The Balancing Act ‘“ Marriage V/S Motherhood

In a woman’s life both marriage and motherhood are the biggest turning point.

It does change your life upside down and makes you have some of the best experiences of your life.

When a women enters into a marriage, she adjusts to the all-new world marrying her husband, accepting new people as her new family and be with them with all love and compassion.

This is one thing that every woman goes through.

Similarly, motherhood is the next turn in a woman’s life after the marriage. A woman goes through zillions of changes both physically and mentally. When woman is a mother apart from taking care of the kid, she also needs to balance between her household and work. When she becomes a mother then it goes challenging because you are unable to spend quality time with your husband.

So we let you know, how you can keep up the connection with your husband post your motherhood.

Be mentally prepared

Firstly, whenever you plan for a kid, it is important you give a deep thought about it and make sure you both are mentally prepared to take up the responsibility. It is also important to accept the fact that you are ready to share each other with someone else. Both for a man and a woman this thing comes as a challenge that you need to be prepared for the consequences.

 

Share at the end of the day

When you become a mother, a lot of time is occupied in the upbringing of the kid and this is the time when you unable to spend time with your husband. Numerous responsibilities, many sleepless nights make you tired. But at the end of the day make sure you do have a conversation and talk as much as you can before going to bed which will be very helpful in restoring the marriage.

 

Cook for him sometimes

Taking out some time from your kid and cook something special for your man can be a good surprise and at the same time it will make him happy too. Cooking his favourite dish and and you putting in efforts to it will surely be counted by him.

 

Spend time together with the kid

This is very important time when your whole family bonds together and this time will also do wonders to your marriage. When you all spend time together it will help you spend time with your husband at the same time.

This balancing act is surely a challenge for women but if you handle it smartly you are surely going to nail it!