First Love – For many, getting over first love is really, really hard.

I mean, you really cannot forget your FIRST LOVE easily. To be honest, you can never forget it’s magic. The butterflies you had in your stomach, staring, blushing stories, everything about first love is just so, so special. First love is something that will always hold a special place in our heart. It isn’t something that can be forgotten, even though you’re on the next chapter of your life. You know, no matter what; there’s a certain MAGIC in it and many people can’t escape it.

I still remember everything about my first love. Do you remember yours? So you do? I’ll assume that you do IF it has been special in some ways. We all know, that NOT every person on this earth is lucky enough to get to live their LiFe with their first love. I, honestly think that the ones out there who married their FIRST LOVE are the luckiest people.

I’m sure there are many out there who think the same thing.

First Love, I tell you.

Have you ever wondered “why” we can’t get over it? Memories? Yep, because of the memories we made. Or maybe because for the first time we saw someone and our hearts started beating faster & faster & faster. It was a pure magical thing.

Some people on Reddit shared “why” it is hard to let go not thinking about first love so easily. In many ways, I agreed to the points they shared because they are so relatable. I think, that many out there will surely relate to these reasons too. Yeah, you might’ve NOT experienced it in the same way but there’ll be some emotions that you might’ve experienced too and that’s something that’ll make it relatable.

So here’s what the Redditors have to say about the magic of FIRST LOVE. Some shared whether they REALLY get over their FIRST LOVE or not. I asked my FRIENDS about “why” they think it is unforgettable and they shared their points too.

Feel Free to share your story in the comment section below.

Enjoy!!

• Love back then seemed like this special thing that selected you and you were just there for it and it was like all the movies and it was wonderful and great and the sun was always warm.
• Because it happened for the first time. It is still special to me because it is my “first” and this makes it impossible to get over. I remember it till now because it can never truly fade away.
• I still remember it. Even today after 30 years almost. It is special because I felt I suddenly bloomed when it happened to me. Till date, the person is special even though we no longer are together.
• I definitely still think about him all the time. I wonder if he’s ok (his health was very poor) I wonder if he’s moved on, if he’s happy, healthy, enjoying life, if he’s finally learned to smile a little bit and stop being so stressed and angry all the time. (Memories)
• I think when you share a lot of firsts together it makes it a lot harder to let them go completely.
• If someone is your first, then they obviously hold a special place in your heart- it’s hard to forget people like that….usually.
• You fall in love one time and spend the rest of your life trying to recreate that moment.
• I remember it because it was special in many ways. We decided and created dreams about future. It didn’t worked out. It hurts a bit that you finally bring those dreams into reality with someone else and not the one you shared it with first.

First Love – What’s your story? Comment below.

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These 5 Reasons Will Never Let You Forget Your First Love!

First love is unforgettable and if you have ever fallen in love, you will understand what I am saying.

Though it’s not true that we find love only once in life, but it is a fact that the First Love – first person we fall in love with, always stays in our heart and mind till death.

You may fall in love 4-5 times in a lifetime before you meet your partner, first love will always be the most special to you.

Here are the reasons why you will not be able to forget your first love.

First Love –

1. It was the first time you understood love

Before we actually fall in love, we feel like it’s no big deal and nothing will change in our life. But just when our first love knocks our door and we drown in the feelings of being in love, we understand how beautiful it is to fall in love. That person introduces you to love and it’s not possible to forget it ever.

2. You set up relationship goals for the first time

When you fall in love for the first time, everything is new for you and you get the liberty of building your own relationship goals. Your first relationship makes your realize what you expect from your partner and how you would want your relationships to be. Basically, it is when you learn how it is being in a relationship and that surely is unforgettable.

3. You say ‘I love you’ for the first time

Though it becomes a very usual thing in life after a while, saying ‘I love you’ for the first is a different feeling in itself. It’s like you have always kept these 3 words like a treasure in your heart and you finally found a person you can give it to. Isn’t that very special?

4. You have a secret love story

Usually, our first love remains a secret to the world for a long time because it’s the first time it happens to us and we are not used to telling people about it. Then you both have a secret love story full of sneaking in and out which is super fun to be in.

5. Your heart breaks for the first time

No matter what the reason behind your break up with your first love is, it always hurts badly. Sometimes, you have no clue how to feel about it and what to do to get over it. It’s a weird feeling to go through a heart break for the first time in life and I don’t think someone can forget that.

If you are also one of those who haven’t forgotten their first love yet, don’t worry it happens with a lot of us. And if you are someone who hasn’t fallen in love yet, be careful, it’s impactful.

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