationship plans.

Everything has a good and a bad side, but you need to figure out what’s working best for you. If you feel you can get away with all these hurdles and have a great married life ahead, then you really should go for it.

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Marriage or no marriage, the question shouldn’t be this.

Every relationship’s priority should be loyalty and commitment.

Marriage, I would say, is a system where two people make an official announcement of coming together because either they love each other or because they feel a need for companionship (in which case, they arrange a marriage). But then, the basis of live-in relationship is only love, there is no arrangement made that have risen out of insecurity. One second! If there is no insecurity and only love then why there is no marriage? Is it because it’s an institution that makes walking out of a relationship difficult? If the relationship is based only on love, then why don’t you feel like you can be with the person for a lifetime?

But then marriage has its own problems. The only difference between live-in relationships and marriage is that you cannot walk out of a marriage easily. Still, walking out or not is your decision which can be taken anytime.

Then what is this live-in relationship or marriage fight all about? Relationship, of any kind is an individual’s choice, and no one has the right to interfere in it, unless and until it does not harm any third person, as only the individuals involved face the consequences of their decision. Especially, in a country like India where no one says a word against child marriages, where there is no strict law against rape, where no one bothers to take any action against khaap panchayat; people should not comment on anyone’s personal lives. May people choose to be in a gay relationship, lesbian relationship, live-in relationship or choose to marry, no one has the right to not let them choose their own relationships.

And when did marriage promise you security, a life-long relationship, loyalty and love? If that would have been the case, marital rapes wouldn’t have existed.

It’s high time that we, as human beings, decide to live and let live.

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