We all have has those days where we sat at a corner and stared endlessly at the guy we crush on!

His smile, his swag, his style – they have made you fall on your face.

You have wished deep inside that you were dating him, but never had the guts to go up and ask him out!

Well, let’s discuss some simple ways how to date your crush even without asking!

Let your style do the talking:

Why do you need to dress down and make yourself look nervous? Get some fashion magazines, find out the latest trends and try on new styles that suit you and makes you comfortable! Let your clothes do the talking! Dress to impress. The guy is bound to notice you for sure!

Let your friends do the talking:

Who said only men have wingman? Even women are allowed the same! But make sure you pick the right friend who wouldn’t end up dating him (haha) or one that would go to any extent to spill out the best about you to him! Best is to use a friend of the opposite sex- that way you’re safe in all manner!

Get his number:

No, don’t get it slyly and text him – it will creep him out! Make sure he has noticed you or find some reason to text him – a reason that could help you to be in conversation with him properly and then develop it from there. Do not show off during your texts and neither should you act like a shy cat. Be yourself and continue your conversation with him!

Let him like you for who you are!

It is super hard to ask out someone when you know you are the shy type! But it is even worse, when you don’t ask them out and they end up with someone else – your love story reaches a sad ending.

Why let such an instance happen in your life?

Go ahead and create your own easy way to ask out your crush!

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Are you eyeing at someone since a while?

Do you want to take the first step?

Go for it is what we say.

A coffee date is the most convincing meeting that you can set up with someone whom you really want to know better and a have a liking for.

We bring to you a quick guide that you can glance through which will help you on your special day…

Decide on a cafe where you have been before

It is always safe if you set up the first ever one on one meeting at a known place. Choose a cafe where you have been before and most importantly which makes you comfortable.  In no ways the ambience should be too cluttered or very cosy. Avoid cafes that play loud music, remember you need to listen to each other. Hurting your voice chord might make you look a little funny.

Be kind and help your date to choose his/her order

As it is said, the first impression is always the last impression; during a coffee date make sure you don’t miss out on any chance of getting these impressions right. In a state of confusion help your date to decide on what he/she can call for. Ask his/ her taste and then order. Don’t end up making a fool out of yourself by ordering anything that it not palatable.

Never experiment of anything new on the menu

These days a lot of popular coffee shops are coming up with interesting offers. Impressive marketing tricks but avoid falling for it. You can impress your date with some other smart moves. Many people get attracted with the person across the table not only with his/her long talks but also with the person’s taste when it comes to choosing the right thing from the menu. So, focus on getting that right.

If you have taken the efforts to make the date happen – Pay the bill too

After days of stalking/chasing you actually impressed someone to come out with you over coffee. Don’t just treat yourself for that effort, be generous and pay for both. Never spilt the bill. This action doesn’t mean you are trying to prove that you have extra bucks but it is just being nice. Probably, it is just a reason to meet your date again and give him/her a chance to treat you back.

Write a message on a tissue & give it to you date – Sweet memories, you see!

Cliché! But this is a cute gesture that you can end up giving your date. Write a witty line or something that will make your date giggle whenever he or she reads it. Make sure you don’t end up penning down on a used tissue. That might directly end up going into the thrash box.

So what are you waiting for? Buckle up and ask that special person out for brewing some lovely conversations.

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