Mard ko dard nahi hota is a very common saying. It is mostly expected that if you are a man then you need to possess some supreme skill of never experiencing pain.

No matter what the situation is, a man is considered to be tough and capable of handling the pain without shedding any tears.

Our country has very distinctly separated and restricted some habits on the basis of gender. If you are a man then you are not supposed to cry but don’t men get emotional?

They do but they don’t express in public.

A man who seems to be jolly good all the time is hiding his deep emotional side within. Why do men hide? Well because the society is structured in a way that emotions are looked at as a sign of weakness.

They feel the pain but choose to cry alone. It also becomes a sign of ridicule when a man cries in public. I mean won’t you find it unusual? Have you ever seen a man crying his heart out in public?

Yes we have seen our heroes crying in movies but there is more fascination for men in action.

So when a man gets emotional what does he do? There are certain traits that the strongest of men indulge into for expressing their emotions.

They cry alone. They appear to be tough on the outside but there are times when you would find guys cutting all ties and being aloof. They would tell you they are busy but the reality would be that they are lonely and upset.

They would go for a long drive or might even plan a trip to a far off place say Ladakh. Adventures and treks or may be even long drives or bike rides serve the biggest outlet and most of the ‘tough men’ resort to this option. Traveling alone is their favorite way to live with their emotions.

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They hit a bar. Calling some other guys and getting sloshed is the usual way of relieving emotions.

Men and emotions

They have sex. This is another option that men adopt to let out their emotions. They relieve the emotions this way.

Instead if a man is mard enough to cry and accept their emotions won’t it be much easier?

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Some guys can clearly differentiate between sex and love.

They manage to keep these two things separate. Sex is nothing more than just a physical need for them.

This typical attitude is portrayed by the protagonist of the upcoming film, Hunterrr where the actor plays the character of such kind of guys who just want sex.

He might be passionately kissing you but there is absolutely no dearth of emotions in his heart for you.

If both enjoy this kind of ‘no strings attached’ intimacy then there is absolutely no problem.

But what if you are the emotional kinds and might end up falling in love with him?

Such men seem harmless and very attractive. They are sweet talkers and would drive you crazy. But if you happen to get emotional then you are just digging your own grave. Be careful as you are just going to get badly hurt.

1^st rule:

Don’t refrain

Such guys view girls as target objects to fulfill their lust. They won’t force you but would make you come to them. Initially their sight might irritate you but you won’t even realize how you ended up in his bed.

The more you say no the more he is going to try. So deny him in a manner that sounds convincing.

For example if he is asking you out then make an excuse that sounds convincing. Avoid him in a manner that you aren’t showing your disinterest directly.

2^nd rule:

Don’t introduce your boyfriend/ husband to him.

Many girls think that their committed status would give a clear message to the guy. But these kinds of guys aren’t interested in commitment anyways. So it doesn’t really matter if you are seeing someone or not.

Scoring on a committed woman is like an achievement for them.

Meet him if you feel like, with a bunch of your guy friends. He would definitely not expect you to meet him with a bunch of guys. This will perfectly spoil his plans.

Also seeing your buddy nature he would get to see a different side of a woman. He might start actually liking this nature.

3^rd rule:

Don’t believe a word he says.

Such kinds of guys are usually sweet talkers and extra chivalrous. Don’t be shy to the chivalry. If you are getting the attention then might as well enjoy it but don’t take it to be true.

Never believe anything he says.

Don’t nod to his stupid talks. Ask him something tricky and be a total spoilsport to his act of wooing.

 4^th rule:

Show your displeasure to any physical contact.

Make it very clear that physical contacts turn you off. He should know that you are just going to stop being his friend if he crosses the line.

That would make him be careful with you.

5^th rule:

Don’t give them the importance.

Your world doesn’t revolve around him. You have priorities in your life and he is not even 0.1% important to you. Have a proper control on your emotions.

6^th rule:

Be reserved.

Never reveal anything about yourself to him. These guys are pretty smart. They won’t reveal a thing about themselves but would make you super comfy. You would end up sharing your thoughts and deepest secrets with them.

P.S. They aren’t listening. They are just patient to woo you to bed.

7^th rule:

Don’t reveal your emotions.

It is fine to be an extrovert but don’t express your emotions ever. These kinds of guys just know to master the art of playing with emotions but they themselves stay far away from emotions.

8^th rule:

Turn the tables on him.

Try asking him about his friends and family. His friends would give you the clear picture of the kind of person he is. If he intends to just bang you then you would get the clear message from his friends.

9^th rule:

If all the above rules fail:

Even after all the above knowledge you never know when your heart skips a beat. If you somehow manage to fall for him then never reveal the feeling. There is no harm when girls make the first move but this is a clear case of rejection.

Wait for the time and play it safe. Who knows maybe he genuinely starts liking you? Then the choice is yours. If you want to play with his emotions the way he had been doing or if you want to be with him.

After all, why should boys have all the fun?

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