Sometimes, you just know it without any evidence in front of you.
You don’t know how, but you feel it in your gut, and something tells you that your partner is cheating on you. And when you try confronting your lover, they swat your concerns away and tell you that you’re just over analysing everything.
This has happened to you, right?
There are times when you are convinced that your partner, girlfriend or boyfriend is cheating on you, even though you can’t find any proof of it?
The fact that you doubt your partner is a sign that things aren’t all rosy in romance land. And you need to know the truth, as to what is going on!
Here are a few out of the box ideas to get to the core of your Cheating Lover without letting them have a hint of what you are up to!
- Drop By Unannounced
Every now and then, drop by unannounced to their workplace or come back home early. Don’t make it obvious that you’re just spying on them. Instead, always have a great excuse to walk in unannounced. If your partner is cheating on you, the first thing they’d do (instead of welcoming you with a smile) is, hide something or appear surprised or even angry, or get too nervous!
- Check The Recycle Bin On Their Computer
The garbage is a great place to dispose of things. And sometimes, it also has a lot of clues. If your partner is on the computer often, check the computer’s recycle bin often. Chances are, there may be another person’s photo or a little snippet of information that could be of some use.
- Ask To Use Their Cellphone for An Emergency Call And Walk to Nearby Loo While On The Call
Does your partner carry their cell phone with them wherever they go, even if it’s a trip to the loo? If that’s happening in your relationship, there’s a good chance your partner’s up to something. Take a peek into their cell phone (use the trick to get your hands on their cellphone, if they don’t allow you to touch it quite often). Erased phone logs, a password protected phone, several calls to the same unknown numbers, are all good signs that your partner is trying to hide something. You can scan their phone while in the loo. They would of course be very angry when you come out, and for the obvious reasons.
- Catch Them Off the Track For A Spontaneous Sex Session
This works better if you’re a girl, and dating a guy. If your boyfriend or husband comes home late from any unexpected delay, try to have spontaneous sex with them when they get back home. If your guy gets angry, pushes you away or tries avoiding it at all costs, chances are, he may be exhausted down there. He could always wash himself up before getting home, but getting it up immediately and blowing a huge load, that’s not the easiest thing to do!
- Follow Them After A Fight
Most cheating partners intentionally try to pick fights, slam the door and walk away, because it makes a great excuse to slip out of the house and meet their adulterous lover. If your partner’s been picking fights and walking out of the house often recently, try to follow them on the pretense of apologizing (if they see you following them)
- Change Your Sleeping Habits
If your partner’s cheating on you, their sleeping habits may change almost overnight. They may stay up longer using the excuse of work, or you may catch them sneaking around the house late at night. Pretend like you’re asleep as soon as you hit the bed, and try to see if your partner’s up to something. And it’s not just late nights you need to think about. Some cheating partners may even wake up really early and get on the phone, especially if they realize you suspect them.
- Hidden Camera In Your Bedroom
Place a hidden camera in the bedroom or the room where your partner hangs out most often when they want alone time. If they’re over the phone or doing some funny business behind your back, you’ll know soon enough.
- Create Fake Social Media Profiles
Just create a fake Facebook profile and add a lot of random friends to make your account seem legitimate. And then, send an invite to your partner and get friendly with them. And over a few days or weeks, start flirting with them and see how they respond to you. Are they interested in meeting up or hooking up? If yes, then you know what to do!
- Softwares Are A Boon of Technology
There are many software in the market which can record whatever you want, the passwords they use, the letters they type, the pages they visit, or even record a video of the screen as they use the computer. You can also download a few paid apps over your phone and install a secret app in your partner’s phone to keep track of their calls too.
- GPS Device – Another Magic That Technology Offered
Are you the one who wants to catch your partner red handed? Then the stalker mode may work for you! Pick up a tiny GPS device that can be fixed to the underside of your partner’s car. You can track their movements and pounce on them when their pants are around their ankles in a dark corner somewhere!
If you feel insecure in a relationship, always talk to your partner and tell them what you feel. Sometimes, it may just be a silly misunderstanding. And communication always helps sort things out, even if one of you is on the verge of moving out.
But, if your doubts don’t get erased even after the conversation, then perhaps, the only way to get the real answers is by snooping around and looking for clues when your partner is too busy doing their own thing, catch them off guard and nail them with their misdeeds!