An average Indian male is always in a confused state of mind!

Who to listen to? To his heart that wants adventure, excitement and fun or to his mummy ji, who only wants a sober, decent, homely life for him? Unable to select between the two due to his conditioning from the stone-age era, he makes poor decisions and suffers his whole life with a life partner not fit for him!

Are you able to find your own life’s story in this?

I can understand as we all are in the same boat, well almost!

Look, nobody has seen heaven or hell, all that we have is our life on earth and it has to be spent happily while enjoying and having fun!

However, what most of us men do when it comes to selecting a girlfriend is we go for the so-called ‘bad’ girl of the society. Now how do you define ‘bad’? As per the double standards of our society, any girl who smokes, drinks, wears clothes that hardly cover her body and talks to boys or flirts with them is a bad girl! Simple! Now you must be wondering almost all men of our country do these things so are we all ‘bad’? Nah, these stupid rules are only for women, we men are the direct prasad of God to rule the planet! Hah!!

Anyways, so we men basically choose these girls as our girlfriends because we connect with them, we have a good time with them and somehow our sensibilities match. In short, we connect! You would think this is what is required in a life partner, that connection that will help to sail through the ups and lows of life, right? Wrong! This is not what our society teaches us! It says; go for the girls who despite seeking fun are domesticated by their over-zealous and over-protective parents, those girls who are only taught to grow up to be wives and mothers and servants of a family instead of becoming individuals and living an independent life! Can they give you fun? Yes, definitely, but not the kind of fun you may seek. You may want to travel the world; she may just want to raise the kids! You may have certain dreams and ambitions, her goal might only be to get the best out of her maid!

It is not that good girls don’t have bad aspects about their personalities or bad girls are like a black spot on the society. The whole thing is that this whole definition of good and bad is outdated, hypocritical and nauseating to the core! Goodness and badness of a human being are to be judged by the purity of their heart and soul, by their honesty, loyalty and such other ethics that make humans different from animals!

Therefore, stop being such an ass and classifying girls as good or bad! Girls are girls and should be loved, respected and treated equally as human beings, nothing more, nothing less! Choose the one who completes you and who you can complete and then take the most important decision of your life. It’s only one life, after all, right?

Live it on!

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Some guys love submissive, sweet girls and some (or you can say most of guys) would go crazy for a bad girl. Today we are bursting the common question- What makes bad girls so irresistible to guys? The answer is that many guys find bad girls are hotter and this factor has sex appeal which of course attracts the opposite sex. But this not all there are other traits of Alpha women which appeals guys the most.

Below are some traits of a ‘bad girl’that answers why men like to date badass women.

1. She stands out from rest.

She is different from the rest. Her style, demeanor, the way she thinks will completely stand her out from the crowd.Guys would love to be with a girl who is different and would be worthy to boast about her girl.

2. They are extrovert and outgoing and hate being a fake.

She would give out truth out rightly and they hardly know how to fake. And guys avoid the vicious circle of fake things so they are naturally drawn to them.

3. Cause they are very confident and tough nut!

They stand up for what they feel and are naturally confident. They hardly give a damn what people will think about them. They will not crumble down easily from the social pressures. And guys like confident women.

4. They come with lack of drama and are fun to be with.

They are easy and come with no baggage of drama. They believe in enjoying the present, taking risk and making life happening and men craves for these things.

5. A Badass girl is good at bed and are super adventurous

It’s common notion that good girls would be naïve at bed whereas bad chicks would great at sex. They hardly shy away and are known for their zealous and adventurous streak in them.

6. She is fiercely independent and doesn’t need you.

They take pride being self-reliant. The best part of dating them is they will never tie you down. When guys date bad girls men are aware about that they are not clingy and dependent. They would love. Guys love to be free and they are in awe and happiness when they have a partner who is free and independent as well.

7. She’s a doer and not a talker

This is one of the sexiest traits of a badass girl. No matter how many hurdles she has to face she will achieve her goal anyhow.

8. They are rebellious and love to challenge.

Badass girls would love to have healthy debates on variety of topics and will challenge others as well. And their rebellious attitude, their expression with logical point of view and independent opinions mesmerizes guys to the core.

Do you think alpha women make the best partner? It’s the bad girl who has edge over the good ones? Let us know your comments below!

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