It is incomprehensible how your libido can be turned off and on all on its own, thanks to the presence of certain odors, sights, habits, etc.

You might find it weird but yes these things can turn on you may it’s high time you experience, and for the ones who already experience libido with these things will know how it feels like.

Things that turn on libido –

• Laughter

When you express happiness/fun from deep within, you come across as someone with a great sense of humor. Laughter becomes the foreplay for what will automatically follow.

• Fresh Bed Sheets

Mmm, there is really nothing to beat the fresh and clean odours emanating from new or beautifully washed bed sheets. You just want to relax and roll around on them!

• Eating Watermelon

Citrulline, an amino acid present in watermelon, helps the blood to flow more strongly within your veins, treating even erectile dysfunction. If you are male and love gorging on this fruit, expect your sexual hormones to roar!

• Exercise

Astonishingly, a vigorous workout urges your brain to go in for a quick roll in the hay! Moderate-to-severe exercise prompts the brain to release a neurotransmitter/hormone called Serotonin. You feel healthy and positive.

• Sorrow or Anxiety

Grieving should put a halt on all kinds of other emotions, including sexual desires. Paradoxically, you believe that rushing into another’s arms will help you forget your sorrows.

It is the same with anxiety or fear, wherein all your senses are at a heightened level.

• Odors or Colours

Every smell evokes a pleasant memory. When you bring on scented candles or strong perfumes into the picture, or even fragrant cinnamon buns, the bed is the only place to be!

As for colour, red represents deep love and passion. Is it any wonder then, that a man often chases the ‘woman in red’?

• Reading

Now, this is indeed odd! How can anyone become sexually stimulated by watching a good-looking or sexy person reading? Experiment, and see if this works for you.

• Lookalikes

Again, this relates to males particularly. They become excited upon meeting females who generally resemble them in physique. You know hot bodies, same height, color, attract.

Things that turn on libido – Why wait for these ‘prompts’ anyway, just to enhance your sexual desire? Just hang around with a bunch of friends. You will soon feel the urge, simply because of your sense of sexual competition!

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How often you should have sex?

Isn’t this the most important question after “What is he purpose of my life?”

Okay, this might be an exaggeration, but trust me, there are so many people on the planet with  a hoard of doubts, apprehensions and confusions about sex that it is one of the top most questions, solicited from all the sex-therapists worldwide!

Today we are going to answer that, but before that, just put that pen and paper down and don’t even try to record the answer in your smartphone’s notepad! It’s no rocket science guys!

We can figure it out with ease! Get it?

Now, first of all answer this simple question: how often should you eat?

As many times as you feel hungry, right?

Well, likewise, sex is the basic human need and needs to be fulfilled as and when one feels the urge for it.

The question is being asked millions of time – How many times one should have sex in a relationship?

The hard truth is there is no specific number!

However, conditions apply!

1. First and foremost, you and your partner should be on the same page about sex. It depends on partners’ sex drive, health condition, mind-frame, age and sexual needs. If only one person desires it and the other person is not in the mood, then you cannot and should not push it down the throat! Well, not literally here, alright? So just wait for the right moment!

2. Secondly, have sex, but don’t obsess about it! There are a lot more things, important for life, than only sex, while I agree it is one of the important things! Therefore, make love when you know you are not ignoring another burning issue that needs your immediate attention! Your mind as it is would not be completely into it, if you are ignoring something important and trying to wrestle in bed, so what’s the point anyways? 

3. You know what, sex is not only about the physical union of two bodies; it touches the soul, the depth of our emotions that sometimes even we are not aware of. Thus, sex should not be treated as a chore or just a boring bodily function that needs to be performed as a custom on a daily basis. Make it special whenever you indulge in it and when you feel the need for that magical touch!

4. Also, The chemicals released during orgasm and when one feels the supreme bliss with another body, are largely responsible for the contending feeling of love, satisfaction and completeness. Sex shouldn’t be calculated in terms of numbers or the frequency of the act, but it must be counted on how satisfied it makes you after every session. And it’s not just about you, but for your partner as well. More the contentment, more the frequency!

5. The libido or sex drive also depends on how stressed or relaxed your life is, what age group you belong to, what is your gender and so on! Basically, your overall life is a great facilitator or moderator to sex! To have an absolutely rocking and pleasurable sex life, you got to take time out of your busy schedules, be tranquil and help your partner to get ready for the act, just the way you are. This will not only help in strengthening your bond, but will also make sure that every time you indulge in an intercourse, it gives you supreme pleasure.

6. You should try, put in efforts, and help each other to reach a stage where you both should be getting utter pleasure every time you indulge in it, then it wouldn’t matter how often you did or for how long every session lasted! The only things that’ll remain with both of you will be your deepest intimacy and love.

And that’s why honey buns, stop counting the numbers and the frequencies! Stop mulling over the question ” how often?”

Just go with the flow, create the love and romance much needed for life and live the moments fully, as and when they hit you!

Good luck to you all!

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