Come on, tell us frankly, what crosses your mind when you think of moving in with your in-laws? that they will be intimidating? there will be winds of unsolicited Gyaans? they will press you for bearing their descendant? the will keep you on your toes with the household works? they will be fault-finding and you can’t dress up in your own terms? well, my girl, get a fact-check. The recent scenario has changed a lot and the in-laws are not all those from the K-series serials chanting mental dialogues against you or vowing to destroy you. Take a chill pill!

Millennials are afraid of marriage because in Indian ethos, in-laws play a pivotal part and they have always been demonized by the Bahus for obvious reasons. If a westernized lifestyle is your kink, so far, you were expected to be apologetic about it but not any longer. Sasural is no longer that hellhole that you always thought it to be, rather, you it has way liberal approach now towards accepting the new gen.

The video below is a rough sketch of what Indian marital houses look like now to the daughter-in-law. The in-laws here are no less than her own parents who treat her in the same manner as they would treat their own daughter. This video, however, compels us to think that are we, the Bahus, not way too critical about our parents-in-laws? that too driven by the stereotypical beliefs that they are Claudius or Lady Macbeth straight out of the pages of Shakespeare?

It could not get cooler to have a Sasumom like the one in the video. Firstly, she never barrages her daughter-in-law with life gyaans and gives her the breathing space. Secondly, when she changes the sofa with a new set, she doesn’t roll her eyes. Thirdly, she even passes slapstick jokes on seeing her hiding her beautiful dress behind a funny jacket. I mean, how cool is that?

The Bahu, obviously learns to take care of her new family because it comes easily to her. The chemistry between them is like water, beguiling and simple. So far, we have come to believe that taking care of your parents-in-laws bears no fruit because they will anyway be critical, but when parents-in-laws are the cool lots like this, life is a party!

Everyone deserves to live life in their own conditions. Respect and love is earned not thrusted. When it is trusted upon someone, it becomes duty. This video is a heart-warming ode to the new-age chemistry between the Bahu and her parents-in-law which is so fun to watch. Don’t believe us? well, see it for yourself and laugh a bit like we did.

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Indian parents – We  Indian’s might all boast a lot to be modern but when it comes to marriages dowry is taken with pride the more educated the groom is the more is his value and more dowry you need to give. It is prevalent everywhere and idiots who call them educated also demand hefty dowry. Yes some are doctor’s engineers, politicians, NRI’s, and don’t be surprised if few are from anti dowry-squad.  Some take in form of cash, some in gold, properties, so on and some demand all!

Ridiculous society I wish I was not a girl honestly

Dear Indian parents

Please don’t fall prey to these so called well educated Idiots yes they don’t demand initially but once marriage date is near their tantrums start.

My friend’s was an arranged marriage and her dad gave her as dowry hefty amount of money, gold, and silver too. Why do people give dowry they think their daughters would be well treated if she brings money and gold? No not at all in fact when you bribe the groom’s family with gold and cash they get addicted to easy money and then post wedding their demands reaches sky. Like, it happened in my friend’s case.

Post wedding in-laws started showing their true colors!

Demanded for a luxury car and when she didn’t get that torture started including physical and verbal abuse. What her husband did was even more surprising he said my parents wouldn’t change honey let’s get separated. She was happy that at least her hubby is quite understanding little did she know about his intentions. They started looking for houses he said this is not good, that is not good, etc.

“Finally he said one of your dad’s bungalow is vacant naa anyway he will give you in future why not ask him now so that we can shift”

My friend understood his intention that he married her for money, used her always for money.

As if what her dad gave wasn’t enough he demanded a bungalow now.

Dear Indian parents this is what happens when you give dowry stop promoting this ridiculous culture of giving!  The more you give the more demands increase in future.

Instead spend the money on your daughter and her career!

Frustrated daughter!

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