https://www.youngisthan.in/hindi/modi-gov-oppose-triple-talaq-34299/ Empowering Youth Sat, 15 Oct 2016 14:38:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.2 https://www.youngisthan.in/hindi/modi-gov-oppose-triple-talaq-34299/#comment-1234 Sat, 15 Oct 2016 14:38:00 +0000 http://www.youngisthan.in/hindi/?p=34299#comment-1234 Dear Vivek Tyagi ji,
Jahan tak mujhe knowledge hai ki TALAQ, shabd sirf aur sirf Islam mein hai. Talaq shabd islam se liya gaya hai, Christianity, Hinduism, Yahoodi kahin par iss ka jikr nahi hai.
Ab aatey hai talaq dene ki wajah aur tareeqa
Agar aap ke jodey ke saath aap ko pareshani hai, guzara mushkil lag raha hai, toh aap usey samjhayen, Agar maan jaye toh mamla khatm. Agar na maney toh ussey baatchit band karein, yahan par maan jaye to mamla khatm.
Agar yahan bhi na maaney toh apna bistar alag kar le aur ussi kamre mein alag soyen. Itne mein bahut mumkin hai ki saraa mamla rafa dafa ho jaye. Agar phir bhi baat na baney toh ye baat miyan biwi se bahar nikalkar rishtedaron tak pahunchaen/apne aur partner ke gharwalon ko batayen, ummeed hai fayda ho jaye. Phir bhi baat na baney to Nikah ke Qazi ko khabar karein ki who aakar samjhayen.
Zara ghaur karein iss process mein lagbhag do se 4 mahine lagenge. Kya aapko lagta nahi ki itne mein rishte sudhar jayenge. Agar yahan tak mamla nahin sudharta hai to TALAQ ka process start hota hai.
Aap apne jodey ko sirf ek talaq denge aur 3 month 13 din uske positive attitude ka intezar karenge Agar sab thhik ho jata hai toh koi baat nahi and toh doosri talaq dein. Doosri talaq ke baad Nikah toot jata hai rishta nahi. Phir 3 mahine 13 din intezar karein mamla thik ho jaye toh dubara nikah kar lein nahin toh teesra talaq dekar mehar ada karein aur mamla khatm.
Ab zara hum aaj ke halaat par ghaur karein toh ye payenge ki aaj hum sab Hitech duniya mein aachuke hain, FB/WhatsApp/G+/Matrimonial Sites par hum mann ki shanti ke liye khoobsurat chehre dhoondhtey hain. Apne barey jab ye kahte hain ki main shadisuda hoon toh samne se response milta hain ki “I don’t like Polygamy” aur tab hum agar muslim hain toh saarey qayde kanoor/shariat ka tareeq chhod kar seedha talaq ka hathiyar use karte hain. Agar other than Muslim hain toh hum Court ka sahara lete hain. Divorce ke liye apply karte hain aur jo advance thinkers hain who partner ko hi raaste se hataa (murder karwa) dete hain ya khud maar dalte hain.
Mere samajh mein ye nahi aata hai ki iss mein dharm ka mamla kahan aata hai. Islam ne aasan zindagi jeeney ke liye Talaq ka rashta dikhaya na ki sharab peekar zindagi barbad karne ke liye/ayyasi ke liye zindagi barbad karne ke liye.
Maang uthne lagi hai ONE CIVIL CODE for every one. Kya ek civil code se talaq ko rak sakte hain ???? toh jawab hoga nahi kyonki mamla hamare apne character se juda hai na ki dharm se.
Dharm ka naam hum sirm issliye lete hain ki ye ek dharmik kanoon jissey dunia ke sarey mulk ne apnaya (with some small modification, as per their locality/suitability)
Main sabhi readers se appeal karta hoon ki khuley dil se iss debate mein hissa lein aur koshish karein ki kissi bhi dharm ke against mein comments na ho, kissi ki bhavna aahat na ho, kissi ko ghali na dein. Hum log sabhy ki tarah byawahar karein.

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