In our life, we meet many people and select one person with whom we feel like living the rest of our life. But suddenly some signs show that he or she is not that person but still we do not do anything as sometimes these signs are ignored by knowingly or unknowingly.

And this hampers the bond further. So it is better to ask yourself and to your partner about where is the relationship going? Time to pause and think about it instead of just leading own lives.

Follow these signs to know whether your relationship is heading to a dead end or not.

1. No hanging out.

If you both hardly hang out or go on a date then this a red flag. You must take care to rekindle your relationship. Both have to take efforts to meet up or decide on meetings or dates.

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“In desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place.”
― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

Break ups usually happened the couples do not resolve their fights.

It is difficult to re connect after a terrible fight as you feel appalled destroyed. So how to reduce this coldness and bring the love back? It is not hard to recover from bad fight if you follow some quick steps to resolve the issue!

Below are the steps to bounce back your and ways to mend your relationship-

1. Calm Yourself And Give Space:

Let the intensity of the fight go off and wait till you and your partner gets cool down as well. Don’t be victim of your immediate reactions as reacting and arguing incessantly will leave you feel regretful ultimately. So it’s best to calm down, relax and stop communicating for a while.

2. Communication should be now effective and constructive after the tiff:

Do not try to open the same chapter of fight again. Use language the correctly. You can bring back the topic later to showcase your viewpoint calmly later. Then, take time to listen to your partner’s side of the story and try to have compassion for their feelings and perceptions.

3. If you think it was your mistake then you should offer sincere apology:

 This is another way to repair your relation by proffering sincere apologies. It is important to apologize sincerely.

4. Do not build up grudge and try and come close:

Do not hold any grudges after that as this will not at all help to fix your relationship. If you showcase your vulnerable side then your partner may not like to make move again. Showcase some compassion or one can also indulge in make up love.

5. Final Step- To show how much you care and love:

You should show how to much you care and love about him or her. Try to hug, touch and make an eye contact. Talk on some other topics better if you talk on some lighter note. If you show how much you care for your partner then bigger issues can be resolved.

6. Surprise and make your spouse cheer and happy:

Make your bae happy by giving some good surprise by giving a gift or by having a memorable date. Spending quality time is really helpful to cope up with the sourness.

These are some easy ways to tackle the fight and bring back your relationship on right track!

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You cannot be a girl in a relationship and not have boyfriend problems!

There is something with this present day boyfriend lot that you just cannot correct! They are incorrigible, simply!

And the big trouble with most of them is that they never cease being “boys”.

As men refuse to grow up and we girls have to live with them, these boyfriend problems are inevitable. And hence the accusing the boyfriends goes on!

I have a neat list of 7 top most accusations that my boyfriend takes from me every other day: 

1.  He is not serious about me:

Every time I have this groupie get-together, or a friends movie night out, I see him blatantly flirting with my girlfriends! What the heck? If at all he is serious about me, he wouldn’t hit on my friends, that too so idiotically in front of me?? Am I not sufficient for him?

2.  He Avoids Real Issues:

He doesn’t really want to think too much about his or my personal lives. He will do all the brain work for other things, other stupid things like, who is going to win the next football season and stuff like that, but, real life??? WHOA, what is that??

3.  He Is Utterly Irresponsible:

He has just never taken any real responsibility. It’s me who is responsible, even about the things that matter to him. He will always forget my mum’s birthday and even mine. And guess what, the worst, he turned at my boss’s farewell party in his torn jeans, just because he forgot to get his trousers washed!! Like what?

4.  He Spends Too Much Time With His Friends:

No matter, I am sitting alone waiting for his phone call, or just wanting to talk to him over a pressing issue in the family, he is always busy with his friends, either over a jamming session, or a drinks night! I have given up all my friends for him, but he never understands any damn thing! It’s always about his freedom! As if my freedom doesn’t mean anything.

5.  He Doesn’t Want To Get Married:

He has this huge commitment phobia and I guess it is the most common relationship problem with all of us, right? Some men are boys even when they are 40; and he is just one of them. Don’t know when will he understand!

6.  He Has No Emotions:

Absolutely not! I have never seen him getting upset when something goes wrong with me! The other day my pup’s foot got stuck in a hole and I was crying like hell. He didn’t even blink his eye! He never does that! Even if it was me whose foot got stuck or broken! He is so insensitive and so emotionless!

7.  He doesn’t like to buy me presents:

Yeah right! I have seen my girl clan’s closets full of presents from their boyfriends, but mine? He just wouldn’t spend a penny to buy me a nice branded bag! He has all the money for his DVDs and stupid car stuff. But for me, never!!

So girls, these are mine! I always accuse my boyfriend of these, on his face! Do you share any of these boyfriend problems with me?

Do you accuse yours, of any other?

Do share below!

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