It is admittedly awesome to be born as humans. Being human involves a lot of compromise, compassion and of course, vulnerability. But decidedly, you are superior to other living creatures on earth whose lives are simpler than yours. Being born as a human also entails a lot of responsibilities, to take care of the family, to win bread and image building to say the least. But fitting the status quo is something that is paid highest of importance in the human society. Take for instance, have you ever seen a dog looking covetously at the high-end clothing stores? no! It also doesn’t have the peer pressure that we regularly face. No wonder, it gets lost in the crowd but we want to stick out or leave our mark. By and large, as we figured, these three things can help you gain dominance over human minds:
You are RICH:
Nobody really cares if you are not rich, no matter if you have inherited the property or broke a sweat to roll in the dough. Drawing from a recent instance, Beyoncé was tipped in to serenade the guests in the pre-wedding bash of Isha Ambani, daughter of Indian business dinosaur Mukesh Ambani while the world looked on. Their guest list in the pre-wedding bash itself included insanely famous people and we wondered what money can really do! My point is, Ambanis are always on the talking point because they have the riches. Also, if we look at the recent weddings, say, of Deepika Padukone-Ranveer Singh, Virat Kohli- Anushka Sharma or Priyanka Chopra-Nick Jonas, they could afford priciest of fineries and venue their weddings in dreamy places like Lake Como, Italy or Umaid Bhavan Palace, Jodhpur. In a nutshell, you need to be a deep pocket to be recognized.
You are BEAUTIFUL:
You are ought to be beautiful to draw attention. I am not going into the debate as to whether the beauty standards set by the society are arbitrary. I am just saying the overall beauty that gets you noticed. The concept of beauty is by far associated with women and if seen in that light, the world has worshipped beautiful women like Marilyn Monroe, Audrey Hepburn, Madhubala, Meena Kumari, Aishwarya Rai Bachhan, Halley Berry, Julia Roberts and the list goes on. The bottom line is, you have to have sharp, god gifted facial features which makes you stick out from the bevy of beautiful women.
You are INTELLIGENT:
If you are beauty and brains rolled into one, there is no looking back for you. But if your grey matter weakens others’ confidence, know for sure, you are here to stay. Intelligent people are also good speakers which is the basic requirement of building good human network. If you can speak well, speak sense at that or connect to a lot of people, you will definitely be heard and lauded.
These three things help you assume much gravitas in the human society. Point to be noted!