2.You both love each other the way you are. Not at all self conscious.
Of course there are some traits that you do not like about each other. But still you would never ever would love to kill the real him or her. You still love the person he or she is and would never want to change his or her main essence or ask for complete transformation as you love and more importantly respect each other. You do not have to behave as a fake or be self anxious about your looks or the way you are.