Being in a relationship is like working.

You need to always ensure that you don’t let the bad incidents bring you down, you avoid as many leaves as possible from the other person’s life and you expect to learn through your journey with that person.

But what happens in most relationship is that people tend to think that fighting is the biggest catastrophe to a relationship. People are so busy in their lives that they tend to not have time to mend their relationships – rather they let it loose, hang it by a thread, and let fate decide for itself.

Actually, fighting in a relationship makes it healthier on many levels. Surprised?

Let me tell you how:

1. It lets your stress out: Most couples fight either because they carry the stress from their work or home, or because of usual reasons of not liking what the other said. But it is ok to fight. It lets you and your significant other open up, throw tantrums, scream and cry – basically lets you pour out all the worries and tension you have stuffed inside yourself.

2. Makes you care for each other: Close to 90% couples start worrying and caring the minute they see their significant other crying in a fight. I am not telling you to escape the fight by crying! But it tends to calm the other down and you end up talking things out rather than continuing the fight for long. At the end of it you realize that you were quarrelling with each other for the silliest things!

3. Seeing more of the significant other: Some couples decide to do the silent treatment. Now imagine a situation where your loved one is not around to even throw this treatment at him/her. What would you do? You end up wanting to see them, although you hold off showing your care for the first few days after the fight. Basically, you realize how important they are to you and you tend to love them even more.

4. You learn to find your level of harmony: Fighting helps you to understand the level of understanding needed for your loved one and you learn to compromise. You would never go to bed angry and you will not leave arguments hanging. It not only leads to a healthy relationship, but a happier you!

5. Clearing the air: You both will learn to clear the air about many issues. It might start with one and lead to another. That’s how fights always go and it will only lead you both to learn to discuss and clear all your doubts and jealousy about many things you have not spoken to each other about. You might bring up the past but it will lead the other to understand things that hurt you and you both start to be more concerned about each others feelings.

Time flies by and so will your fights. Do not let a small argument build up into a bigger one. Let go, forgive and forget because there aren’t too many people who understand you like your loved one does.

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Siblings are a blessing in disguise – no matter how much you try to deny that fact, they have come to your aid whenever time calls for it.

There are innumerable times when you’ve wished upon your lucky stars – if and only if, you were the only child. But close your eyes for a while – think about these random thoughts– if you didn’t have a younger sister-

1. Would you be able to live your whole life with no quarrels or arguments – none whatsoever.
2. What if you sneaked in to your house past midnight and have no one to save you from getting caught?

These questions could go on and most of you would be smiling as your younger sister face came into your mind. The hard truth is younger sisters are those that the elder sisters lean on – to become a better person.

Let’s glance through some amazing facts about younger sisters that you may or may not have realized:

Younger sisters have helped you learn to share:

As much as you have hated the idea of sharing your new toy, it was all worth it when you saw that smile on your younger sister’s face. You tend to learn to share whatever you decide is yours, without flinching, just so you can get that warm hug or loving kiss from her. Not just that, you learn to share your thoughts and emotions as well. You can’t deny those late night conversations with your sister has helped you grow stronger emotionally.

You can fight any war – literally a war in any form:

You have struggled to keep your little sister on track – arguments, nail fights, pillow fights – you’ve done it all, used the most unexpected of households to fight and conquer. Now, it couldn’t get this easy for you in the real world.  You can easily face the world and fight any war – you know all the tactics to winning and the hardships of loosing.

Responsibility

Take a second to look at yourself. You have become responsible in your effort to show your younger sister what it means to be responsible. Also, in this effort, you have changed her also into a wonderful human being, changing yourself alongside. This transformation is unexplainable – how and why – remains a mystery – but it is definitely a thankful moment for you.

You learn to love:

No matter what kind of a person she is, she could be your complete opposite for all that matters – but you’ve learned to love who she is, without asking her to change. This has made it so much easier for you to adjust with the world – you are more patient and you see the good in people. You realize that love is too big a word to not share.

You need to let go of things:

You’ve seen your younger one grow and sometimes it pains you to see her move away and try to be independent. You yearn to help her out, prepare her for the possible mistakes in life, and mainly remain her shadow. But you had to let go. Similarly, you learned to let go of many things in your life – your first crush, that favourite dress of yours that won’t fit any more…You’ve learned through her that letting go doesn’t make you loose anything – it makes  you prepare for the better to come into your life.

Wondering what to do? Take your phone, dial her number and make plans to keep memories going forward!

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