Strong personalities are unique in their own ways. They are distinctively visible in a room full of people. And they are often misconstrued as dominating, rude or non-compassionate!

In all reality none of these are true. These words actually do not reflect a strong personality. Strong people do not thrive on winning by exploiting or hurting other people in the quest, they just are just not willing to let other people walk all over them, and hence they react quickly, sometimes.

May be they often choose wrong ways to reflect the insides out! From my own experiences and reflections there of, I have gauged many wrong ways of projection that many strong people use mistakenly and ruin things. However, there are ways to portray a strong personality, if you possess one, and get the things done your way. It surely is a life changing mantra.

Allow me to share with you.

1. Strong People Apply Their Focus On Task At Hand 

When you are aware that you have a strong personality, you would be heaving with energies to roll out. Take caution in the direction you put your energies in. Choose your battles carefully. There is no need to be a part of something which doesn’t reap anything for you. You should rather focus on what you can achieve in life and how you can overcome obstacles get closer your goals. You will finally get into the realm of getting the things done for yourself in the right way.

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Sex is the basic need!

Now that’s something we all know, but very few are bold enough to admit it openly.

In our country, sex is still taboo and talking about it in public is still considered to be disrespectful and embarrassing for most of us. Therefore when there is a lot of noise around that men only think about sex, men only want to bed women instead of being in a steady loyal relationship, men are only womanizers, it all sounds kind of shocking!

It is obvious that women are making all these comments and to be fair to the fairer sex, some men do fall in such categories. But isn’t generalizing a massive mistake? Not everyone is equal and not all men are same.

For some, sex is the only criteria for selecting a partner and might not think twice before sleeping around multiple women, but there are also men who stay loyal to their partners till they are together and are a couple.

It is a myth that only guys have high sex drives and women hardly want it! In fact both the sexes need it, just that the urge for it differs at different ages for both men and women. For example, men are high on sex right from their teenage and start slowing down by their mid or end 30’s after which they stabilize. However, for women the sexual urges start peaking after early 30’s and reaches its pinnacle towards late 30’s and early 40’s. This is the time when most men want more from their relationships in terms of compatibility and stability rather than just some action in bed. Of course that’s part of their demand list too, but it is not the be all and end all of everything.

Men are human beings too and we all are born with a basic set of emotions. Some of these emotions are hidden or suppressed since childhood owing to the set pattern of society and by the rules formed to guide how a man should lead his life. Sometimes it’s the peer pressure that makes a less self-aware man only seek sex when in reality his needs are more on the emotional level. Men who are violent in sexual relationships do it to satisfy some hidden need since childhood or to release some stress that is being built up owing to their incompetency elsewhere in life. Obviously it is not acceptable and such people should be punished for their acts. But the point is that our society doesn’t teach men how to deal with their emotions. Men are only taught to be strong, brave and courageous. When such men are faced with subtle or different emotions than these, they don’t know what to do! The result is expressing their power and authority by way of sex!

Sex is also a way of satisfying their egos that depend on how much sex they do and with how many girls! It is more of a peer pressure and society’s demand that a man is proven to be a man only if he is a bull in bed!

The real need for men in any relationship is to be loved, appreciated, cared and respected. But that is what anybody wants, male or female, right?

Only if men are taught from childhood to stay in touch with their emotional side and be ready to accept their weaknesses without falling for the need to constantly prove how manly they are, would they be able to live a complete life without giving the impression of being sexual freaks!

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I’m innocent and have never done any wrong in my life!

I have always been cheated by others and my circumstances have worked against me!

The whole world is conspiring against me to bring me down!

Are you used to hearing such statements?

Or may be uttering these words quite often in life?

Do you know who is your enemy?

Let me put one thing very bluntly: you and only you are responsible for the life that you have!

Good, bad, ugly, beautiful, worst whatever it is; you are only responsible for it.

And this way, you are your own enemy for not living the kind of life you only dream of living!

How many of us claim to know about latest smart phones, gadgets, cars etc? And now, how many of us can claim to know ourselves, in and out? Our desires, the root cause of our anger, jealousy, insecurities?

I’m sure you got what I’m saying, right?

We are always living on the outside, but never inside. We feel sad and we can’t handle it so we start drinking. We feel angry and we don’t know how to control it so we get violent with our near and dear ones. We feel insecure and less confident about ourselves so we go ahead in sabotaging someone else’s career. We do many such things simply because we don’t know our inner self and instead of spending painful amount of time and energy to find the real “us”, we take the easy path: blame others!

We all are accused of this.

Running after astrologers, blaming family, colleagues etc for all the ailment sin our life makes our life go in circles only. Instead of breaking the pattern and growing, we keep blaming others, keep suffering and again blame others or circumstances for the rut we are in!

It is high time for us take responsibility of ourselves and our actions.

Knowing the world is the easiest thing, knowing yourself is the most difficult thing, but only that can help you grow in life.

To achieve all your dreams, you have to know your fears, your desires, your dark side, your good side, just about everything! And frankly speaking, one life isn’t enough to know your own self inside out! It is an ever going process which you have to follow if you want to be happy!

There will be many opportunities in your life to correct your path. Only thing is to grab them at this very instant!

Make you your best friend, not enemy by denying the opportunity to know you! Don’t be dependent on materialistic crutches to bail you out of troubles.

All the power is in your hands and within you!

Use it judicially and live your life, your way!

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