“Ways to deal with an obsessive boyfriend”
Having a boyfriend who is totally in love and crazy about you is a best thing in the entire world. But, if your boyfriend is totally obsessive about every particular thing you do then it’s time you take an action.
The signs of obsessiveness include; when he calls after every 5 minutes, he can’t stand to see you talking with anybody else, he is always controlling you, he keeps an eye on you for like 24/7 etc. Well, I certainly don’t need to tell you how annoying it feels to be in that place.
In reality, obsessive behaviour is a root of too much jealously and insecurity. And, if you think you’ve had enough then lady it’s time to speak up.
Wondering and confused about how exactly to deal with the situation? Well, don’t worry and follow these 5 ways to deal with an obsessive boyfriend.
1. Speak up
First thing foremost; talk about the overall obsessiveness you’re stuck into. Call him and meet at a certain place and explain your side about how uncomfortable and annoying you feel because of his behaviour.
The only motto is to clear your side and let him know about how unhealthy the relationship is turning out.
- Listen to his side
Once you’ve spoken about your side; give him a chance to explain his side.
Sometimes when a person doesn’t get enough love he tends to act a little bit possessive when someone starts giving him that respect. See his whole point can be; he just wants to love you and thus he expects that same love from you as well.
So, before you take any major action figure out and understand the problem from his side.
- Space is needed
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that’s the only world existing. Agree? You have a personal life with yourself too. So, if you feel that’s missing up then talk it out straightly and tell him about it.
Well, have a personal breathing space where you don’t need each other.
- Socialize and Observe
The best thing to do; take him with you or just hang around with his friends in the presence of him and notice how he behaves. If you feel his behaviour is too sticky and he is not giving you space to talk with any male friends only because he is possessive then thumb down.
No doubt, he is too much clingy.
- Good in goodbye
Before an obsessive relationship turns into an abusing one; make sure to find the good in goodbye. Yes, it will hurt but something’s are better to let go. If he is turning out to be the same obsessive lover every time then there’s certainly no point of a happy relationship.
If things are not moving forward to be good; it’s better you move on with life.
These are five ways to deal with an obsessive boyfriend that will help you live happily.
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