Ups and downs are part of a life!

So hold yourself strong even when you are going through a low phase. Especially during and after breaking up with the person you thought you loved the most in the world (of course besides your parents and siblings).

Expressing your sadness through flowing tears or via crying is okay but only for a few days, as this may lighten your heart! Doing it for longer period could be harmful for this could lead to depression or any mental or psychological disorder. Instead, you must emerge as a survivor and not as a victim. Playing a victim game will cause you no good. While surviving will boost you in various areas of lifethat ahead waiting for you to explore.

You never know, you may end up meeting your real soulmate in the journey!

However, you need to ensure to do these five things to yourself to find your real self again after break up!

1. Think “You Are Awesome”

If you have notion about yourself being inferior, then slap yourself hard and remind yourself that you are as awesome as you have always been! A break up or if someone refused to stay with you for forever doesn’t mean that you are any less. Simply, accept the fact that the both of you are not meant to be together. Or He/she doesn’t deserve your love. Or someone much deserving is waiting to be discovered. This can happen only when you stay awesome and open to the feeling of love. Hence, make a list of all good things about you and things that you are grateful for, all because to bring goodness in your life.

2. Get More Fit

Sweat, sweat and sweat! This will relieve you off the stress, you have been dealing with during break up phase. Also, workout will help boosting your confidence. You can go on a walk, run, jog or join gym, aerobics classes etc. to make yourself fitter than ever. Your ex should feel guilty of leaving you, after seeing you in much better shape emotionally, physically and mentally, still doing better in life! However, that shouldn’t be your focus.Your focus should only on improving yourself for the betterment of you!

3. Pamper Yourself

Enough of crying over a breakup! Now, it’s time to pamper those swollen eyes, shabby hair, and unmanaged nails that have become due to negligence towards your own self! Go to a day spa and spend some good time detoxifying yourself. If you have been bingeing on junks post break up blues, stop it immediately! Instead focus on detoxifying diet such as juices, fruits salad and vegetable salad. You could also go on a vacation either with friends or alone! Change of place will have a refreshing impact on your soul! Believe us!

4. Revive Old Relationships That Matter

In a relationship, your partner becomes the priority in your life that you tend to side line or distancing all other relationships like of friend, acquaintances or even family members. After it gets over, you feel alone as there are not people who mattered around! This doesn’t mean they don’t care for you. It could be that they are not aware of your break up, since you have distanced yourself from them emotionally by not sharing your life with them, by not making time for them. Now, this is the time to make a list of all people who mattered to you, start calling each one of them one by one and planning a meet for hang out either for a movie or travel or simply for a coffee. Share your life with them. You will feel happy and beautiful again, surrounded by beautiful friends and family again!

5. Focus on Your Career or Personality Growth

One question that people ask is “What do you do to make a living?” You should always have a strong answer to leave your impact on the world around! Also, good career keeps you financially secure, which is really important to indulge in life’s luxuries. A highly ambitious woman or man are always respected in our society. Find out what you love to do and do it to the best of your ability. You could also learn a new hobby like cooking, knitting or gardening to keep your mind focus on productive things in life. This will also make you feel worthy and good about your own self.

Do these five things to yourself and you will soar high in the sky that your ex wouldone day find you with gorgeous wings and wished if he or she had been flying beside you! What better feeling could it be!

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The Queen of Bollywood, Kangana Ranaut, is taking the fashion industry by its storm, undoubtedly!

Recently, she took the breath of her fashionista fans away when she walked as designer Manav Gangwani’s muse at India Couture Week, flaunting her ultra-gorgeous deep wine gown.

She is not a woman who loves fashion only on ramp but one could quickly grasp her elegant sense of sartorial at many of her events appearances and real life occasions too.

Here are the FIVE reasons why we think Kangana Ranaut is the coming of age fashionista!

1. Indian Designers’ Queen

Take any of India’s leading couture designers’ name, there is not one who would have not thought of Kangana Ranaut as their ultimate muse!From JJ Valaya, Manav Gangwani, Suneet Varma to Anju Modi, she has walked for all. Even Bollywood director cum producerKaran Johar, when turned into a designer, chose her to play his muse for his latest Vero Modo collection.

In one of her interviews with a newspaper, she said –

I am not comfortable walking the ramp for just any designer. I am particular about who I associate with. While choosing a fashion show I take into consideration the designer and the collection. Then only I said yes to do a show.

2. First Actress to Let only Her Dress Be the Showstopper

Wherever she goes, you will get to talk about her dress, her bags and her shoes. That’s it! She has no space for jewellery, a trend she is setting since a year! She completely let her dress be the shining armour in any appearances.

3. First Actress to Go Hollywood Way in Her Style with a Complete Elan.

She is a greatest fan of Burberry, Dior, McQueen and Miu Miu among many international brands. She has been spotted donning any of these brands either in a piece or from fully head to toe. Whatever she wore, she did it with full confidence, choosing to go off tread.

4. Air of Confidence in Her Style

In her blog “officialkanganaranaut.com”, she commented on her style when she decided to wear a Valentino dress, similar to the dress that British actress Audrey Hepburn once wore,but with a complete twist because she doesn’t like the soft girl image. Instead, she loves to balance her feminine, daring and quirky sides together!

“When I first saw this Valentino dress in Milan, it reminded me of the pink Givenchy dress from Breakfast at Tiffany’s that was made for Audrey Hepburn. She looked like a fairy, but I didn’t want to look that soft…that’s why avant-garde hair and makeup with this very classic and chic dress. This is my interpretation of boho chic.”

5. Knows How To Keep Her Fashion a Constant Fresh

Be it wearing floral dress or striped prints, every time she appears in public there is a fresh sense of style exuding from her personality. We loved the way she dressed up in Miu Miu dress with shoes or choosing to go Delphine Manivet for her recent film Katti Batti trailer launch or flaunting her style in Aquilano Rimini dress with Topshop shoes. She knows how to keep her style always different, that too effortlessly! Kangana is not a fashion follower but a trend setter! Don’t you agree?

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